Last night at dinner, I mentioned I would be home late today. My 7-year-old asked why.
I told him about the rally I was attending to help #SaveMelissaLucio and he asked if he could go with me. I said not this time, so he got up from the table and went to get his art supplies…
When I asked what he was doing, he said, “Making a sign. If I can’t be there, I still want to help.”
As he was writing, he asked how to spell “execute” and “people.” When I asked if he’d like to put Melissa’s name instead of “people,” he said…
“No, because then they’ll think it’s ok to execute other people besides Melissa. They shouldn’t execute anyone.”
I agree with him, we shouldn’t execute anyone, but we especially shouldn’t execute people who are wrongfully convicted like Melissa.
A ton of Melissa’s family came out to the rally, including her mother and son.
Many of them have been on the road for 15 days straight, traveling all over Texas so that Melissa has a chance at justice.
If you are interested in learning more about Melissa’s case or taking action to help set her free, go to freemelissalucio.org and watch the award-winning documentary about her on Hulu.
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This young woman reached out to me on IG, wondering if what she’d been told by her church was right.
I told her it’s not only wrong, but that it seemed like it could be spiritual abuse.
We ended up talking on the phone and the story got even worse…
She fled an abusive marriage with her baby a few years ago.
About a year later, she met someone new. After dating for awhile, they accidentally became pregnant and had a child.
They’re still together, but she’s understandably (and wisely) hesitant to jump into another marriage.
Her, her boyfriend, and her two kids are all a part of this church together. One Sunday a few months ago, the worship leader asked for volunteers for the band.
She is a very talented vocalist and has a background in worship, so she decided to try out.
Even though it's been co-opted lately, deconstruction is a term we've been using at our church for years.
It describes the process of critically examining our faith when something we believe conflicts with something we experience.
I hope this 🧵 brings some comfort and clarity.
Deconstruction is an involuntary and universal experience.
We can not control the outcome of someone’s deconstruction journey anymore than we can prevent it from starting in the first place.
What we can and should do, is create safe spaces where people can be fully loved and accepted as they walk through the difficult process of deconstruction.
Spaces where they can ask questions, doubt, and be open about what they're going through.
I was so disruptive that my teacher moved my desk into the corner of the room and then put a tri-fold gym mat around me so I couldn’t see anything except the wall.
The person closest to me was a girl named Amy...
My first day in behind the mat, I forgot my pencil. I obviously didn’t want to get in even more trouble, so I cautiously peaked my head over the top of the mat when my teacher turned around to write on the board.
I whispered, "Amy!" And then asked if I could borrow a pencil.
I honestly thought she would either say no or just ignore me.
You see, Amy was a super compliant, straight-A student who was a faithful member of her youth group and beloved by every adult at the school.