Nearly a third of men under 30 have not had sex. And a higher percent do not have as much sex as they’d like – not exactly surprising, but this kind of statistic is a sign of much deeper problems.
Our society criminalizes sex & sweeps it under the rug. The consequences are straightforward - there is more violence. Since platforms like Craigslist were banned from advertising sex, serious violent crimes against all women – not just sex workers – has increased by nearly 1/5.
And men who do not have sex suffer – they are less likely to be a part of the labor force, and more likely to experience depression, nihilism, and other mental health issues.
The #MeToo movement accomplished so much, & we have to take the next step – normalizing having healthy, positive, consensual sex. Decriminalizing sex work, funding sex education, & creating outreach programs that help young people develop healthy sexual habits.
We should be moving toward a right to sex. People should be able to have sex when they feel they want to, and we need to develop services that meet people’s needs without attaching the baggage of shame or criminalization.
So let’s talk about sex.
We need to bring these discussions to the spotlight. Normalizing healthy positive sex will have too many downstream benefits to list – we need to move past our history of shame. It’s time to bring sex into the light.
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Girls and women face a lot of sexualization, objectification, and exploitation of their bodies. Sex work creates an avenue to flip that power structure on its head.
There’s a call to decriminalize sex work, but not to legalize because SWers bodies aren’t government property. Misinformed clients calling for legalization of sex work sounds like further objectification & exploitation to the benefit of the client, not the worker.
There’s a lot of saviorism in clients and very little knowledge of the actual lives and struggles of the human beings who work in sex work - most of the time, they don’t even know our real names or see us as a person. But there is also a lot of shaming of clients of sex workers.
The migrant detention camps at our border & our inhumane treatment of immigrants comes from a long trajectory in the history of the United States of repeatedly oppressing & traumatizing native and minority communities for the purpose of control and land acquisition. Thread (1/11)
In order to do better, we must choose to be different from our past.
U.S. History of internment/detainment/detention camps from most recent to oldest: (2/11)
Migrant detention centers. ICE first opened in 2006 with overcrowding and inhumane treatment including non-consensual hysterectomies and family separation. These are still open today. (3/11)