Wow just getting to know that the late Major Gen. Philip Effiong (Ojukwu’s 2nd-in-command during the Biafran War, who’d signed the peace treaty with Gowon) was friends with and used to visit my paternal grand-uncle Sir Philip Nkwocha of blessed memory.
Didn’t get to have a much personal experience with Ndaa Philip Uwaezuoke Nkwocha (was quite a kid when he died about 2007), but he had a reputation as an astute academic (one of the pioneers in my community of origin) and Director, Sunray Publications, Port Harcourt.
I fondly remember him for his bald rounded head, áfó beer (potbelly 😂), baritone voice and boisterous, witty humor. As a lover of education, he’d greatly influenced my father (who has always supported his children education-wise). And a bevy of texts columbia.edu/itc/mealac/pri….
I believe he must’ve played a great role (at least with his pen and voice) during the Nigerian Civil War, the heroes of which the country remembers today.
As their offsprings, we can’t afford the labor of our heroes past to totally be in vain. So #VoteWisely
On a norms, no Nigerian man would ever wish for his daughter to ‘go wayward’ (i.e. start h0eing around for money and favors from the—older—opposite sex) especially during her teens (and probably early twenties)…
Yet, some of these men are the same that string along these ‘little girls’ with cash and gifts/treats just to bed them and add to their bouquet of ‘female conquests’ a.k.a ‘chicken poultry’.
Mr Man, are you forgetting that that little chick is actually another man’s daughter?
Yes, female hypergamy is a thing here and the age of sexual consent in 🇳🇬 might be 18, but you know most of these girls are not, esp., emotionally, intellectually and financially capable of a mutual, healthy sexual relationship with your thirty and forty something year-old self…
If you ‘help’ someone in the way they don’t want/need to be helped (which you ignorantly or arrogantly assume they do), does it also count as help?
Is there anything like ‘useless help’?🤔
He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches him. If he tells you it hurts at the ankle and you assume (and insist) it hurts at the little toe, you might end up providing cure to the assumed toe pain, while the real pain still remains.
Take for instance your state governor: he knows your community needs electricity, good roads and hospitals, yet he provides ‘help’ in the form of donating wheelbarrows and twined ropes (agba “youth empowerment”😂😭), how useful do you think such a ‘help’ actually is?
Monogamy (sense 1: having only one mate for a lifetime), I believe, is a social construct, and as an offshoot of organized monotheistic religion, another means of exerting control on the human self.
The average human being is characterized by this thing called DESIRE—yunno, human wants are insatiable (Economics 101). For some, this desire could be freedom to explore and do whatever one wants or feels. However, unbridled desire breeds lawlessness, hence the need for laws.
Take for instance, a cute lil baby. On a normal day, if he’s not craving for food or attention, he’s inquisitive and wanna try out new things in his environment. He can put his hand into the fire, deface the TV, eat soap, or even jump into a pool just to satisfy his curiosity.
Bitcoin’s price has been fluctuating between (and slightly below/above) $30,000 and $40,000 for about a month. As a result, many people are wary about investing in cryptocurrencies.
Existing and potential crypto investors have been asking themselves questions like “should I buy or should I sell?”, “how long should I hold?”, and “is the crypto market being manipulated?”
Some of us are feeling the crunch of the crypto meltdown since we didn’t expect
the meteoric rise in crypto assets early this year to come tumbling down so hard, generating agony and panic among many.
Now, let’s take a look at the 2021 crypto boom and crash, and see whether there’s any hope in sight. Meanwhile, have this at the back of your mind that
Papa had something to do
We had no idea whatever it was
"I must do this as I would,"
"I can fight again, just like in those wars."
The Umunna would be meeting soon
In our compound, this afternoon
Men to talk with red caps and titles
Boys to serve wine bought by Titus
There was nothing but noise
Chaos had no other choice
Everyone wanted us to battle Alaudo
All but one, Chief Soludo
"We have to dialogue further," he stated
"We have to use our mortar," they wanted
"No negotiation with terrorists!"
"No room for pacifists!"
And Papa had been silent all along
That should be a sign of being strong
He was to speak last
As he had done in the past
With clattering hands, he struggled to his feet
Coughing ceaselessly, he was given back his seat