It may feel like quitting porn creates emptiness in your life, but replacing those unhealthy habits with healthy ones can be super helpful. Exercise, try new recipes, start painting—focus on what you can do, not what you can't.
2. Eat, sleep, and exercise!
Exercise can boost neurogenesis, the formation of new cells, as well as dopamine receptors, which are key in healing the brain’s frontal cortex.
By recharging your body with the sleep, fuel, and energy it needs, you'll be better equipped to deal with stress in healthy ways and feel better physically and emotionally.
3. Recognize your triggers!
Setbacks often happen when you're Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired (HALT). If you're feeling triggered, find something more productive to distract you.
Talk to a friend, take a nap, eat some cereal—whatever it takes to get yourself back into a good headspace and back on track.
4. Spend less time on your phone.
Scrolling through social media at night or turning to your phone whenever you're bored can easily lead to watching porn. Consider not using your phone late at night, keeping it in a different room while you sleep, setting time limits.
5. Let go of shame.
Research shows that shame actually drives people back to unhealthy behaviors rather than motivating sustainable change.
Remember: you are not a “bad” person for struggling with this. Be kind to yourself, be patient with your progress, and keep trying.
6. Tell someone.
Unhealthy habits thrive in secrecy, so opening up about your struggles and feelings can limit the power shame can have over you.
Talking to a therapist can be especially helpful, as they can help you learn healthier habits and work through any underlying issues that drive any unhealthy behaviors.
7. Download Fortify!
Fortify is a free, science-based recovery platform that actually works. In fact, 90% of users report that Fortify has significantly helped them move toward lasting change.
Recovery is not linear—that’s totally normal. A minor setback does not mean you have failed to reach your goal, it just means you should keep trying. It's okay if it takes time.
Be kind to yourself, and be patient.
Even if you've had an unwanted porn habit for most of your life, that doesn't mean it has to be part of your life forever. It’s not a part of who you are.
You can change and live a healthier life free of porn and free of shame. There is hope, so keep trying. You got this.
“What happens with [many] survivors of child sexual abuse…is they internalize the traumatic experience, and because of the shame and stigma that’s associated with it, they often deal with it on their own.” -Chris Yadon: Managing Director of Saprea
Chris has been working with @saprea_org since 2015, is a sought-after speaker, and has been invited to give presentations nationally and internationally.
Actor and Activist Marisol Nichols Talks About Fighting Child Sex Trafficking
You may know @marisolnichols from the critically-acclaimed hit television series Riverdale.
To some, the Chicago native is an actress, but to others she’s a hero.
After learning about the rampant issue of human trafficking, Marisol has worked with law enforcement and state and federal legislators for over a decade to help catch child sexual predators and human traffickers by going undercover.
She also founded Foundation for a Slavery Free World, a nonprofit that produces events in Hollywood to raise awareness on trafficking and awards individuals and other non-profit groups for their heroic work in this field.
Combating Child Sexual Exploitation Material
(aka “child pornography”)
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In order to combat the exponentially-growing issue of child sexual exploitation material (CSEM) on the internet, it’s important to be educated on its prevalence and be aware of the conditions that may fuel it—including the culture children are growing up in.
Many teens agree that sending nudes is normal. Approximately 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 10 boys aged 13-17 report sharing their own nudes, according to a 2020 report.
Sex trafficking is legally defined as a situation in which “a commercial sex act is induced by force, fraud, or coercion, or in which the person induced to perform such act has not attained 18 years of age.”
(TVPA, 2000)
For example, if a porn performer shows up on set to discover that the scene is much more aggressive or degrading than they’d been told, and their agent threatens to cancel their other bookings if the performer doesn’t go through with it, that's trafficking.
Did you know there has reportedly been child exploitation on Pornhub?
@NickKristof is an American journalist, two-time Pulitzer Prize winner, and columnist for the New York Times since 2001.
His investigative opinion column published on 12/4/2020, titled, “The Children of Pornhub,” shocked and educated many people around the world because it gave visibility to the stories of victims of image-based sexual abuse and child sexual abuse material...
8 Things You Should Know About Child Sexual Abuse.
1. More than 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 20 boys are sexually abused or assaulted before they turn 18, according to an analysis of national surveys in the U.S.
Finkelhor, Shattuck, Turner, & Hamby, 2014
While child sexual exploitation can be a difficult topic to discuss, education and awareness can help to prevent and combat further harm.