People really don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care. It is wise to care for people. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, often we drink from wells we didn’t dig, warm ourselves by fires we didn’t start.
Appreciate what others have done for us to be where we are. Selflessness or Selfishness are roads we can follow. One is paved by kindness and care, the other by disdain and pride. Choose wisely. Sometimes people don't care about u, they only care about meeting their needs from u.
Having someone who truly cares for you without wanting anything in return, is a true blessing. It's during the worst times of your life that you'll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you. People will always respond to care.
In the ancient text, we are encouraged to bear each others burden. This is because we must move beyond just focusing on ourselves and our needs to the needs of others. Sometimes just your care helps people more than your words.
The Rabbi will always care for the people, hence when they had been with him for three days, he didn't send them away hungry but feed them. Even though many still came to him because of food, that never stopped him to not care for the people.
Sometimes we want to stop to care for people because we have come to see their true intentions but we must never let their intention stop our affection. Your care for people is like a seed you sow, you will always reap it in due season.
Diane, lonely is not a feeling when you are alone. Lonely is a feeling when no one cares. Truth is so many people feel lonely that no one cares and when you start being the one who cares they will stick with you.
Humans by default crave care, attention, affection and love, it is a win for you when you supply this demand. It won't cost you so much to care for people, just pay attention to details.
Simply checking up on them, being a listening ear, providing support, encouragement and guidance goes a long way. Unfortunately most people think the best way they can care is by giving money. There are people who need much more care literally than giving them money.
Someone sick and recovering needs care than credit alert. Care is emotional, mental and psychological and people need it.
Three simple reasons to care for people
1) it helps you become more selfless and less selfish
2) it helps people to believe in themselves again
3) everyone values and appreciates those who care
People may never care for you the way you care for them but never let that stop you so you don't care for people. #DeepThinking
Your gift to the world is how you care for people. Everyone craves care. #R4HL
You may have need for care too but keep caring for people because all the care you give away will always find its way back to you @wisdomcounselin
Care for people even if they don't care for you. You may not reap where you sow, but you will always reap what you sow - Osagie Alex
On the upgrade side of life, we encourage our Upgrade Mastery Practitioners to always care for people who patronise their personal brands and businesses.
Care for people, it is an added advantage to the quality of service you render. You can outwork competition when you care for people.
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The "craze to show off" virus should never infect you. Keep your life private, not everything about you should be known. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, ever wondered why it is important to keep your life private?
It is as important as having your own name. Sadly, we live in a world where we all want to be seen, heard and known, nevertheless we must learn to keep our lives private. It is called private life for a reason because it isn't expected to be public.
Once you make your life public, you lose your right to be upset about public opinion, trolls, and the likes when they come after you. People will only become aware of what you give them access to.
Slow progress is still progress. Learn to celebrate your progress else you will become an ingrate for no reason. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, do you celebrate your progress? Or you are modest keeping it calm?
Well, I like to tell you to learn to celebrate your progress. Everyday you are making progress no matter how little and you must be comfortable to celebrate your progress.
First, nobody knows how much effort, dedication, discipline, diligence and consistency you put into you hence they may not celebrate it, that is why you must be the one to celebrate your progress.
0) "Develop yours for success" starts now #DevelopYou
1) Diane, success is a concept that is different for every person. Whether it means having a great career, a home or a family, success is something everyone strives to achieve. #DevelopYou
2) It makes you feel proud, it gives you excitement and it lets you know you have made an impact in a competitive world. #DevelopYou
3) Success is not something you attain without putting in effort, however. It is a mindset you must adopt to accomplish your goals and grow as a person, and it takes hard work. #DevelopYou
Belief System Session: Tell yourself the truth about your relationship
Whatever you ignore doesn't fix itself. No relationship crashes without warning, many just don't see, tell, accept, and work with the truth. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, relationship is not for the weak
Diane, relationship is not for the weak hence if you don't have the energy for its demands then don't even start. Unfortunately some people have started and are in it already but now they are beginning to see things are not working but they simply can't tell themselves the truth.
Truth is truth, ageless and timeless, it really does not give a care who gets hurt. Truth hurts but hurts heal with time that is why it is always important you tell yourself the truth about your relationship, stop putting bandage on what requires surgery.
Belief System Session: How intimacy dies in relationship
Everyone craves intimacy, yet some hardly realise that they kill the intimacy they so desire without even knowing. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, it is funny how the same thing people desire and crave, they also kill and watch it die while they stand aside doing nothing. You cannot imagine how ironic that is, that what you want the most is what you pay attention to the least.
I realise that people want fairytale lifestyle with love, romance and relationship, yet they forget that even fairytale story are thought through and actually written down. There is nothing that works like work, so there is the work required for intimacy to become the norm.
Belief System Session: Your relationship is not the problem
Every problem has a solution, if it doesn't have a solution then it is not a problem. Your relationship is not the problem. #UpgradeMastery
Diane, guess you are wondering when I say your relationship is not the problem
Yes, I said it and it the the truth and that is on period! But sincerely look at it, the relationship is not the problem and I will tell you why.
One of the things I share with clients about problem solving is that every problem has a solution, if it doesn't have a solution then it is not a problem.