1. Depending financially on others. If you are an able-bodied, able-minded adult, you need to take care of yourself instead of relying on others.
Sure, emergencies may happen and you may need to borrow some money from your parents or friends when they do, but your financial dependence on others shouldn't be routine.
2. Not having an emergency fund. You should have had one in your twenties, but if you managed without it then, you definitely need one now — whether you have a family or not.
Normalize asking your partner "what is your goal for marriage?"
One of the problems people experience in marriage is being married without actually understanding why they are getting married. I can confidently tell you this for free from professional experience.
Alot of people begin to discover why they got married when in the marriage and more often than not, the reason they discover doesn't align with what they want so it becomes a problem trying to adapt and adjust
Some of the reasons people marry are:
Peer & family pressure
Companionship
Emotional support
Financial liberation
Sexual pleasures
Procreation, but to mention a few.
The challenge is, from the get go, they didn't think of all this so when reality begins to dawn...
Maturity 1:1 In the induction into the class of maturity, thou shalt never snitch, sell out, gossip or spread a secret told you in confidence.
Maturity 1:2 Understanding when to keep mute and when to speak maketh thy wisdom full.
Maturity 1:3 Expect thou nothing from thy neighbours so thou shan’t be disappointed.
Maturity 1:4 No one oweth thou anything, therefore thou shalt work hard for what thou wanteth in thy life.
Maturity 1:5 Thou shalt not put mouth for wetin no concern you, except it be-eth thy brother or sister. And before thou doeth so, ask questions so you don’t shalaye.
As you go through life you will meet two type of women and
What Motivation rally means 4rm a woman to a man..
1. A domestic Woman. 2. And A hustler.
1. A DOMESTIC woman is all about the house, she is not built for the street, she can’t hustle, put her where she can clean, cook, wash, pray, take care of children and see how she does wonders. No matter how much you talk about hustling starting a business
or moving to the next level you will never get the kind of vibe you want from her, Why? Because she constantly see them as stress. A domestic woman is easily contented. She doesn’t need much. Give her food, some flashy things of life and she will be a "good" wife.