Thread by @Ada_di_ora_mma

Gender equality in a romantic relationship is a ridiculous notion.

I find it funny when modern women talk about their standards and the things they demand from men and brand them equal relationship.

Men and women are not equal and so their responsibilities are not equal.

Men provide physical security, emotional security and financial security.
There's a why you rarely hear that a married woman is harassed, kidnapped or raped. These atrocities are only committed against

single women. Why are married women safer than single women even though they both have same freedom of movement? It's simple. Married women have the protection of their husbands. The mere notion that they belong to a man, bear a man's name automatically earns them potection.

Does a woman need to be married to be safe? It shouldn't be so but it is what it is.

Because a woman is under the protection of her husband is the reason why she would hit a man outside and her husband will end up paying for it. It happens all over the world.

It's worthy to note that the worst thing a man would do to a woman he pledged to protect is putting her in a position where she needs to be protected from him. He's nothing but a failure.

Men provide emotional security: There's a reason why women hate inconsistent communication, hate being ignored, love to be validated so much, love to be praised, love being heard and so many other emotional needs they have. If a man doesn't provide this emotional security,

the woman becomes miserable.

It's not easy being emotionally responsible for somebody especially those who need to be reassured every four market days. It can be exhausting. This is why a man who's not emotionally stable and mature has no business being responsible for a woman.

Also why a man who's emotionally unavailable, a man who's aloof is not safe for a woman.

Men provide financial security: It's easier to say "what else do men bring except money". Practically all our existence revolves around money, from shelter to clothing, feeding, hospital,

name it, every single thing we need for our wellbeing and survival requires money, that's why our life is split between career and family. Imagine someone carrying such responsibility! Like it is their primary responsibility.

Financial responsibility is the major cause of men's high rate of suicide. It's that large a responsibility.

These security modern women demand as if it's nothing is something they can't provide for themselves. Financial security? Maybe but not physical and emotional security.

Now tell me why someone in a vulnerable position, would be making demands with so much attitude?

Of course, these are things men should provide for the women they love but they're such a big load for them to be criticized and vilified for if they do not meet a certain

expectation. They're are humans after all.

Again how do these women intend to practice equality when the man is completely responsible for the woman? How do they intend to share leadership position when one carries the responsibility of the other?

Because all these equality talks is about men being leaders and women being submissives, the fight is about taking the authority away from men without at least sharing the responsibility.

Of course, I know that women cook and clean and manage the home but modern women do not want to do that which funnily enough men can outsource the home management. Can women outsource the security men provide?

Modern women will start making sense when they're able to answer these questions.

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