For years Tate and others have radicalised men/boys into believing masculinity is about control and abuse.

We mock them and they become a 'joke' to us
We denounce them because we're angry

But what we *think* about them doesn't change much, because what they're doing *works* 🧵
I've met teachers who had male students come into classes refusing to learn from 'women' because they 'don't know anything'. Later, Tate's name was mentioned one group of boys who were parroting these sexist lines.
I've met parents who found out their son's were listening to podcasts by men that framed success as controlling women. They were terrified that their son's seemed exactly the same around the dinner table, but were deeply engaged with misogynistic ideas in private.
Why are so many men/boys attracted to this type of messaging?
How do we start to talk to our sons/students about these ideas?
How do we offer alternative narratives about masculinity?
How do we equip parents and teachers to recognise the signs of misogyny radicalisation online?
I work with the BEST charity who answer & explore *exactly* these questions, equipping men and boys with the tools to think independently about what they're being fed and equipping teachers to be part of that change.

And I want to use this moment to do more than just mock Tate.
If you work in media and want to cover the impact of men like Tate and what can be done, DM me.

We're hosting an event in Jan on exactly this.

We need more men, boys, teachers, parents involved in disrupting the influence of online misogynists.

#JournoRequest #AndrewTate
If you’re a teacher, parent or work with young people and would like to attend event about the rise of misogyny influencers and some ways of offering alternative narratives, follow @Beyond_Equality here and on Instagram and set post notifications to be alarmed about the event. 🔔

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Dec 31, 2022
When faced with misogyny in the headlines teachers and parents always ask:

"How do I talk to the boys in my life about sexual violence?"

You don't. You don't start there. If you want to have an actual conversation that works, it has to begin somewhere else. 🧵
The question really being asked here is "how do I help boys in my life turn away from/reject misogyny?"

Answer: you *frame* and *start* the conversations somewhere new.

Don't start at sexual violence because they know society says it's bad and explaining isn’t that effective.
It’s important I note here that the earlier these conversations are being had the better. I’m talking early. Little kids. Too many parents say “I can’t believe he thinks this, he’s only 14!”

The world has been shaping your sons perception of gender for 14 years by this point.
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Sep 22, 2021
One thing that I lie in bed worrying about is how my previous work on upskirting has been used by those who are intent on excluding trans people and non-binary people from public spaces. I have seen some high profile women using my work as a reason to keep trans women out
of women's spaces and I hate it. Often it's not even necessary to use it because they're *actually* referring to voyeurism which is a different act to upskirting, but we won't get into that detail right now.
In my time collecting stories of voyeurism as well as upskirting (almost 2 yrs and over 500+ stories) not *once* was there a story of a trans person photographing someone, but there *were* many of cis men (and cis women) being morbidly fascinated by
Read 7 tweets
Sep 22, 2021
We aren’t safe walking mins from our home (Sabina Nessa)
We aren’t safe at work (Cathy Marlow)
We aren’t safe even when together (Nicole Smallman, Bibaa Henry)
We aren’t safe online (Alice Ruggles)
We aren’t safe with our own family (Banaz Mahmod)
We aren’t safe dating (Grace Millane)
We aren’t safe after reporting to the police 5 times (Shana Grice)
We aren’t safe with our neighbours (Nelly Mustafa)
We aren’t safe at home (Valerie Forde)
We aren’t safe with a police officer (Sarah Everard)
We aren’t safe because male violence is present in every part of society. More park lights, spike rings, rape alarms and even criminalisation won’t help this. Compulsory education programmes on gender and exploring masculinity early on, might.
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Nov 27, 2020
In June The Prime Minister nominated me to Her Majesty The Queen for her Birthday Honours List, and I was asked if I would accept the honour of an OBE.

I was honoured to be asked and considered alongside everyone who accepted, but knew it was not for me.

Please do take a read.
I started this work because I wanted to fight for every day people and their rights, and in the last 2yrs, whether through working with charities or discussing issues on Parliamentary panels, I've sat next to and learnt from some of the greats of Civil Rights.
I've been educated on systemic racism and the history of The British Empire and I've objectively disagreed with so much of it. This summer many of us felt, acutely, the long shadow it has cast. I want to continue my work as an advocate for anti-racism & as a proud women from a
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Oct 7, 2020
How it started: How it ended:
✅ Use The Voyeurism Act if anyone 'operates camera/video equiptment beneath your clothes to capture parts of your body that would otherwise be covered by clothing'
✅ Report upskirting if it happens to you
✅ Engage people around you: get witnesses, note location and time
✅ Be an active bystander. Take a photo if you witness it and the person doesn't know. Engage the victim calmly and supportively
✅ Look for: selfie sticks, holding phones low, cameras on shoes
✅ Remember this law applies to paparazzi too!
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Jun 4, 2020
(thread) Please do not use the upskirting law, a law I tirelessly fought to create that protects all genders, as fodder for an anti-trans narrative.
dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8…
Voyeurism and the upskirting law was used here whilst putting across a case that M&S allowing trans or non-binary people to use changing rooms for which they identify is dangerous for women. The law was quoted as 'calling this in to question'.
1. The upskirting law is different to voyeurism in that it was created specifically to fill the gaps where you can't use voyeurism (you can only use voyeurism in a place with reasonable expectation of privacy) I.e: changing room. So, you don't even need to mention my law at all.
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