How to stop overthinking…

The Poison Arrow Principle:

(a visual thread) There’s an old Buddhist story I love:

Imagine someone is struck by a poisoned arrow…

Everyone needs to hear this…

The Surfer Mentality:

(a visual thread) When a surfer gets up on a wave, they enjoy the present moment…

This is good.

I’ve been experimenting with AI financial tools. The new AI Advisor release from Origin is neat.

Every day:

1. What happened in markets
2. What it means FOR YOU

Then prompt AI Advisor for recommendations based on trends.

(not an investor, just a user and fan)

The power of stuff like this is in democratizing access to sound financial advice.

There’s a huge segment of the population that will be able to connect financial accounts and get personalized/customized financial guidance at a strong CFP level.

The 10 most powerful paradoxes of life:

(a visual thread) The Effort Paradox

This relationship concept changed my life…

The Hidden Debt Theory:

(a visual thread) When you avoid a hard conversation, you’re taking on a debt…

Everyone needs to hear this…

The Empty Boat Mindset:

(a visual thread) A monk is meditating on a lake when a boat bumps into his…

Random question that I’m genuinely curious about: Why don’t commercial airplanes have an eject button?

Like a button that can be pressed if the plane is about to crash that shoots off the top and every seat ejects with a little parachute.

Is it a cost issue? Engineering impossibility?

I have to imagine people would pay more to know they had a better (say 80% higher) chance of survival in the event of a catastrophic failure.

Just something that I’ve always wondered about and now I want to know the answer to. Even if you assume it still has some hazards and issues (in air collisions post ejection, parachute deployment issues, etc.) if you could get to 80% survival rather than ~0% survival in a catastrophic failure, I bet people would opt to fly a more expensive airline that had this.

Call me old fashioned, but this seems…not good. Someday we will long for the good old days where you got blackmailed by other humans.

The 5 Types of Wealth was released three months ago...

I'm completely blown away by the response.

We've already crossed 250,000+ readers. It was an instant New York Times, USA Today, and Sunday Times Bestseller and has spent 7 weeks on the NYT Bestseller list to date.

More importantly, I've heard from readers ages 10 to 100. People from all around the world, from all walks of life, aligned around a common idea. A movement.

This movement is my life mission.

A movement to redefine success. To reject the default and live by design.

Today is the best day to join that movement.

Order the book now on a big 32% sale: amazon.com/gp/product/059…

An enormous thank you to everyone who has read and shared to date. Let’s redefine what it means to live a wealthy life!

P.S. If you email your receipt to sahil@sahilbloom.com I'll send you a 50+ page companion workbook so that you can go deeper on the book's most important exercises. This bonus offer expires this week.
And given the success, we’re adding new book tour stops:

- Boston - May 19
- LA - June 16
- Austin - June 30

Tickets available here:

DM me if you plan to attend! the5typesofwealth.com/events

The 5 Types of Wealth was released one month ago...

I'm utterly blown away by the response:

We’ve crossed 100,000 readers. It was an instant NYT, USA Today, and Sunday Times Bestseller. It’s been a NYT Bestseller every week since release (something only 6% of bestsellers ever achieve).

More importantly, I've heard from readers ages 11 to 100. People from all walks of life. People from all around the world. Aligned around a common idea. A movement.

This movement is my life mission.

A movement to redefine success. To redefine what it means to live a wealthy life. To reject the default and live by design.

Join the movement...

Order now (big 30% sale!): amazon.com/Types-Wealth-T…

P.S. Email your receipt to sahil@sahilbloom.com and I'll send you the 50+ page companion workbook so that you can go deeper on the book's most important exercises. This is a really beautiful review.

A minimalist gives in...

"Within 100 pages I had earmarked so many pages that it felt necessary for me to own my own copy!"

🤯

Let’s try something:

If you order a hardcover copy of my book TODAY and DM me the receipt, I’ll send you a personalized video with some topics from the book I think you’ll love.

Order here:

P.S. You’ll also get the 50+ page companion workbook and more. amazon.com/gp/product/059… This crazy, unscalable idea was prompted by a dinner this week with my friend @MarcLore.

He once recorded 1,000+ videos with specific personal names to promote Jet in its early days.

