Some things I do to keep the good vibes going in my marriage and make sure my husband feels loved and appreciated.

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I am always sexually available and enthusiastic. I consider this to be a simple duty of marriage (1 Corinthians 7: 2-5)
I make loving and caring for him a priority and treat him well. I look up from whatever I'm doing when he comes into the room. He appreciates this as he knows he has my attention and that I love having him around.
I keep a good attitude…positivity, calmness, softness (meek and quiet spirit) ….which brings him security and peace of mind. 1 Peter 3: 4
I stay clean, feminine, fit and attractive so that he is drawn to me. I exercise daily so that I keep my curves and he enjoys them. I eat the highest quality food for both of us and prepare it myself. I spend time with clothing, my hair and skincare.
I keep our home, making sure we have a clean, tidy house and clean clothes. I iron his shirts & even undies & he often complements me on his neat stack of tees waiting on his shelves. My husband says this makes him feel loved! It really is a simple pleasure to iron your clothes.
I am adventurous and fun when we do things together…hiking, canoeing, cycling, going to events. Dear Mr. C always appreciates me spending time with him and enjoying it.
Now these are things I do for my own husband in my own marriage. You need to study your own husband and find out what lights him up.

There are so many benefits to a happy, long-lasting marriage and God is pleased when we stay with our spouses and love them.

Bless y'all! ♥️
*I prepare the highest quality of food for both of us
Scriptural support:
Wives must LOVE their husbands with deep affection
*Titus 2:3-5
Reverence and respect your husband greatly:
*Ephesians 5: 22- 33
*1 Peter 3:1-6
Do not defraud each other sexually (meaning cheating them by withholding)
*1 Corinthians 7:2-5
We have home-cooked, regular meals and my husband knows he will eat within a few minutes of walking in the door. We eat together at the table and enjoy conversation. It’s one of the highlights of the day for us!

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