"They migrated from Benin"

Benin was the Abuja of ancient Southern Nigeria. A multicultural area where Edoid(Bini,Esan,Urhobo, Isoko,etc), Yoruboid(Usen, etc), Igboid (Igbanke, Ika) and Ijaws( the Olodiama kingdom) cohabited under an Ife ruler ship, the Oba of Benin, who usurped the Edoid kings, the Ogiemiens.

When Benin had upheavals, some non Edoid people from there went back to their homeland.
That's the story of Benin. That's why you have obvious Ijaw speaking people like Nembe claiming Origin from Benin.

In regards to the black girl that beat up her teacher and some other students who are violent at school;

"They're busy being friends with their children instead of being parents to them"

This statement was made by a representative for a State Teachers Union about the parents of the students.

When I heard the statement, I smiled because I know that the faux Nigerian progressives will attack that woman for making such statement.

Kindness Is Not Preached About Enough.

A man set his wife ablaze for washing his clothes instead of preparing his food and the usual outrage began; "This is what feminism fights against".

In what way would feminism have prevented that? A kind man, even if he was raised not to cook would have compromised when he saw that his wife was busy, either by taking over the laundry so that the woman can cook or cooking the food himself. If he's tire too do any, he could step out and buy something.

Going by feminism's definition, these people's behavior is not outside the box, it's an exact demonstration of feminism.

Saying that men and women are equal is like saying that a benefactor and beneficiary are equal.

Men create opportunities, women demand to have equal access

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to it. Men may extend the privilege of having equal opportunity to women but that can't make them equal.

The fact that feminism by its definition demands equality of both sex in both opportunity and status is what gave all feminists not just the modern feminists,

Feminists have been attacking masculinity and we know why; men and women are not equal, men are superior to women courtesy of biology.

No matter how much women build themselves, they can only compete with a small percentage of men.

The most effeminate of men are still stronger than most women.

In the quest to make men & women equal, socially, economically & politically, we cannot disregard the role biology plays because men and women need to be equal first before they can be on equal footing.

So how can men and women be made equal considering that

Gender equality in a romantic relationship is a ridiculous notion.

I find it funny when modern women talk about their standards and the things they demand from men and brand them equal relationship. Men and women are not equal and so their responsibilities are not equal.

Men provide physical security, emotional security and financial security.
There's a why you rarely hear that a married woman is harassed, kidnapped or raped. These atrocities are only committed against

A father can be kind and his children will still "run out" of the parlor when he comes back home.

There are many reasons why children run out of the living room when their father comes back home after exchanging pleasantries.

First of all, the parlour is the father's space. 1. He needs space: After s long stressful day, he needs his solitude to decompress and think about things he needs to deal with. The age range of children who need to be told that daddy needs space to rest is 5years and below.

The funny thing about successful women saying that when you take away money, men have nothing to offer is that they're not going for the right men.

I've heard them say that they need men who can cook and clean, do other stuff that money cannot buy yet they go for men who are as successful as or even more successful than them.

How do you expect a successful man to cook and clean to prove a point to you. The same cooking and cleaning you're running away from? And on top of that he will still do money stuff as well.

There's a difference between expecting someone to be kind with their words and expecting them to sugarcoat their words or not say anything at all.

Most times, when a woman say; be kind with your words, she meant, sugarcoat your words in order to spare my feelings. Women have lower tolerance for criticism and this is a huge problem in a relationship.

A woman would be focused on her hurt feelings even though the criticism was constructive and the words were SUBJECTIVELY kind instead of reflecting on her life and try to make amends and be

LADIES who want serious relationship that could lead to marriage!!!

Be deliberate on dating. The evaluation of the man starts from your first date. Forget about food, drinks and transport fare.

•- I made a video on that, I will attach it at the end of the thread. The essence of going on a date has been watered down to irrelevant things like; he took me to an expensive restaurant, bought expensive foods and drinks and he made me laugh. Oh yeah, I think I'm in love.

Really? You're kidding yourself. That's not what you're there for.

I stayed away from relationship for years because I was broke. I have a huge fear of getting married without standing on a decent financial foot and having a flexible career that will enable me raise my kids myself.

