'As I thought about the gift that I had been given, I realised it was the joy and delight of the community that mattered to me and that I wanted to highlight most.'
'I’m no Pollyanna, and this isn’t a takeover that is designed to make people jazz hand and play The Glad Game, but it’s important to be glad and proud of the advances we’ve made.'
'To know that through all of the struggle, all of the challenges, and all of the pain, ultimately, there are enormous, innumerable reasons to be optimistic.'
'Every one of the stories that I have the gift of sharing with readers has within it something positive and happy to say. I’ve gone more is more in my curatorship – or as my godchildren would say, I’ve gone "so extra".'
'And there is an essential reason for that: It is to make a point.'
'We have to tell the world we’re here, as painful as it is and as much as we shouldn’t have to.'
'But above all else, we have to demonstrate – through our stories, our lives, our experiences – that the LGBT community not only lives, but thrives.'
'Clutching my stomach, I counted down the hours until my 1am night bus from Glasgow reached Newcastle.
'I was 19 and heartbroken, which obviously meant I felt sick, and had to go home for a bath and hugs from my parents – as well as my mam’s roast dinner.'
'But for an hour, I was on my own on a bus and listening to Taylor Swift’s All Too Well on repeat in the dark.
'Until one person – a man – got on at Edinburgh.
'Making his way up the bus, he firmly asked me to move my bag on the seat next to me so he could sit down.'
'The moment I opened my first pay cheque from working as an NHS junior doctor, I was shocked.
'I was 25 at the time and I’d moved to the UK from Lebanon to study medicine and then start my career.'
'My total pay came to £1,800 and I couldn’t believe it - my rent was £950, plus I had to pay for bills, food, furniture, medical supplies – like scrubs and stethoscopes – and my £2,000 visa on top of that.
'How was I supposed to take care of myself?'
As Pride month kicks off – and the inevitable queries are raised about why we still need to take this time to celebrate and promote the LGBTQ+ community – this seems an opportune moment to reflect on how far the law has come.
It’s also a time to explore how true equality for LGBTQ+ people is sadly not yet a reality in modern Britain.
Jason was left less than impressed during his second asylum interview, when questions turned towards his intimate life.
‘The audacity of some of the questions she asked me,’ he recalls. ‘Her tone was very distasteful'
‘She asked me how I had sex with my partner. She asked me if I used dating sites or sex video sites. She asked if I had videos of myself having sex with men.
‘There was no humanity in it. She just went straight for the jugular.’
'Remi* was one of these men. He was smiling and kind, but I could tell from the way that his eyes darted around, that he was overwhelmed as soon as he entered the adult shop.'
'He told me he was in the shop because he’s gay. He then told me that it was the first time he’d said his sexuality aloud.
'I felt like a proud friend, though we’d never met before.'