Lesson: You have to do the things others won’t to achieve the outcomes you want.

Everyone needs to hear this… For more ideas like this, order my bestselling new book, The 5 Types of Wealth.

Order here:

P.S. Email your receipt to sahil@sahilbloom.com and I'll send you a 50+ page companion workbook, digital community access, and a life planning workshop recording.amazon.com/Types-Wealth-T…

I've been dreaming of this moment for years...

My book is officially an instant New York Times Bestseller! The book is 30% off on Amazon (and buy one get one 50% off!).

Order here:

Email a copy of your receipt to sahil@sahilbloom.com and I'll send you a 50+ page companion workbook, access to a digital community, and a recording of the launch workshop.amazon.com/gp/product/059…

I turned 34 this week.

There are a lot of things I know now that I wish I knew when I was younger.

Here are 34 life lessons from 34 years:

(long post, bookmark this!)

1. You'll achieve much more by being consistently reliable than by being occasionally extraordinary.

You can get pretty damn far in life by just being someone that people can count on to show up and do the work.

2. You're one year of focus away from people saying you got lucky.

Most people overestimate what they can do in a day and underestimate what they can do in a year. Your entire life can change in one year. Not ten, not five, not three. One. One year of focused, daily effort. You're always just one year away from a dramatically different life. The transformation won't be easy, but it is possible.

3. The worst prison in the world is having the talent and intelligence to achieve something great but lacking the courage to go out and do it.

There is someone out there living the life you want simply because they took action and you didn’t. They aren't smarter than you. They aren't more skilled than you. They aren't more resourceful than you. They just acted when you didn't. Think about that.

4. There's nothing more dangerous than the person who shows up every single day even when the rewards are uncertain.

The one who can tolerate the most uncertainty is the one who will eventually win.

5. Preparation always beats planning.

Planning is based on the expectation of order. Preparation is based on the expectation of chaos. Plan for order and you'll be destroyed by chaos. Prepare for chaos and you'll thrive in any condition.

6. A lot of problems are solved by waking up early and working out.

Waking up early is as close to a life cheat code as you will find. It requires intense discipline, and it creates evidence of your power and control over your world. That bleeds into every other area of life. Confidence is built, not born.

7. The worst decisions in life are made when you allow your head to talk you into something when your gut already said no.

Rule for life: Never let your head outsmart your gut.

8. The answers you seek are found in the actions you avoid.

Every single thing you want in life is on the other side of something you don't want to do. The body you seek is found in the workouts you skip. The relationships you seek are found in the hard conversations you delay. The success you seek is found in the hours of execution you avoid. The answer is found in the action. Remember that.

9. It's all on you.

No one is coming to save you. No one will fix your problems. No one will change your mindsets. No one will hand you the things you want in life. It's just you. It's all on you. There's a power in that.

10. Later you'll be dead.

Life is filled with laters. I'll spend more time with my kids later. I'll find time for my health later. I'll have more freedom later. The brutal reality: Later is just another word for never. Most of the things you say you'll do later won't be possible by the time you claim you'll do them. Your kids won't be five years old later. Your health won't be there later. Your life won't suddenly be built for freedom and enjoyment later. Either design it into your life now or live with regret later.

11. "Be realistic" is the single worst piece of advice.

It’s impossible to fly with your feet on the ground. It’s not up to anyone else to decide what's possible for you or your life. Sometimes, you need to be unrealistic.

12. Anxiety loves idleness.

Stress and anxiety feed on idleness. When you take action, you starve them of the oxygen they need to survive. When in doubt, act.

13. You are the sum total of the actions you take.

You may have positive thoughts and intentions, but your actions are all that matters in the end. And no matter what anyone tells you, your actions are always within your control. You get to choose your next action. If it isn't one you're proud of, that's on you.

14. Choose your hard.

It's hard to build deep, meaningful relationships. It's also hard to live on the surface with everyone. It's hard to build the body you want. It's also hard to see your body atrophy from lack of use. It's hard to build a life of purpose. It's also hard to live without one. Choose your hard.

15. No one has it all figured out.

No one knows what they're doing. Even the people you admire. Everyone is stumbling along. Some are just willing to stumble enough that they find their way into something magical.

