SIGNS YOU’RE BEING TAKEN FOR GRANTED 🧵
If you had to wonder/guess if your relationship falls in this space — that’s sign #1 & you’re in the right space— cuz this thread is for you!
If your partner never thanks you for doing favors or being a great partner, they're not appreciating you for all you're worth. If your partner never acknowledges any of your personal sacrifices for him/her or the relationship, it's a red flag, too.
They demand things of you that they won’t/don’t do themselves. There’s no reciprocity in the relationship. This is a major sign of UNappreciation.
They act as if the things you do for them are mandatory like you’re EXPECTED to do them & show no gratitude in the process.
They make plans without including you & just expect you to go along with them. They don’t value your individuality or autonomy. You’re seen as an extension of them.
They don’t care to learn about you. They don’t ask how your day is/was. They don’t ask about your goals/future. They have no interest in trying things you love or that are special to you.
They spend time with everyone else more than they spend time with you. You’re always put on the backburner.
Relationships require equal work and compromise in order to make both people happy and to show willingness to adapt and care for each other. If your partner refuses to compromise —it shows they just string you along without thinking of you as a valued person in the relationship.
If you’re always feeling guilty of not doing enough in the relationship because of remarks/comments they make they may be taking advantage of your sensitivity/kindness for others.
They never include you in plans nor do they want to spend special moments/occasions with you.
How many of these are true for you in your current or most recent past relationships?
I wasn’t even supposed to do a thread today but yeah DISCLAIMER: I am a licensed professional counselor. This is NOT therapy nor is it a confidential platform. This does not mean you have a diagnosis. All information shared is general and vague on purpose! #threadtherapist
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