"A child could open doors", no be me and you go do that one. "What if you lose your wealth in the future".

Those are unforseen circumstances. I will not deliberately bring kids into this world to suffer. I'm struggling, husband is struggling and then we will bring kids into it and start feeding them pap with red oil.
Mba, no!

Women date/marry men who're like their father; I don't think it's all the time though.

Someone said that her dad was a Yahoo boy that's why she likes Yahoo boys. You might remember the tweet.

From my personal experience, once a man I like shows that he cares especially when I'm sick, I'm already gone for him because he's showing attributes of my dad.

My dad is a very compassionate person, he's more compassionate than a lot of women if not most.

When we were younger, if any us falls sick, he will visit our room up to 10 times before daybreak.

There's nothing equal between a man and a woman in a relationship when the man has a bigger responsibility.

This ideology is what breeds scarcity mentality in men.

As a man you're bringing a lot to the table and as such you shouldn't be the one begging a woman to be in a relationship with you and be tolerating silly behavior because "we're both adults".

Yes, you're both adults but the responsibility that comes with relationship is treating the man as "more adult than" the woman.

So, what are you saying?

You can't love a woman the proper way she needs if you're a weak man.

Women don't like weak men because these men can't meet their basal needs.

You can give a woman money, be her puppet, yet she will still remain unfulfilled and felt unloved. It's a feminine trait to desire a man who can exert dominance and control over the relationship.

No woman desires a man who begs unnecessarily, a man who gives in when he shouldn't, it reeks of weakness.

How do people keep communicating with someone they don't like to the extent of collecting money from and having sex with them?

I believe this is a skill.

No matter how handsome and rich a man is or how beautiful and curvaceous a woman is, there's this block you experience when the first few chats with them aren't pleasant or fun enough.

This is the point where ghosting is applied, for some who don't like ghosting, they will just end the chat smoothly without their feelings.

It's not contradictory and thus not hypocritical for one to support sexual compatibility and still expect lower body counts in women.

I believe sexual compatibility test is done in courtship. People are looking for life partners take relationship seriously by checking their compatibility which includes sexual compatible except for believers.

Women who don't intend to get married now or ever have no business hiding their high body counts behind sexual compatibility.

Patriarchy is a social system in which father is the head of the household, having authority over women and children, and in which lineage is traced through the male line.

Some people have made it their life mission to dismantle the patriarchy. In order to dismantle the patriarchy, certain actions need to be taken.

Firstly, there will be no head of the household, but is it possible? The answer is no, which means that if men are to step down as the head, someone else has to step up and it's definitely no going to

If I was a man and I had the higher responsibility of satisfying my partner in bed, I will not accept her packing unnecessary body counts that will frustrate my life.

The body count is a burden to me because I have expectations to me. All she has to do to satisfy me is to know how to give a heart shattering blowjob and position her body properly during intercourse, which she can learn in the relationship by the way if she puts her mind to it. She doesn't need to have a prior experience.

Was going somewhere with my kid bro. When we got to the army check point, he exchanged pleasantries with them and they waved us off, just like that, no money changed hands.

This is a place where they ask people to step out of the car but we were exempted. I saw him in a different light. He's now a big boy, a man.

My reaction to how he handled the checkpoint stuff reminded me of the lady that said that her man not being able to handle police checkpoint is her ick.

I joined Twitter because of Sports Radio, Brila FM. I was contented with reading tweets & commenting when I felt like until I started seeing unpleasant tweets from feminists & that's what prompted me into becoming a "Pick Me" & there are other women who were labeled Pick Me too. We've always made our stand known, if you're fighting for equal rights, do it the proper way. If you are fighting against crime, do it the proper way.

They kept shouting that men kill and rape women, gender pay gap bla bla.

Twitter takes can be more dangerous than village people.

Advice for young women:

When you visit a family of your best friend or fiance for the "first time", it's pertinent you volunteer to "assist" in cooking or doing the dishes afterwards. It's left for them to tell you not to bother because you're a guest.

Before you start with the "sufferhead nye nye nye", remember that you're not rich and the family you visited is not rich, if they were, you would see a security man, a butler, maids, a professional chef and