16. You don't plan your future. You plan your actions today, and those actions create your future.

A question to reset your focus: If I repeated this day for 100 straight days, would my life be better or worse? Planning your future can quickly spiral into procrastination in disguise. Focus on the actions in the present and let the future take care of itself.

17. The people you choose to surround yourself with will determine your outcomes.

The Pygmalion Effect says that we rise to the level of other people's expectations for us. If you surround yourself with people who believe you are capable of more, who want you to think bigger, who push you to grow, you will prove them right. Remember: Someone is either holding you back or pushing you forward. There is no in between.

18. Life is more fragile than you think (even when you account for that statement).

You never know when it will be the last time you get to hug that friend, tuck your kid in for bed, kiss your wife, take a walk with your parents, or see that crazy family member. Hug your people with everything you have. Always make them let go first.

19. Inputs may be trendy, but outputs get you paid.

No one cares about your deep work ritual or morning routine if you don’t get sh*t done. Focus on your inputs, but never lose sight of the fact that the world will judge you based on your outputs. If the quality of the outputs doesn't match the quality of the inputs over a long time horizon, you need to adjust the inputs.

20. Stress is a tax on extreme ambition.

When you care deeply about something, you will experience feelings of stress that accompany the non-linearity of your progress. The goal isn't to have no stress, but to stress about things that actually matter to you.

21. The good old days are happening right now.

Every single thing you do today is something that your 90-year-old self will wish they could go back and do. Slow down, look around, embrace the present.

22. Adaptability is the single most important trait for life.

The explorer doesn't set out on his voyage trusting that the seas will remain calm and that he will stay perfectly on course; but rather, in his ability to adapt when the inevitable storms and chaos arrive. You are the explorer and life is your voyage. You don't need to trust in your plan or your intelligence. You need to trust in your ability to adapt.

23. Dopamine from information gathering is a dangerous drug.

Your entire life will change the moment you stop looking for more information and start acting on the information you already have. Get your dopamine from action.

24. Happiness is found in the becoming.

Real happiness is found in the anticipation. It’s the quest. It’s the hunt. It’s the process. It's the journey. It's the moment right before you achieve it. Happiness is not in the having, but in the becoming.

25. The things you want most in life will come to you, but only when you're ready for them.

Mario Quintana once wrote, "Don’t waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come." Your external reality is often a manifestation of your internal reality. Don't look out, look in.

26. The word "yet" will change your life.

"I'm not good enough" becomes "I'm not good enough...yet." "I don't know how to do it" becomes "I don't know how to do it...yet." "I'm not capable of that" becomes "I'm not capable of that...yet." "Yet" is your one word reminder that you can achieve anything that you set your mind to. You are dynamic and capable of so much more than you realize. Embrace the "yet" and change your life.

27. Success always follows interest.

Most people focus too much on being interesting and not enough on being interested. Being interested is how you become interesting. When you're interested, you're prone to deep focus, which cultivates a depth that is impossible to fake. That depth is a necessary ingredient of success.

28. Winning can be problematic for your social life.

Drake once said, "People like you more when you working towards something. Not when you have it." I felt that.

29. You should always cringe at your former self.

If you look back at yourself from a year ago and you don't cringe at your outputs, habits, behaviors, or actions, you should be worried. That "cringe" sensation is a sign of your growth. It should always exist.

30. Work hard first, then smart later.

When you're young, all you have is time. You don't have the skills, money, knowledge, experience, or networks that would allow you to work smart. You have to trade your time to acquire those things. Once you have them, you can pick and choose your opportunities, but until then, work hard.

31. The only way to make a lot of money is to create a lot of value.

No one hands out money. No one is going to pay you just because they like you or think you're cool. That's not the way the world works. Money earned is a direct byproduct of value created. It's not talking about the thing, it's not brainstorming about the thing, it's not asking about the thing, it's not thinking about the thing. The only way to create value is by doing the thing. Identify a problem, create a solution, scale the solution. Simple, not easy.

32. Everything matters.

You don't get to pick and choose when to show up, because the world will ignore your best and judge you for your worst. If you want to win, your responsibility is to show up with energy and enthusiasm for the little things just as much as you do for the big things.

