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Nov 19 13 tweets 4 min read
The Harvard Study of Adult Development began tracking the lives of 268 Harvard sophomores in 1938.

It is considered the longest running study on adult life, health, and happiness.

Here are 3 powerful findings everyone should know:
Finding: Relationship satisfaction impacts health.

The researchers looked back at the lives of the 80-year-old participants to determine what factors were predictive of healthy aging.

What did they find?

Relationship satisfaction at age 50 was predictive of health at age 80.
Study director Robert Waldinger:

"It wasn’t their cholesterol levels that predicted how they were going to grow old. It was how satisfied they were in their relationships. The people who were the most satisfied in their relationships at age 50 were the healthiest at age 80."
Finding: Loneliness kills.

Humans are social creatures. We thrive through connection to those around us.

Study participants who felt isolated were observably less happy and experienced notably earlier declines in health than those who felt connected.
The study observed the negative impacts of alcohol and smoking on the long-term health of the participants, but found that loneliness was just as negatively impactful.

Study director Robert Waldinger:

"Loneliness kills. It’s as powerful as smoking or alcoholism."
This finding on loneliness is interesting in the context of the chart I shared last week on the amount of time we spend alone over the course of our lives.

While we need to learn to embrace solitude, the quality and depth of our social connections is critical to our well-being.
Finding: Quality over quantity.

The researchers found that the quality of relationships was more impactful on health and happiness than the quantity of relationships.

A few deep bonds are worth far more than hundreds of weak or unhealthy ones.
Those are 3 powerful findings from the study that everyone should know.

For more on the study, check out this wonderful 2016 Ted Talk from study director Robert Waldinger.

Follow me @SahilBloom for more writing on growth, health, and happiness.
I'm writing a deeper dive on the study in an upcoming newsletter. Join 130,000+ others who will receive it! sahilbloom.com/newsletter
The research was also covered in a recent episode of @hubermanlab podcast.

Worth your time! open.spotify.com/episode/5KkUqa…
One fact I find interesting:

The findings feel “obvious” and yet so many people fail to live in a manner that takes them into account.

We continue to chase status and fame despite an awareness that relationships are what truly matter in the end.

Humans are funny like that.
My best advice on relationships:

When you think something nice about someone, let them know.

It's a shame we often wait until a person's funeral to say all of the nice things we thought about them.

The next time you have a positive thought about someone—tell them right then.
One more suggestion:

Sunday evening walks with your loved ones.

Builds deep connection and releases a whole lot of happiness chemicals.

Smiling is mandatory!

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Nov 19
Feels like yesterday there were 1,000 of you here.

Grateful for the journey—and for all of you (even the haters).

Just getting started… Image
Let’s see if we can hit 1M before this app explodes.
Good to have people to keep you humble along the way.

Just got this text from @ElizabethSBloom during my deadlift workout… Image
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Nov 16
I can’t believe Roman is 6 months old today. The days are long but the years are short. Embrace every single moment! Image
I was out on a walk with Roman recently when an older man approached me.

He said:

“I remember walking here with my newborn daughter. An old man came up to me and said ‘It goes by fast, cherish it.’ Well, my daughter is 45 now. It goes by fast, cherish it.”

Don’t blink.
As a side note, I take real issue with the cynicism that exists around becoming a parent.

• “Hope you got your fun in!”
• “Enjoy never sleeping again!”

The good outweighs the bad by 10000x. It’s not even close.

This is part of why I share so much positive “Dad” content.
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Nov 15
You can get pretty damn far in life by just saying what you're going to do and then doing it.
It’s actually pretty crazy how much you can stand out by simply doing what you say you’re going to do.

Seems obvious, but it still feels like a rarity at times.
Sometimes inversion is the best way to look at these things:

I don’t know that anything will guarantee success.

But I do know a few things that will guarantee failure—not doing what you say you’re going to do is one of them.
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Nov 12
I recently came across data on who we spend our time with over the course of our lives.

The insights are simultaneously inspiring and depressing.

Here are 6 graphs everyone needs to see:
Time Spent With Parents & Siblings

Peaks in childhood and declines after age 20.

Key Takeaways:
• Time with family is limited.
• Time with parents declines sharply after age 20.
• You may only see your loved ones a few more times.

Prioritize and cherish every moment. Image
Time Spent With Friends

Peaks at age 18 and declines sharply to a low baseline.

Key Takeaways:
• Embrace friendship breadth, but focus on depth.
• Cherish those who are with you through good times and bad.

Invest your energy in the healthy, meaningful friendships that last. Image
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Nov 10
My first appearance on My First Million just went live.

• How private equity guys make so much money
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• My businesses and numbers
• How @ShaanVP changed my life
@thesamparr’s love of Mean Girls

Entertainment + learning.

Links below!
Spotify: spoti.fi/3NYR23Q

Apple: apple.co/3hpjEqt

YouTube:
Here’s the funny but true story of how I pitched Stitch Fix as a long at $46 in a job interview and mercifully got rejected on the spot (rather than being fired 9 months later when it was trading at $3).

Everything happens for a reason, folks!
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Nov 10
The hiring process is ultra-competitive.

But there are specific actions you can take to stand out.

Here are 16 ways to stand out in a hiring process (that don’t involve your resume):
Stop Fearing Rejection

I’m not ashamed to admit that I’ve been rejected for more jobs than I can count.

It happens—it's ok.

The first way to stand out is to stop fearing rejection and actually put yourself out there.

Remember: You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
Leverage Warm Intros

Warm intros are the holy grail of a competitive hiring process.

Scan your networks for any connections to a company—LinkedIn is a great place to start.

If you find any that are close enough, use them.
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