3 months ago, I was tasked with writing an article detailing “20 Transphobic JK Rowling Quotes We’re Done With”
After 12 weeks of reading her books, tweets, full essay & finding the context of these “quotes”, I’ve not found a single truly transphobic message🧵
In the process, I peaked.
JK Rowling is not an “intolerable transphobe”, she’s a (talented) woman who could have sat back & been beloved forever, but looked around & paid attention as the intersection of trans rights and women’s rights has had understandable growing pains.🧵
In many cases, one groups rights are being sacrificed for the other, with the most vulnerable women often paying the price. Here in Britain, we always want to support both sides but realise that in some cases (like DV Shelters), that is impossible.
And JK was paying attention.
JK saw the loopholes being created & knew that women needed a voice. So instead of sitting back & wishing everyone well, said “It’s got to be me, hasn’t it?”. She did something terrifying & amazing & used her voice, I suspect knowing damn well what was to come.
That’s bravery.🧵
3 months of dedicated research & I cannot find a single truly transphobic JK Rowling quote that stands up against the scrutiny of journalistic integrity.
The abuse JK has endured is beyond forgiveness. Every death threat, r*pe threat & torrent of abuse, she has born w/ grace.🧵
Shame on those who have framed her under the guise of “reporting” when you must know, deep down, you are just chucking out clickbait & stirring up hate. Shame on those who followed that propaganda without critical thought.
You’re burning the wrong witch. I stand with @jk_rowling
After 2 very bumpy days, I think I’m going to send myself some flowers.
There’s nothing like a beautiful bouquet to remind you there is love and beauty in this world.
Any recommendations?
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I keep being told off & declared “offensive” for saying I don’t care about trans people.
Not what I meant. I mean I don’t care, nor do I care to learn, what makes someone trans. You do you, I won’t to stop or attack you.
What I will fight is the destruction of women’s spaces🧵
Example: Men (the male kind🙄) are pretending to be trans & using women’s spaces/services as a playground for their various fetishes.
It started with lesbian bars, so those all closed bc: BREAKING: lesbians don’t like being perved on & harassed by men.
Then prisons. Men are…🧵
Men saying “I’d love to go to a womens prison!” used to be a joke.
Now, it’s a reality. You need only check Reddit etc to see that many men are “bookmarking” false feelings of Gender Dysphoria with their Doctors so that they may go to a women’s prison if caught for a crime.😒
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I’ve just been banned from @Tinder for privately reporting this clearly-a-man, asking for an option for lesbians to opt out of trans women. As they are male.
I made the request privately, I didn’t contact this individual, I have not been hateful.
But I’m banned for life.
Thanks, @Tinder , for reminding us lesbians where we stand.
Which is in the dangerous position of being forced to include crossdressing *males in our dating pool or be banned from your platform.
You clearly believe lesbians have no right to deny males access to our community & bodies.
We’ll remember you said that.
@Tinder This was my report. A simple plea to the @Tinder God’s to allow an option which respects all sexualities - in this case, lesbians.
But it seems my sexuality is hateful, bigoted & is literally preventing people from “being themselves” just for wishing to opt out of dating *males.
Claiming that a man can literally become a woman just by saying so is such an insult to women.
Women have only had equality for a speck of human history & the moment it happens, men say they can just opt in?
No. You can’t. Stop lying. To yourself as well as everyone else.
Being trans isn’t an insult. If you wish to identify as a trans woman, have your friends & family call you “her” & a female name, wear dresses & make up etc, fine. Have at it.
But you can’t gaslight the public in to pretending we don’t know you’re male.
We’re allowed to say so.
My female body is not just a vagina & breasts. I am not a woman bc I wear make up, dresses or heels. I cannot opt out of womanhood & no male can opt in.
The biological lottery is 50/50. You cannot play again.
Services & spaces set up for women’s safety & equality need to remain female only.
Please find a way to cope with that simple fact. It is not the public’s job to affirm your womanhood if they do not wish to do so. Live your life, find your people & leave everyone alone.
No one should be forced to lie. I do not believe anyone male is literally a woman & while I will use preferred pronouns out of respect, I will stop if womens spaces continue to be demolished in the name of trans inclusion.
This has to stop somewhere. I draw the line at forced speech & women losing their jobs for simply believing males are men & females are women. This is basic biology - I don’t care why you think you are the opposite sex, it’s simply not true. Those who suffer with Gender Dysphoria are respected on the whole, but the trans community is starting to push its luck. The whole world doesn’t revolve around your whim to be seen as a woman.
Now that women’s spaces & services (such as DV shelters & sports) are being trampled for the sake of less than 1% of an already privileged population, to cheers from *males dressed as women, I can no longer support trans inclusion as harmless. It directly affects women’s safety & equality. No.
One time when I was running a coffee shop, Maggie Smith came in. She was eating alone & not at all in peace because all the kids in the coffee shop had spotted Professor McGonagall and we’re so excited!
She finished her lunch, tipped very well and asked for her coat. Before she left, she walked in stern silence to the bathroom with her coat in her hand as parents hushed their excited children. When she emerged from the loo, she was wearing her long black coat as a cloak, one of her arms ahead of her with the coat draped over it and, with a flourish, she swished her arm down and her eyes gleamed as she called out, in character -
“Let the Sorting begin!”
She sat for a good hour signing napkins and talking to a huddle of kids. It was absolutely adorable.
I’ll never forget that. It was the nicest thing I’ve ever seen. She’s an incredible lady.
She had a smoked salmon salad and a sparkling water. And gave every kid in the place possibly the best day of their entire childhood.
The last thing she said before she left was “Expecto Patronum!”
I’d forgotten the straw bit! It was cafe policy that I wasn’t allowed to ask for an autograph but that’s fine, the memory is incomparable.
It was 2009 just after The Half Blood Prince released in UK cinemas. Magic.
As a former LGBTQ media “Journo” I’d like to uncover some of the simple rules used across the board in LGBTQ media📝
From feed content to homo headlines,here are the Top Tips for being published in your favourite LGBTQ publication🏳️🌈
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1. Reaction Takes Action
Want to write about LGBTQ culture? The number one rule is Thou Shalt Not Be Un-Biased😡
We’ve been silenced & outraged too long so this is OUR TIME to shine. We don’t do “journalism”-we want a reaction & that starts with yours
“Be mad b4 you go mad”
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2. Enragement Equals Engagement
So, you want your article to fly around social media? Of course you do, you’re paid in clicks & exposure. Go one further than “get a reaction” & see if you can enrage your audience
Bc Enragement Equals Engagement. They’ll share it like a rash.
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Today, I found out the dating agency I have used for 6 years (a “femme-to-femme” lesbian dating site that do events) hates lesbians.
Let me explain.
So, I’m same sex attracted, right, which means I don’t date dicks. Don’t worry it’s not transphobic, it’s called lesbianism.But🧵
But it is a tough position to be in because trans lesbians also want “a go” but I’m afraid they just can’t. My loss. Moving on.
I’ve always thought “Femme To Femme” was a very clever way to gently advertise that this was a female only service. Trans lesbians are brill but…🧵
But they’re also not lesbians & when it comes to that most intimate thing - who I share my body & my life with - it was my assumption I got to choose. The whole my body my choice, thing.
You’d think a lesbian specific dating site would understand this, right?