When the victim is at their wits' end, near death & desperate, the psychopath makes them an offer.
They say they've had a change of heart or some story & offer a bargain for the victims' freedom from the unending hellish nightmare.
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Or the psychopath tells the victim to go through this elaborate maze & they'll be free, yet at the end of the tests & terrors the victim finds themselves back in their prison cell.
When I ran away from Twitter, I was isolated, weak, hurting on all levels of my mind, body & spirit. I was in a constant state of depression and agitation. I could not go back to Twitter, there was nowhere safe for us.
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There's no club, event, venue or organization that isn't overrun with our abusers &/or their league of WuggieHaters. All because of @AlanSla90124663, one psychopath who stalked us & wove a web of lies about us that too many believe.
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No place we can go that we won't encounter some sort of harassment/ghosting/awkwardity. A large portion of the community feels WE are the actual problem because we won't be silent about abuses we suffer from a growing group of pals.
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Even DMs weren't safe anymore - @CandyLiggett's attempted takeover of our ChillTent in the disguise of a 'Support for Wuggums' Group told us as much.
Olly @AlanSla90124663 told this pal he wanted to get the target off his back and asked our pal if they could contact us to see what it would take to do so.
I asked Heri to relay I wanted a full public admission of abuse/slander from Olly & his pal @MurphyTCat, ECC leader.
We were told Olly didn't want to be involved w/ANY negotiations w/Murphy or the ECC. He said he was acting alone.
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I was then asked what exactly I'd want this confession to say, word for word.
I dictated it to Heri. Heri sent this to our pal who sent it to Olly. Olly agreed to do it.
I asked that Olly pin the post to his profile page - he said no.
I asked if he would instead retweet this admission at intervals over a certain length of time to make sure everyone in the community would have a chance to see it.
Olly had his own demands, asking that I agree to never talk about him again.
I'd have this confession from him as proof & I could show it, but not talk about him.
@AlanSla90124663 also asked that I admit to telling a pal via DM what his human's name was. A name he agreed to submit to my website when he stalked me there.
The go between showed us shots of the DM incident Olly was referring to.
The convo where Olly's human's name came up was a DM Heri had w/his #Nipclub DJ Boss, @kittehboi. Seems when Heri warned Kittehboi about hiring a pal of the psychopath & his convicted pedophile buddy, Kittehboi sent the DM to Olly.
Did I mention there's nowhere left to go in #Anipals twitter mew don't have to worry about being targeted by scammers, elitists, narcissists & abusers?
It's worth repeating again.
Negotiations went on for hours...this was not a quick exchange, it was something Olly made sure to drag out all day, involving this pal who was acting as a go-between, Heri, and myself.
But I was also seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
I'd almost made it through this maze of traps, madness & pitfalls...my name would be cleared, I could hold my head up & walk through the community anew.
Justice would be done.
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This tweet by Heri sums up the experience and its end result.
The psychopath got what he wanted. He drew me out of hiding, gave me hope, sent me through the memory of all he'd done to word HIS confession, dragged mutual, respected pals into his web & drank his fill of our emotions & anxieties.
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Olly did not just play me, he played every one of us. It was a simple power trip by a sadistic psychopath.
Here is something else I'll repeat because I find it worth doing so...
I am not his first victim. He's done this to others.
Olly would always be my tormenter. I would always have to live in fear of his insane stories and rumors he'd generate about me whenever in the mood or low on "supply".
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The next day we were sent word that Murphy now wanted to negotiate. We didn't take the bait.
DMs of support kept coming in. Some pals were checking on us regularly, concerned about how I was feeling, what I might do. I missed them.
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I thought about how if I left Twitter, there'd be no safe place for these beautiful #Anipals or any others in the future. No shelter from their storms. None to help or care about their well being. Viewed only as slaves, underlings or prey.😿
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There'd also be no one to warn pals about Olly @AlanSla90124663. Former victims have either left Twitter or are afraid to speak up. Cruelty leaves scars.
Heri went back to Twitter first on the day of the ride. I followed, heart beating overtime, stomach in knots, tears in my eyes. I had no idea what was going to happen. I ran from place to place at our party afraid to speak to anyone.
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One of the first things someone (A Bengal tight w/ECC) had to say about my return?
How they'd never go to an event hosted by me & what I was doing right now was despicable
Chapter One came out...seems some pals were not in favor of Freedom of Speech. The protestations began. Pals who thought I should keep my victimization by other #Anipals to myself because it was "unpleasant for them to read" started replying.
