Hey white guys who facilitate trainings that include anti-harassment modules: when you say “I hate these trainings- just don’t be stupid”, it tells me two things. 1) you’ve never recognized harassment in your life and 2) you don’t take hostile work environments seriously.
Also not a comprehensive anti-harassment statement: “don’t be an asshole”, “don’t act like a dick”, “be smart”.
Anti harassment and anti hostile work environment trainings should include how to recognize harassment of others and yourself, what to do in those situations (FIRM steps), and an examination of biases.
“Don’t be stupid” is a passive approach that negates both your power in the workplace and shifts blame when you enable harassment or are the aggressor.
A little follow up: this is especially frustrating coming from men because 1) you have almost all the power, 2) men make up the highest percentage of harassers, and 3) I’ve know several men who were shut down by other guys when they were victims and it’s disgusting.
On this last point: men I know have been unable to identify they’re being harassed because other dudes dismiss their harassment, tell them to grow a thicker skin, or reinforce the myth that men can’t be harassed.
OR they identify the harassment and other men treat them like they’re weak, not trustworthy, or just generally exclude them and make their life hell.
You’re not serving ANYONE by not thinking critically about your place in a work environment and taking these things seriously- especially not your bros.
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My partner pointed out what’s wrong with Aggretsuko: “at the end of the season, everything is returned to the status quo.” It’s true and it’s annoying.
Aggretsuko has several interesting characters with complicated relationships it continuously misused and then tosses away by the season finale to ensure everyone buys into the unacceptable norm.
There’s no growth, no arcs, no changes that aren’t smashed with a hammer by the end of the episode so everything can go back to how it was.
Batman asks Harley what this “sick infatuation with Joker is”, which is hilarious and ironic. Pot calling the kettle.
I do have so many questions about the premise of this episode: where did dude get an abomb? Why was it stored in a warehouse with no safety measures? Where is the federal government? None of these are answered, but Gotham’s most toxic couple have been reunited.
This is a safe space to discuss luchador Bane. #batman
Fable II is my (problematic) favorite video game. It had like 2 women on its dev team of like 100, but I just love a serious* fantasy game that’s unapologetically horny.
Also Hammer/Hanna is iconic.
The game is fatphobic, ableist, ignores race, and falls down on its face when it comes to queer representation, but it was a better play through than the others.
We’ve been watching Batman: the Animated series in the mornings. This will be my thread of commentary on it.
First of all, the entire series constantly references real, specific mid century modern, Art Deco, and even prairie school designers and I eat that shit up.
(For instance, Mayor Hill has a Frank Lloyd Wright style mansion)
So far, the most queer episode is “Feet of Clay”, which features a (not specifically named) gay couple and a trans subplot introduced in the final frame. It’s a shame because the gay relationship is abusive. Kind of shockingly so.