Maa. Mumma. Ammi. Amma. Mom. Mum. Mummy. Mama. This one word has so many alterations in all different languages but in every child’s life, the value of their mother is beyond understanding. And then there is our beloved Rita Aunty, who so many of
us fondly refer to as Rita Maa. This woman is an Iron Lady. She is made of a special kind of mitti. She faces the hardest problems in life with her head held high, with dignity, elegance, courage and so so much strength. All 3 of her children are such eloquent, matured, dignified
and intelligent people. She raised them so so well and that’s how we see she’s done her job right. She is a wonderful mother; we know because Sidharth always voices his appreciation for her. Fearlessly voicing your incredible opinions, crafting well spoken arguments, standing up
for yourself, belief in gender equality and the importance of family. These are just some of the traits we have seen that she passed onto her children. Aur bache to maa ki chavi hote he na? Rita Maa taught all her kids these values. She is the one who shaped them into the people
we love so much. I remember very clearly one line from the letter she wrote to Sidharth, “Don’t be a version of what others want you to be, be the best version of yourself.” What a smart teaching. Just that one letter of hers gave Sidharth so much strength, honsla and himmat. So
you can only imagine what kind of a mother she is. And this lady? This absolutely insanely loving and caring lady helped Shehnaaz rise again after everything that happened while she herself was facing her worst nightmare. We fans have so much to be grateful for when it comes to
her.She has given us Sidharth, and she has given us the Shehnaaz who is able to smile and laugh after everything their family has been through. We owe her so much.The two people that make me the happiest, she’s their strongest support system. So on this day;I pray for her health
and her safety and her healing.I pray that all the things she does to help those in need-she gets all the reward for it.I hope she gets a lot of comfort and solace today and I hope Allah gives her even more strength and courage. Life is unfair. No ones knows it better than her.
And yet she remains faithful in God, she continues to pray and do well for others and practise her religious teachings. While I’m not familiar with BK teachings, as someone who is religious I appreciate seeing that degree of unwavering faith in God today. Rita Maa is the best
guide, the best mentor and the kindest woman. For Shehnaaz’s father to say that the Shukla family gave Shehnaaz even more love than perhaps they were able to, that is a huge thing. Maa ka dil boht bara hota he. Aur Rita Maa ka dil to itna bara he ke ussme unhone Itne
saare logun ke liye jagah banayi hui he. I hope we can all send her positivity today and courage. Rita Maa, you are a huge part of the people we love and so our love spreads to you too. Eternally grateful for your existence. God bless. So so much love, respect and honour for
you. Infinite prayers from me ❤️ Happy Happy Birthday Rita Maa. May Allah give you good health and protect you. Ameen.
And on a lighter note, you really do age like fine wine! Itni beautiful kese Ho aap?! 🥰
When I was younger, I would watch Disney movies all the time. Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Rapunzel, Snow White, Beauty and the Beast. I would watch them, and rewatch them again and again. The princesses were always /1
so pretty, so kind and caring, and they were even able to talk to animals. They’d eventually fall in love and find a prince and live happily ever after. As I got older, I realised that there’s much more to life than Disney movies and these conventions only occur in films. /2
And so I grew out of my Disney movie obsession. It was too unrealistic for me to be into anymore, not to mention how uncool it was seen as by the time you reach a certain age. Fate seemed to have other plans though, because I witnessed a love story just as magical, /3
He never willingly would have gone. He never would put his mother through that, never. He always wanted her to be healthy, happy, proud and strong. In front of her, he was just a small bacha. They never deserved this. Meri Ek tayi ammi hein, unke bete ki death Ho gayi thi -
- when he was 30 years old, in a foreign country and his friends brought his body home. Wo aaj tak intezaar Karti hein apne bete ka. Abhi tak accept ni kiya, apne aap ko ye dilaasa deti hein ke wo abhi b pardes hein, bas aa jayen ge Kuch waqt me. Unko ye cheez boht dukh deti he-
-, unki sehat boht kharab rehti he lekin wo wait karti hein. Wo nahi maanti ke wo nahi hein. Maa ka dil he na? Ese kese maan jaye. Wo unke laadle the, ghar me sab se chote bhai. Maa ka pyaar Kabhi khatam nahi Hota. Itne dard se kisi ke liye -
I promised myself not to be negative but I’ve been breaking a lot of promises to myself recently. He was, is the centre of her world. Her eyes in the pictures we saw today - I just feel like a huge change has occurred in her. And it’s heartbreaking. She’s strong for Di’s and -
- Shehnaaz and her family, but unke dil ka haal kon jaane? Sidharth itna pampered bacha he ke wo usska kaam hamesha karti thi, even when he grew up. Uss ki shararat, uss ki baatein, uss ki awaaz me “Maa” sunna, uss ke liye sab Kuch karna. Wo sab unke Dimag me 24/7 chalta hoga.
Aaj lakhon log unko Maa bula rahe he aur haan hum dil se b bula rahen he; lekin jis Ek insaan se wo ye sunna chahti hein, uss insaan ki awaaz ke liye unhe itna Tadap na par raha Ho ga. We know what Sidharth is like. He and his sisters probably plan the best day for her on her -
Before watching BB13 I used to think that people should confess their love if it’s what they feel. Agar pyaar karte Ho kisi se, to bolne me kya harj he? I love you bol ke b dikha na chahiye na? But when I watched BB13, my thinking completely changed. /1
Sidharth was the one who changed this. We didn’t see/weren’t shown bold confessions, massive proposals or cliche speeches from Sidharth. But you know what? I’m glad we didn’t. What we saw was a lot deeper and beautiful than all that. We saw his love in his actions. /2
We saw it in his holding her hand, his forehead kisses, his tight squeezes, in him being unable to sleep peacefully without her, pampering her, massaging her feet, complimenting her to make her feel special like every girl wishes to be, being able to stand everything; - /3
Just a few minutes ago, the world was overwhelmed with joy and now tremendous grief. Heartbroken. I’m so sorry, Rayan. May Allah grant you the highest rank in Jannat ul Firdaus and grant your parents sabr. Ameen.
Subha se Rita Aunty ke baare me soch ri hu. Ek maa ke liye apne bachon ko apni life me jaate dekhna, that’s unimaginable. They go through so much to keep their child alive for 9 months, then raise them to mature and eventually be capable of living without their parents. It’s -
- never supposed to be the child going so soon for a mother. A mother’s worst nightmare is losing her child. Sidharth is her entire world. They’d never been away from each other for longer than 4.5 months in BiggBoss and now it’s been 5. At least then she could see him, hear -
- him, and know how he was doing. I haven’t watched Sidharth’s family round since he went. I can’t. I can’t think of Rita Aunty’s pain, neither do I have a remedy for it. This will be her first birthday without her son. Her son who people idolise as a role model son. Her son -