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This is usually shared in my twitter circle, but until we build a community there, I wanted to share it with you all with hopes that you’ll be kind & supportive.
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WAIT! Y’all are supposed to give advice as well! 👀👀👀
The job search is difficult and it often leads to one feeling as if they aren’t good enough if they mistakenly place too much value in the “call back/interview” process. My suggestion is to look at it from a logical perspective. Apply to a certain amount of jobs a day.
Research what a great resume looks like and alter it according to the job. Go above and beyond (cover letters, thank you emails etc) or even have someone else look over your resume. If you’re doing all you can there’s literally nothing more you can do. Remember some things are
Out of your control. Try to take up small jobs like Lyft/Uber, Instacart, Ubereats etc, substitute teaching. Look into unemployment. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. But most of all don’t take any of this PERSONALLY.
I know it’s hard not to but the hard reality is while we’re experiencing a hiring crisis, we’re also leaning towards a recession. Being unemployed does not determine your character, value or worth. You got this! It’s hard— feel the emotion but attack it logically. Don’t give up!
It looks like you all might need to have a conversation about boundaries, standards and expectations. They don’t seem clear in this situation. Speaking up doesn’t lead to conflict if the other person truly wants to work something out with you. If you find they don’t change after
you’ve discussed how you’ve felt— only you know when you’ll have to remove yourself from the situation. Words are just words. Words without action following is BS in my honest opinion. Pay attention to action/effort over EVERYTHING.
I talk to myself all the time lol. I find that looking back on something in hindsight can help us respond to similar things in the future in a better way however too much of something can be bad. 1. Find out the reason why you’re replaying conversations in your head.
Do you feel you should have said something different or you didn’t get the response you wanted? 2. Remember no one is thinking of you as much as you’re thinking of you. Sometimes we’re our own biggest critics. Have a conversation with the person and inquire about your thoughts
never assume you know how someone else thought/felt about what you might have said. If you don’t know FOR SURE they feel that way then it’s a figment of your own imagination. 3. We might want to see a therapist 🥰 to help with overthinking/ self-doubt. ❤️🫶🏾
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