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Some were pals I didn't know, others were pals I'd been furriends with for some time, like @ShivaandJaya who commented on my blog in December when it came out that she'd defend me w/sharp claws toward my abusers (Olly, Murphy, Plum, ECC etc)
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But now? @ShivaandJaya says I'm NOT being a perfect cat like her bestie, Olly. She wasn't interested in seeing evidence Olly is an abusive psychopath. Just wanted me to shut up. We no longer talk. Her BFF's are Olly & @LittleTess3.
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@JackRussellBro2 Sent us a DM, asking for details due to concerns about my story's tone. Heri obliged. They said what a horrible experience we'd been through & how I SHOULD tell my story & find healing from the traumatic experience.
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It was different in public though...another chapter, @JackRussellBro2 made a tweet shaming me for telling my story. It was cruel to learn our pain & twist it to their advantage.
We had to say goodbye to Tigger @KelliDa80763885. The pal that knew every move the ECC was planning against me but never spoke up publicly in my defense.
.@KelliDa80763885 was the only pal who had our parents phone # in case of emergencies. But when I left Twitter? The phone was silent. Pumpkin @cathiebun however, though only knowing Tiggs a few months, was having convos all the time.
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Seems a vow from @cathiebun is worthless. A few weeks ago he told us he'd be helping Jerry, shamed us for blocking Tigger. When Heri asked about the promise he made to me? Pumpkin said he'd just "changed his mind". His GF went w/him.
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But the pal who disappointed us most when we returned? Someone who we'd helped w/major events. A pal who we thought we had an affinity with, a Free Spirit who seemed to be first to speak out for those who'd been victimized.
Baggins.
We were on board to participate with @BagginsSuperCat festival again this year, just as we had two years previous. For some reason though, she staffed her volunteer crew w/every former "bestie" (& hater) we'd had to block. And us.
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She knew what these pals & ECC had done, she's always known.
When I came back to Twitter, Heri pleaded w/@BagginsSuperCat to speak publicly in my defense. She said she'd see what she could do. Said she had "real life things" going on.
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This IS my real life. I've been stalked, doxxed & abused for 15 months by members of a club @BagginsSuperCat once belonged to & worked closely with.
Respected in the community, pals would listen if she spoke in my defense.
@BagginsSuperCat blocked us without a word. Sad, but not surprising. This is at least the 4th time I'd begged for her help, to purrlease get them to stop hurting me. Her answer was always the same; I was right & she'd get to it later.
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So much for☮️&❤️& coming to a pals' aid when in need.
It's a lie.
No one would help me & those who I thought I'd found sanctuary w/had turned their backs on me & blocked me. I needed time to heal but I couldn't leave Twitter again.
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I invited all Beautiful Souls to come heal with me. I created a Summer Wellness Series so I could focus on total healing of my body/mind/spirit while I told my story.
So, here I am at Xanawu, w/my merry band of dreamers that have gathered in tipis under the stars to raise our voices in love & unity. We WILL survive. We WILL succeed. We WILL excel.
I hope mew will join with us on this journey as we weather the storms together, laugh and celebrate together, and peacefully reject the restrictions and abusers in our anipals community.
heri here.. watch out wuggie!! *catches laundry hanper*.. here mew goes .. thanks for doings da laundry.. did mew gets any noms or drinks? im has da chuck wagon key.. #chilltent
Thanks Broseph - mew are a lifesaver on that one!
No way did I want to mess up the Harvest Gold paint job on these washer/dryers - it's vintage!
Speaking of vintage, have mew seen my van? I left it parked by the warehouse. Lemme get a wrap and soda #ChillTent#BeIn#WuggieLove
The Mexican feast is going on and the movie will be starting in about 30 minutes...why not stop by the Candy Wagon and Catnip Dispensary to load up on treats for the cinema? I promise mew will not regret it!😻🌿 #BeIn#WuggieLove#ChillTent#CatsOfTwitter#dogsoftwitter#Anipals
dj heri here.. hemlo mew #HeavyMetalCats is times to sings da songs of ours peoples!.. we gets some rare stuffs tonite.. an some new tunes too! we is tuned up an ready so im asks mew.. are mew ready to rawk?
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dj heri here.. im opens wif an fave of mines.. an im been accused of havings an.. #HeavyMetalCats