Trans visibility has always been important, but not always possible. Today it is possible but also, in many ways, has never been more important.
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Thanks to the tireless efforts of activists over the decades, trans and non-binary people are now more visible than ever. We owe a lot to our community elders who fought for rights before there was ever a chance, who were yelled at and spit on and beaten for doing so.
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We are now in a place where our voices are beginning to be heard. Trans people are gracing the covers of magazines, winning awards, featured positively in media, even producing that media. Some of us are loved by our families, keeping our jobs, living our lives. There is hope.
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And this, unfortunately, is creating an inevitable backlash. Bills are being introduced to harm our rights. Those that are passed have devastating consequences. Trans kids and their families are targeted more than anyone right now, some having to flee their homes for safety.
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The backlash against trans people is loud and frightening. It is dark and, at times, can feel hopeless.
But it's not hopeless. In fact, it's a sign of the progress we've made. This is the hardest part, the final battle before we win the war. #TDOV#TDOV2022
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They thought they could keep us in the shadows. We proved them wrong. We are visible. We got the world's attention and much of that world has embraced us.
And now they're scared. They don't know what to do. They're frantically trying to stop what they can't. #TDOV
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These politicians and hate organizations are trying to put the genie back in the bottle - and that's not possible. Trans and non-binary people have made far too much progress. They can throw up roadblocks to slow us down but they can't stop what's already happening. #TDOV2022
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And they know this, which is why they're fighting against us so hard. It's like a toddler who has to go bed and knows he has no choice, but he's going to throw one hell of a tantrum before he does. Tantrums are loud, but futile. They're loud, but they end. This will also end.
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When racial equality made progress, racists got louder. When gay rights made progress, homophobes got louder. Today, trans rights are making progress, and transphobes are getting louder.
This is always what happens, and they never win. We will win. #TDOV2022#TDOV
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But we have work ahead of us. We have more need for visibility in our communities so they can stop othering us. We have to work together as a community and with our allies.
We've been doing this and we can keep doing this. Don't lose hope. #TDOV
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I believe in us. I believe in our future. I believe in a time when we can live on any street, in any town, working any job and living any life we choose. We're going to get there. We need to protect those incredible trans kids so they can grow up to see it. #TDOV#TDOV2022
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Please don't lose hope, trans siblings. Know there are many of us out there fighting for all of us.
You are beautiful. You are strong. You are absolutely magnificent. Let's make it through these dark times together so we can celebrate on the other side. I love you. #TDOV
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Do you know what a dog whistle is? It's subtle ideological language used within in a group, and is largely only understood by those in that group.
In this thread, I'll highlight some common dog whistles used by TERFs, or Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminists, to watch for.
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First, what is a TERF? TERFism is rooted in the belief that gender doesn’t exist, and that no one can escape their biology. To them, trans women are men, trans men are women, trans children aren’t real, and non-binary identities are made up.
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Why learn about TERF dog whistles, though?
When hearing opinions about marginalized people’s rights, context is vital. What are the motives behind these views? Is there something deeper? TERF dog whistles can help us pinpoint where these (very harmful) opinions come from.
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I occasionally hear from people who reach out to me after seeing me discuss my breakdown in 2020. They're usually in the midst of that scary place or just starting to heal from it. I'll never regret talking about that dark time and the work I've been doing on myself since.
I've been criticized for discussing my breakdown. I've even lost friends because of it. But I never felt more alone than when I was in the thick of that crisis, and I wish I had known of someone who had gone through something similar, who had spoken about it. I needed that.
I'm very fortunate to have a platform of sorts where I can reach a lot of people. I consider it a responsibility to be honest about my trauma disorder, honest about my healing, honest about the bumps in the road and the growth I've experienced. We need to see ourselves in others.
Sometimes I think the universe likes to remind me I’m cared for.
I walked into Starbucks this morning with the edits of my book manuscript back from the editor after avoiding looking at them for 24 hours (🏆). I was dreading looking at them because, uh, there are many.👀
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And I should mention it’s a memoir about complex trauma. It was a tough one to write. After a few weeks away from it, it’s now time to dive back in, which I know is going to be challenging.
But today is the day. So, I stood in line to grab something before facing the music.
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There was only one person in front of me in line. She gave her order, then turned me and said “what are you having today?”
"Hi Amanda. Would you join our media panel to discuss trans women in sports?"
No. 1. I am not a trans woman 2. I am not an expert in professional sports 3. Nearly every discussion on this topic inevitably ends up mightily transphobic because it's not really about sports
How do I know it's not really about sports? Because it doesn't matter what a trans woman athlete's win/loss ratio is.
If she wins even once, she has an unfair advantage.
If she loses, she threw it to avoid being accused of having an unfair advantage.
It's about transphobia.
You can point out the loss in muscle mass with estrogen, the decrease in bone density, the loss of strength/stamina after HRT.
You can point out weight/height categories and how she fits into them, or how many trans athletes are far from the top of their game. Doesn't matter.
"Why can't this person handle criticism as well as I think they should be able to?"
A short thread on what might be missing in your understanding of situations like this.
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There's been a lot of talk lately centering around high profile people (including one VERY high profile billionaire with millions of followers) shaming an author who claimed to have a trauma reaction to what the accusers called "bad book reviews".
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I would argue it wasn't "bad book reviews" the author was talking about, but what they believed to be an orchestrated campaign against them by trans-exclusive extremists that led, in part, to some notable negative book reviews. It was reduced to that idea to mock the author.
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Because yes, trauma can stack - especially in times like these.
Think of a building.
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The first floor of the building might represent trauma you've had for a long time, maybe stemming from childhood or a terrible relationship or a scary incident you lived through or witnessed.
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Maybe the second floor is a global pandemic that shifted your life dramatically. You might have lost someone, got laid off, are dealing with long COVID. Maybe you've simply been fearful for two years, waiting for the next variant, waiting for any little sign of illness.
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