Just a few more thoughts on #AsWeSeeIt because I'll bust if I keep them in...
Harrison says no suit. But apparently that's unimportant because it's "his sister's big day!" JFC how about we show people giving an inch rather than shoving a mile. Acceptance looks like a clean tee.
Violet "thought they were in love". Well, did anyone take time to discuss relationships? Did anyone have a safer sex talk? Or did they expect a grown woman not to have a sex life? The messaging here is so wrong here on such a grand scale. #AsWeSeeIt
This is giving me shades of Blaxploitation albeit with a patently inferior soundtrack. We have the stereotypes, the tokenization, the well-meaning "let me civilize you" white folk, all wrapped up in autistic leads played by autistic actors.
Mandy is timing Harrison's pain, inflicted by her, on a stopwatch all while carrying on another casual conversation then squeals GOOD JOB as if she's training a puppy. That is actually happening on the screen in front of me in 2022.🤦🏽♀️
This Mandy character, the disability aide worker, is hugging and kissing her employers and telling them she loves them. This is just a whole thing, isn't it? #AsWeSeeIt
What non-autistic people may not realize is that the situations depicted in #AsWeSeeIt are shared by many of us, no matter our support needs. High-masking autistic people are still autistic.
And now we're being treated to the inevitable speech on how mysterious & burdensome we are but that we make our loved ones "better people".
You know what would make them better people? Attending to our actual needs thereby reducing meltdowns. Acceptance. Respect. #AsWeSeeIt
In news to no one #ActuallyAutistic, we are "a hell of a burden but also a gift." How is that supposed to make people feel? Who talks about people this way? Yet we're expected to put up with it. Oh right, we don't count as people. #AsWeSeeIt
Aaaand that's a wrap. I burned a lot of screen time on #AsWeSeeIt but if I'm going to do right by us, it was needed. It makes some strides in casting but is dated in just about every other facet. Go watch something that makes you happy because this is def not a celebration of us.
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As with "Love On The Spectrum" before this, I'm needing to take frequent rage breaks as I screen #AsWeSeeIt. The infantilizing. The do-gooding. The dismissiveness. Perpetuating that we are odd, difficult burdens only serves to make the audience feel good about themselves.
For the record, casting authentically is great. Great! But without us in creative positions, the narrative is still the same old othering we've seen forever. #AsWeSeeIt
Further, just because autistic people are included, does not magically absolve productions of responsibility. We too live within this "normal", are exposed to the same belittling messages then believe we are less. Being autistic doesn't grant powers of transcendence. #AsWeSeeIt
I finally took an improv class at @SecondCityTO. It was super fun b/c the instructor let me observe rather than interact so I was able to learn a bunch of really useful info. Then came the angry abusive desk clerk who unloaded on me saying I'd been "aggressive this whole time"...
@SecondCityTO When I gave my credit card to pay, he refused to give it back because "collateral" then threatened to call the police. I have no idea what he was on but it was terrible. I told him he could us inclusivity training because he was treading in lawsuit territory. His response was...
@SecondCityTO ...to ask me what my disability was. I told him he couldn't ask that. He then asked the instructor if I'd been giving him trouble then proceeded to comment derisively on my stimming (I was trying to keep calm).