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THREAD: "Polarity Coach" @ZakRoedde is running a cult based on Dr. Robert J. Lifton's "Eight Criteria for Thought Reform" (Taken from the book 'Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism') /1

1. Milieu Control - Roedde manages a private Facebook group that is pretty strictly moderated for dissenting voices. I lurked in there for a week or so and was summarily banned for criticizing continual use of terms like "beta male". facebook.com/groups/masculi… /2

2. Mystical manipulation - "men should be masculine and women should be feminine (read: cishet). Any disruption is "depolarizing" and somehow disruptive, i.e., if the man doesn't lead or the woman doesn't "submit". Roedde will coach you for $150 or you could buy his books. /3

3. The demand for purity - The ideology of only "masculine" men and "feminine" women as an over-simplified dichotomy. Based on what I found on Roedde's profile, the goal is polarization (masculine vs. feminine) within their polarization (ideology vs. the world). /4

4. Confession - The group mentioned above is a place where adherents to this ideology are "free to ask questions" but genuinely seem to be seeking approval from other members rather than asking advice. (See attached posts) /5

5. Sacred Science - I've pretty much covered this one in points above. This group feels they have the answer to the "perfect" relationship. My experiences with the group as well as one of its members reveals the prohibition of any dissent. (cont'd...) /6

(cont'd) from Roedde's LinkedIn: "I take them into the future that I am working to create. A future where a man and woman both command equal respect and CHOOSE to give each other their best gifts based on their innate masculine or feminine programming." /7 linkedin.com/in/zak-roedde-…

6. Loading the Language - The dichotomy between masculine and feminine are used to describe EVERY personality trait, i.e., "...men are meant to be strong and grounded masculine leaders, and women are meant to be free and emotionally expressive feminine supporters." /8

7. Doctrine over person - In my interactions with folk in this space, I was met with an inordinate amount of hostility for even questioning something adjacent to a post. You can see what the indoctrination looks like in the 2nd photo in the previous tweet. /9

8. Dispensing of existence - I'll just quote from Roedde's LinkedIn: "I am looking for clients who are truly dedicated to getting this area of their life handled. Clients who don't want to settle for a 'good enough' relationship and a 'good enough' version of themselves." /10

I'd suggest you investigate this for yourself if you're curious. There is some seriously deranged stuff that goes on in the FB group. Roedde also has a YouTube channel where he stores his "knowledge" (of which he has no verifiable credentials for). /11
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For background, I was curious more than anything. I'd had some interesting interactions with a member/adherent. Since I didn't understand a word of what was being taught, I dove in and lurked around for a while. As an #enby I was offended, as a feminist I was appalled. /12

There is no place for this kind of antiquated thinking. Essentializing a gender binary is not only smooth-brain thinking, it also flies in the face of the current thought and understanding of gender as a social construct. /13

Worst of all, from what I can gather, this is all spear-headed by cis men. I only mention this because their ideology is based on men being the leader and women eschewing any trait they consider "masculine" (which I think they stole from Tony Robbins... ew) /14

So, in summary, while their numbers may be small, their ideology is toxic and antiquated. The leadership has no qualification and their "group" meets all the criteria, based on my experience, to be considered a #cult. be on the lookout. Protect your friends and yourselves. /15

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