Proud Boys crashing Drag Queen story hours, planned bludgeoning of Pride attendees, trans kids stripped of gender-affirming health care, trans kids banned from sports, trans-supportive parents investigated for child abuse, "Don't Say Gay" bills, ..
I'm horrified at the people who honestly see themselves as allies to my trans son who are categorically SILENT on what is going on in this nation around LGBTQ rights, specifically the attacks on trans youth.
Many won't even do the bare minimum of visibly signaling support via an #illgowithyou button or trans-supportive T-shirt or sticker. Most don't call people in on their social media.
But they LOVE to remind me they're allies when I post.
I get how frightening standing with people who are repeatedly being threatened with violence, are the subject of vile and hateful misinformation campaigns, used as wedge issues to win elections can be.
I get you don't want to be caught in the crossfire.
But god DAMN if parents like me and kids like mine don't need you to show up in meaningful ways right now, and the fact that most people aren't is both heartbreaking and maddening.
2. Which means, many of those providers have long wait times for initial appointments.
3. We travel roughly 30/45 minutes (with traffic), and we live *in* the city. Some families travel from the suburbs, down state. They spend an entire day (sometimes more) on appointments.
4. Before puberty blockers were prescribed, we had multiple appointments, from bone scans to endocrinologists to mental health care providers to social workers.
Hours and hours of health care appointments.
And again, the clinic was fairly easy for us to access. Not so for many.
Chase is one of the best advocates around trans youth. Kelly helps me think more deeply and critically, sharpens the self-reflection necessary for me to get clarity on my own person.
I'm the parent of a trans son. I need you committed to this fight.