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If you had to wonder/guess if your relationship falls in this space — that’s sign #1 & you’re in the right space— cuz this thread is for you!
If your partner never thanks you for doing favors or being a great partner, they're not appreciating you for all you're worth. If your partner never acknowledges any of your personal sacrifices for him/her or the relationship, it's a red flag, too.
Let’s talk about the way we choose “friends”. Let’s really have a discussion about it — because there have been way too many instances where a person has ended up unalive, abused or harmed by a person they categorized as a “FRIEND”.
People are failing to have healthy friendships because they are not recognizing that friendships are relationships too. Just like you should have a list of standards for your partner, you should have a list for friends.
Setting standards doesn’t mean you’re judging anyone. It’s just making sure you’re aligned with people who may have the same values/morals as u & have your best interest at heart. It takes intentionality to create healthy relationships. And no one is going to be perfect— yes.
You are not responsible for their distrust in the people they SEEK OUT to date. If someone did them dirty in the past after they were good to them & now they don’t want to do things for you that you DESERVE because in their head you have to prove you’re WORTHY— RUN!