A house help feels incapacitated because he/she thinks of their job and get into the victim mindset and the boss gets into the power role of do it or you lose your job.
SNIPPETS FROM MY HEART: Your assignment isn't communal
I know you want support 24/7. I want it too. I want to wake up in the morning to encouraging text messages and prayers and surprise massages and food specially made by friends. Mind you, we get these things
But on some days, you'll sound and feel like a crazy person because you actually look like a crazy person. You'll believe things that an average person can't comprehend (mind you they're not average because they're small minded but because they carry a different vision)
You'll set goals that will look crazy. You'll be bent on achieving thing that no one else comprehend.
We applaud Abraham yeah? But imagine Abraham was your son and he's going to a city "the Lord will YET show him"
Abram, you mean God hasn't shown you yet and you're going?
SNIPPETS FROM MY HEART: You're important in the scheme of things.
I know this sounds cliché but it's got to be true. The bible speaks of an army that neither jostles nor break ranks.
If you've ever walked for pageantry or ran a race on track or even participated
In a march past, see how frustrating it is when your neighbour leaves their lane and bump into you or worse, abandon their duty post to content yours with you? That's how frustrating it is when you abdicate your throne because you think you don't count.
If all you did was shine shields for men at war, you absence would be felt.
That tiny thing you think you bring to the table counts. Anna was an intercessor and she counted. It always counts.
You don't have to be on the stage.
Many times, we do silly and careless things under the guise of "it's my life after all"
It's not your life alone if you've submitted to God.
It's not just your life when you've chosen to be in relationship with others.
It's not just your life when you have children.
It's not just your life when your friends are true come hell or high water.
It's not!
Every decision you take affects their lives too.
If I eat every sweet thing and don't take care of my health, these people are OBLIGATED...
to take care of me. It is unfair to them that I'm irresponsible with my health. It is absolutely unfair that I blame them for not taking care of me when even I don't take care of myself.
Let's get romantic
If you have committed to be with someone romantically and they
SNIPPETS FROM MY HEART: it's your decision to pour out.
It's a norm to hear people say "I'll give it back to you" 😂😂😂 that's a terrible place to be; where what comes out of you is dependent on the stability or the insanity of another person.
I know we should let people know what we can't tolerate and to draw boundaries means to speak assertively and that's the problem. We drop assertiveness for aggression and we fight to prove points that are not even points.
If a physically insane person starts chasing your car on your way to work do you drive round to chase them about? You don't because you have a destination and a timeline.
You can't pour out bile because someone gave you bile; you address it and leave the situation.