33. It's not supposed to be easy.

The most valuable things in life are hard to earn. They will take longer than you ever imagined. And that’s precisely why they’re so valuable.

34. The climb prepares you for the summit.

If you got dropped at the top of Mount Everest, you'd immediately pass out from the altitude. You can't skip the climb in life, it physically and mentally prepares you for the summit. Never intentionally seek to avoid the climb. Be grateful for the struggle and what it builds within you.

If you enjoyed this, you're going to love my book, The 5 Types of Wealth. It's a guide to building a life around the things that you truly care about.

Reject the default. Live by design.

Get your copy here: the5typesofwealth.com/#order

P.S. Order a copy and DM me the receipt and I'll send you a personalized video with some thoughts on the book. It should be said, all of these life lessons became clear with the benefit of hindsight.

One of my favorite quotes:

"Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards." - Soren Kierkegaard

I used to struggle to fall asleep every single night.

The 4-7-8 method fixed it for me:

- 4-second nose inhale
- 7-second hold
- 8-second mouth exhale
- Repeat 3-5x

It works by activating your parasympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for rest and recovery.

Next time you find yourself staring at the ceiling, mind racing, give it a shot.

Screenshot is from my book (in the Physical Wealth Guide section).

Order here: amazon.com/gp/product/059… To be honest, I used to think breathwork was nonsense, but then I tried it, and completely changed my mind.

Kudos to @hubermanlab and others who created content on it that helped me understand the science.

My book shares three breathing practices that help promote a calm state.

How to change your life in 30 days...

The Grow30 Challenge:

(a thread on how it works) It's simple: 5 daily actions for 30 straight days.

My wife and I recently celebrated our 8th anniversary.

Over the last year, I asked couples who have been married 50+ years what advice they’d give to their younger selves.

Here’s the relationship advice everyone needs to hear: 1. Tell your partner you love them every night before falling asleep. Someday you’ll find the other side of the bed empty and wish you could.

2. Never keep score in love.

3. Laugh until you cry. Laughing together goes a long way to smooth the inevitable bumps in the road.

It feels crazy to say this, but here we are:

I'm going on a book tour!

NYC: February 3
Miami: February 5
SF: February 6
LA: February 8
London: February 13

This moment feels special:

Your entire life can change faster than you ever thought possible.

Trust me, I've lived it.

For the last four years, I've written and shared my words every single day. Two newsletters per week, every single week. Daily posts across various platforms. Over 500,000 words. All aimed at creating positive ripples in the world, at inspiring others to live high performing, healthy, wealthy lives.

And now, all of that brings me to this moment, my first book: The 5 Types of Wealth.

It's not about me, but it is a manifestation of my journey. A reminder that anyone, anywhere, in any walk of life has the ability to define what matters to them and start to build a life around it.

I am blown away by this journey and this moment and I'd love nothing more than to meet you at one of our events.

I will be staying at every event until I meet every single person. That is my commitment to you and I can't wait to make good on it.

Grab tickets here: the5typesofwealth.com/events

P.S. More dates and locations to come. Comment below with your requests and we'll add them to the list! Other cities and countries on the list for 2025 events:

- India
- Australia
- Atlanta
- Phoenix/Scottsdale
- Chicago
- Austin

What else should we add?

I see a lot of bad advice out there when it comes to making money.

Here's my attempt to provide some good...

My honest advice to someone who wants to make a lot of money: 1. The only way to make a lot of money is to create a lot of value.

Here's a harsh truth: No one hands out money. No one is going to pay you just because they like you or think you're cool. That's not the way the world works.

Money earned is a direct byproduct of value created.

The fastest way to improve your life is not adding new things to serve you, but quitting what no longer does.

Here are 9 things I quit to transform my life: I quit focusing on my potential.

I think the whole “alcohol is poison” thing is too black and white.

Social connection is one of the most important factors for your physical health.

If having a beer with your friends promotes that connection, good for you.

If it doesn’t, also good for you.

The point: Do you. I’ve personally reduced my alcohol consumption about 90-95%, but if I’m with a new or old friend and they want to share a drink of something special, I’m in.