A thread about the word cis: short for cisgender. 1/
I ran a poll and over 5700 people said they find to be offensive. That should be enough for anyone not to use the term. If you want to know why, read the responses.
2/ The reason I find it offensive is that it suggests I identify with gender stereotypes. People are not walking talking GI Joe dolls or Barbies. I fought gender stereotypes my whole life. I wonβt wear one as a label.
There are many other reasons.
3/. Once someone has told you that they find a term offensive, to continue to use the term is to turn it into a slur: a bigoted and intolerant position refusing to accept that others differ from your ideology. #CisIsASlur
4/ The genderists however have a vested interest in calling you Cisgender. It is important to their ideology. It is important to their hierarchy of oppression. Calling you cis is to call you an oppressor.
5/ I repeat. When they call you cis they are calling you an oppressor. Ironically, this puts them in a position of power over you. Now they can take your stuff because you are a bad person.
6/ They object vociferously to letting you out of this oppressor role they have built for you with this slur.
7/ The same replies are repeated over and over. I only screenshot a couple.
8/ For daring to object to their gender ideology they start to apply the typical pressure. They call you transphobic. Which makes no sense since all you did was ask them not to call YOU something.
Read the word as heretic and it makes more sense.
9/. You are a heretic if you object to the ideology. You must be punished. You must be brought back in line. You are a bad person if you wonβt accept what you are. They have told what you are. You better accept it.
10/. The pressure mounts. If you hold your ground they bring out the big insults. Call you a Terf: Trans exclusionary radical feminist.
This manipulation often works because no one wants to be seen as exclusionary.
11. The insults get stronger and stronger the more you resist.
Do you see how emphatically they require you to be a part of this ideology? Simply resisting the word cisgender brings the rage.
12. Notice too if the insults donβt work they will imply you are reducing women to biology.
But defining what a woman is (a finite noun, specifically an adult human female) is not the same as saying who a woman is (which is infinite).
13. This has been a long thread. Forgive me. I wanted to make it clear just how insistent this new ideology is about you adhering to it. This kind of enormous social pressure works. Watch out for it. See the word cis for what it is: Indoctrination into an ideology.
14. As they teach in Taoism βThe Tao that can be named is not the true Taoβ.
When you label your identity you limit yourself. You place yourself in a box.
Who you are is an infinite expression wayyy too beautiful and complex for any kind label.
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Sad to add this to a thread that just ended on an upbeat note, but you must understand that the vitriol is ramping up. Please be aware.
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Remember that executive order that Trump wrote to protect womenβs sports? Well, the NCAA (the biggest college sports assoc there is) wrote a new policy that pretends to comply with the new rules but really doesnβt. They are giving Trump a giant middle finger. Here is how. 1/
Oh, it sounds nice. They say that men canβt play on womenβs teams. Thatβs is good. Right? Exceptβ¦. 2/
They shirk responsibility for this entirely. They say it is up to the schools to determine who is eligible. And we know how many schools donβt want to comply with this. The Dems for some reason REALLY want to end womenβs sports. 3/
Nurse Sandie Peggie has now been threatened to be fired because she knows a man is a man! The vindictive man in question, Dr. Upton, used the ladies changing room and is throwing a petulant fit bc Sandie dared to want a ladies only ladies changing room. 1/
The hospital, who is being sued bc they let a man use the ladies changing room, has now decided to subject the nurse to further disciplinary proceedings! Not the man who walked into the ladies changing room. They are going after HER! 2/
The original hearing is in the middle of proceedings and wonβt be concluded until at least July when the next hearing is to be held.
This is shocking that the hospital would pull this in the middle of this situation.
If only it was so easy. Dan, and others, think all we need to do is say no and all of these men will leave our private spaces. Except that isnβt what happens.
We say no and they argue with us. They call us names. They threaten us. And then they do what they want. 1/
This is a typical response. These men will just walk into our private spaces.
So now what do you suggest we do? In some places they have made it the law that we canβt even argue with them. Any man at all can come into our spaces and we just have to put up with it. 2/
So yes. Women are angry.
People think there are two sides here. There are not. There are men barging their way into our spaces and us saying no.
We say no nonstop and they keep barging their way in. 3/
When I first got into all of this I, like everyone else, wanted to be kind. I was happy to use whatever language anyone wanted. Sure. Why not?
But then something changed. We call it βpeakingβ. For me it was a story about a womenβs r*p* shelter.
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I couldnβt quite believe what I was seeing. People were angry at a shelter??? Huh? Then I discovered it was a particular group of men who were furious at the shelter for being for women.
Again. Huh????
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This story started with a man who wanted to be volunteer and sit on the phones and listen to the womenβs stories. This shelter is well aware of that type and thus only accepts women volunteers. Itβs a shelter run by and for women only.
Most people have no idea how bad it was for those women swimmers who had to change all their clothes in front of William βLiaβ Thomas and see him waltz around displaying his franks and beans.
They psychologically tormented these girls in order to force this on them.
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Most people think that these men have altered their bodies. The overwhelming majority of them have not. (Over 90% still have the bait and tackle.)
I hope those three women who are suing for pain and emotional distress get every penny those Ivy League schools have. 2/
People thought we were all making it up. They really didnβt understand what was being done to those women. They just thought they had to swim against a guy and thought that was bad enough.
This is why some of us havenβt stopped fighting. 3/
Three swimmers from Penn are suing the Ivy League and the NCAA for allowing a male (William βLiaβ Thomas) to be in their changing room while they were completely nude and then allowing him to compete against them! 1/
2. They seek damages for βpain and suffering, mental and emotional distress, suffering and anxiety, expenses costs and other damages.β
In case you didnβt know, these schools really allowed that man into their changing room and provided the ladies with no other place to change.
3. Female racing swimsuits are extremely tight and itβs very hard to wriggle into them. It takes a long time. They told these women to change in front of this man.