Women have spent a few centuries rejecting this & and are now openly ATTACKING men for it. Sending men in to be cannon fodder for #MeToo and the 70-80% female-initiated high divorce rate solves nothing.
Fix the gender #AccountabilityGap first. #WomensActionsMatter
You want men to "step up?" Why should they, when women are going to smack them down with dehumanizing expectations, false allegations, parental alienation, abandonment, shame, blame, and pain?
What are you trying to do, increase the rate of male suicide? #WomensActionsMatter
At least they know professional porn is still consensual. Is it personal? Not really. Is it companionship? Not really. Know what it is?
It's honest... not about what lovemaking looks like, but about how transactional women have made it. #WomensActionsMatter
Same with prostitution. Pay her to briefly pretend to care about your happiness. She's right up front about it, unlike the woman who is done being married to you after 5 years but stays another 5 so she can demand half of your possessions & lifelong alimony. #WomensActionsMatter
You know, the woman who said if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it, but takes it off when she goes clubbing without you... loved you enough to make babies with you but doesn't love them enough to let them have a relationship with their Dad. #WomensActionsMatter
Did you know that an increasing number of women annually become single mothers by choice, as in, PLANNED? No, they're not all independent. Your government rips off the taxpayer (mostly men) to pay that bill AFTER extracting child support from the fathers. #WomensActionsMatter
Research shows that boys are significantly more likely to end up in jail or prison by the time they turn 30 & girls are significantly more likely to become single mothers if they are raised without a father. MORE MOTHERS ARE DOING THAT ON PURPOSE EVERY YEAR. #WomensActionsMatter
Everything a man can do to try to form a relationship with a woman can get him accused of a crime, even if she seems receptive at the time, & PERSONAL GAIN is the underlying reason for nearly every motive when women falsely accuse men. ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P… #WomensActionsMatter
Feminist-lobbied anti-male discriminatory law & policy has facilitated such a wave of feminine cynical lying & wrongful punishment of men that due process lawsuits are piling up like bodies on a battlefield. titleixforall.com/title-ix-legal… #WomensActionsMatter
If he finds a partner he will be expected to keep courting her forever without reciprocation. She's been taught to "shop around" for a "high value man," but if he vets her for character he's a slut-shaming misogynist creep. Talk about being unequally yoked... #WomensActionsMatter
And while it's presumed his responsibility to keep her happy without expecting any reciprocation, feminists have convinced her to be miserable anyway, with pettier and pettier complaints until she can't even allow that he may sit still without offending her. #WomensActionsMatter
That 70-80% divorce rate stems not all from male abuse, or male adultery, but largely women's petty complaints like chore division, his failure to keep courting, or her boredom. She'll demand his loyalty but hers is optional AND must be continually earned. #WomensActionsMatter
Family law favors her. There's no enforcement triggered if she refuses to honor his parental rights, but there is if he doesn't pay her for abandoning him & taking his children, even if it makes him homeless... ww3.lawschool.cornell.edu/research/JLPP/… #WomensActionsMatter
Yes, a woman will betray their families, break up their marriages, deny their children the benefits of father involvement, tap the taxpayer and drive their ex-husbands to suicide, and then play victim of his suicide and continue litigating against a dead man. #WomensActionsMatter
Today's female population isn't qualified to partner with men in mutually dedicated, loving relationships. They are cruel, selfish, immature, careless, and abusive. Sending men into that meat grinder won't result in anything good.
Women have to grow up first. #WomensActionsMatter
It's not men who need to step up.
It's not men who are loved and admired for sinking to the depths of sexual depravity, wrapped up in extreme vanity, unaccountable when they do harm, and uninterested in mutual love.
Fix. Femininity. First. #WomensActionsMatter #AccountabilityGap
Once upon a time, there was a trade-off. Men protected and provided for women, and women were expected to be men's helpmates, who gave solace and comfort to their providers and protectors, and claimed no option to interfere with men's performance of their responsibilities.
To fulfill their social & legal obligations, men were charged with administrative responsibility for their family's finances and the aspects of their lifestyle that relied on boundaries between family and community/law, or involved their safety.
They were heads of household. Under their protection, their wives were expected to respect their authority, and fulfill the role of caregiver and companion, and to advise in matters of morality without forgetting who was head of household. Yes, that created restrictive norms.
Men: @Un_Women says you are responsible for fixing the female population's self-inflicted problems.
Should we demand that women take an equal share of responsibility for things like the workplace injury & death gap, men's restrictive roles, unpaid bodyguard duty, etc.?
How about the emotional labor men face in being automatically presumed predatory regardless of their actual character & behavioral history?
Or... the emotional labor of being told "ladies first" whenever there's a benefit or some type of relief to be had?
How about the mental health damage caused by being denied a healthy relationship with one's children? Women's financial expectations cost dads important parenting time, and divorced or unwed dads are often excluded from their children's lives. Balance that out, ladies.
When discussing reproductive & financial issues in regard to consensual sex, watch out for the feminist "but rape" Motte & Bailey argument. When unable to counter your logic in regard to female agency & accountability, they will bring up rape to obfuscate & twist your answer.
Then, no matter which direction the conversation goes, your responses will be used to "justify" the feminist position on cases of consensual sex, or to label you a rape apologist for declining to approve of the feminist position.
If the OP in the discussion is not about rape of specifically female victims, and neither is the argument you made that the feminist is responding to, a response that relies on that topic does not apply to your comment. Don't let them redirect the conversation that way.