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Jul 28 15 tweets 4 min read
Prostitution arose historically with land ownership, class society, militarization and slavery. The earliest records we have strongly indicate that the first women were in situations of sexual slavery - debt bondage at best - and many were first sold to be raped as girls.
It's amazing to me how people can celebrate historic prostitution. For every Theodora of Byzantine there's countless who endured unwanted pregnancies, illness and death from STIs and child birth. The life expectancy of a woman in prostitution without condoms would have been low.
The earliest records from Mesopotamia do suggest there was some connection between sexual rites in temples and the development of the sex trade. However, prostitution appears to be framed as punishment by the writers, not as a place women (and girls!) would clamour to be.
The word #porn comes from the lowest classes of women enslaved in prostitution, the "pornai" in Ancient Greek, who had the lowest income and had to be available to men of all classes. #Pornography therefore means "depiction of the lowest class of whores/sex slaves".
People refer the hetaera as evidence that the sex industry was a way for women to get status. There were always educated & talented women in prostitution but it would've been as "romantic" as modern day sugar babies: personal sex toys for rich men with a veneer of sophistication.
It's true that Christianity began the large scale persecution of women in prostitution- however this does neither mean that previous cultures reveered them (again many were literal slaves), nor that various chapters of the church didn't accept the sex trade as a "necessary evil".
There's a long history of what later was enshrined in law as "Contagious Diseases Acts": Throughout history johns (and often pimps) escaped any consequence to their actions, all punishments and regulations fell on women such as forced often medically unsound examinations for STIs
There's also a long history of governments not just tolerating but funding brothels: The "clientel" has always included wealthy powerful men, who wanted a luxurious but discreet place to be hypocrites in their supposed Christian faith and relentlessly keep "mistresses".
Prostitution arose with militarization, consequently brothels have been taken over/set up by armies wherever they go, kidnapping if hunger and poverty are not enough coercion on occupied women and girls. Only in the last century have we started acknowledging these as war crimes.
Some colonised cultures had a history of prostitution - others did not (it is not a human universal!) - but where colonisers set up their "pleasure stations" is the same place we still have mega red light districts in many countries today, despite official prohibition policy.
This is a super brief overview with huge omissions. What I've read about prostitution in Aztec cultures resembles a lot in this thread (connection to spirituality but also slavery, militarization, etc). Women in prostitution are nearly always a class & cannot or struggle to leave
Prostitution is often painted as liberatory & preferential to marriage. Its true some women in prostitution were allowed in male dominated spaces wives couldn't go (many modern brothels still ban "civic" women). But this was cause they were not seen as a threat to male dominance.
It tell us something that prostitution is most dominant in the strongest patriarchies were women have rigid roles and can rarely chart their own path. Wife and "whore" are two sides of the same coin and require each other: assurance of parentage and indiscriminate male pleasure.
It used to be an MRA talking point that women have "pussy power" and control men drooling after them. But ever since the sex wars liberal feminists parrot this absolute nonsense made worse by the brain dead claim that throwing market forces in the mix heightens the empowerment.
Theres a long history of female defiance in horrific circumstances incl historic prostitution which resembles sexual slavery much more than a female independence trip. Women proved they were smart talented & resilient. But this should never make us romanticize male power systems.

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Jul 28
Miss me with this "women have pussy power over men" shit. This is an MRA talking point youre parroting. For every pretty girl who gets a guy to carry things for her, there are dozens of us harassed, stalked and assaulted by men who found us just "too enticing".
It's not power to get a man to look at you sexually since you have absolutely no control over whether and how he acts on it. The woman who is so utterly bewitching men just do whatever she wants while still accepting "no" for an answer is a sexist myth. Sex appeal doesn't empower
It's so dangerous to tell girls and young women to harness some mythical "siren" power and men will dance to her tune. All you achieve is that someone who fell for these lies blames herself when she'd assaulted because a real "siren" wouldn't have this happen, now would she.
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Jul 26
Several German prisons experiment with letting convicted rapists close to finishing their sentences go to brothels as a form of "therapy to learn sexual interactions with women that are free of violence".

No woman is "experimental ground" for rapists.

n-tv.de/panorama/Einze…
This is a result of framing prostitution as "therapy for men". If men can get psychotherapy in prison why not sexual therapy? A therapist may help them work on social skills - according to several German prison wards a woman in prostitution should teach him not to rape. Insanity.
Going into a brothel to learn about consent is the most upside down idea ever. In most of these scenarios they did not inform the women so they had no idea they were facing a convicted rapist. Like with any john they had to pretend to enjoy it no matter how gross or torturous.
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Jul 26
@OnlyFansPostinL if your goal genuinely is to protect women from entering the sex trade or realising they're being mistreated in it you need to stop shaming them for how they're surviving/the lies they fell for. Societal hatred & stigma does not prevent entry but definitely exit.
I bet half the people who follow this account are men who just hate women, especially those they view as promiscuous or "public goods", and who get off on their public humiliation - first by being sexually objectified and then second by being shamed and dehumanised for it.
The chosen profile image too showing a young woman crying... A lot of porn is just women crying cause they're being humiliated and sexually tortured. @OnlyFansPostinL is an extension of their dehumanization. A forced public walk of shame, like they dont get enough of that already
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Jul 25
Just wondered about the coherence in believing there's no meaningful difference between prostitution and a retail or office job, but also if you haven't sold sex you can't talk about it (unless you're pro the industry of course). But you said my job is virtually the same?? 🤔🤔🤔
If you argue that prostitution is the same as regular work & the only difference is stigma maybe this is a somewhat coherent position. Still since I sell my body by sitting at a computer, I should be able to talk about the nature of prostitution since u guys said its all the same
My back has suffered from too much time working at computers. Sometimes my fingers hurt. My eyes do too. I don't get enough exercise during work hours. If you truly believe this is just like prostitution, then I'm perfectly within my rights to critique that industry.
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Jul 24
My stalker tried to hide behind his minority status as a Muslim migrant, trying to guilt trip me, when I feared for my safety and that of my family and started talking to police, by claiming he'd be deported (he had citizenship of a peaceful developed country, but nvm).
My case is is almost harmless compared to multiple teenage girls I personally know who were victims of gang rape and filmed child sexual abuse, groomed by... groups of Muslim men and boys. My solidarity will always be with victims regardless of perpetrators' minority status.
This is not about painting an entire group of men with the same brush. This is about women and girls coming forward with being threatened, assaulted and raped by men who in many liberals eyes are more oppressed because of class and race and then asking us to stfu about it.
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Jul 24
Until 1997 German men could legally rape their wives. Furthermore the law held that women had to pretend to enjoy #maritalrape our be found at fault in case of divorce. Here's the reasoning of the Federal Court of "Justice" from 1966 translated to English:
"The woman does not fulfill her conjugal duties simply by letting the intercourse take place impassively. If, by reason of her disposition or for other reasons (...) she is unable to find satisfaction in conjugal intercourse, marriage nevertheless requires of her a concession..
..in conjugal affection and sacrifice and forbids the display of indifference or repugnance. For experience has shown that the partner who seeks his natural and legitimate satisfaction in marital intercourse can hardly ever be content with mere quenching of instincts without...
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