Want to do a quick thread on how to dress if you're a larger guy. There's not a lot of info or inspiration online about this, and I feel this leads people to think that they don't have options or can't dress well bc of their body type.
First, why don't we have much inspo online? Few reasons:
1) Fashion industry doesn't include larger male models 2) Not many well-dressed men in general. So the subset of stylish, large guys who post online is small 3) A hidden reason: a problem with grading
Grading refers to how companies create paper patterns for new sizes. A pattern is like the architectural blueprint for any garment. A company will create a sample (typically in size 40) and then grade up and down to get the patterns for sizes 36, 38, 42, and 44.
Once you hit a certain size, you can't grade from a size 40 w/o throwing off proportions. You have to create a new pattern. Many companies don't do this bc it costs $. Combined with the slim-fit trend, this has led a lot of larger guys to have bad shopping experiences.
Dressing is also very personal and can bring out our insecurities. Whenever I tweet about a certain style (e.g. double-breasted suits or long coats), someone will say "can't wear that if you're big" or "can't wear that if you're short."
There is such a thing as dressing for your body type. But I feel that, bad shopping experiences and insecurity can lead a lot of guys to feel like they have to wear anonymous clothes. When someone says, "I don't think I can wear that," I hear, "I don't want to be perceived."
So how can you dress well if you're a larger dude? Let me introduce my buddy David, who is one of the best-dressed guys I know. He's a high school art teacher and leather craftsman who lives in Rochester, New York.
When David teaches, he wears tailored clothing. But since we live in a dressed-down world, he mostly relies on sport coats instead of suits. The tailoring here fits well: no puckering or pulling. Clean drape across the chest. Coat ends halfway btw collar & floor. Very classic!
He also wears suits for fun. Again, notice the proportions on this black corduroy suit: high-waisted trousers to lengthen the leg line (low-waisted trousers are unflattering on heavier men). Coat buttons comfortably. Lapel ends halfway btw collar and shoulder seam.
When you're a larger dude, tailoring often doesn't have enough cloth at the front. So when you look at yourself from the side, the front of the coat's hem will be higher than the back. This is bad. The hem should be even. Or the front can be lower than the back.
The other thing you'll notice is that David is not wearing super slim-fit pants. Slim-fit pants often create a disjointed silhouette from your torso to your legs. Hollande below looks like a popsicle stick. Akihito's silhouette is better bc the jacket flows into legs.
For casualwear, David relies on workwear. I think this is great bc it plays to his strengths. IMO, larger or athletically built guys often look better than very slim guys in their workwear. Their build works with the style. This is better than trying to squeeze into Saint Laurent
These sorts of casual fits are also great for his other job, working as a craftsman who makes custom leather watch straps. You need to dress for a lifestyle. But again, notice that the proportions fit him, and they're not overly slim. Combos are coherent and not wacky.
One of the nice things about having a wardrobe composed of tailoring and workwear is that you can easily mix and match. The sport coats here are made from textured materials—tweed and hospack—which looks coherent with denim (don't wear smooth suit jackets with jeans).
Something to notice is that David's style is not anonymous. It's not just flat-front chinos with a dress shirt. His tailoring fits well, he has some fun suits (black corduroy), and his casualwear has a point of view (workwear with cool outerwear). Silhouettes are flattering.
But even when he dresses simply, he looks great bc the clothes fit well. Clothes should be built for movement. Don't buy stuff where the top is so small, you can't hug someone. Top so short that you can't reach up, or pants so low rise you can't bend down.
If you're into watches, David makes some of the best custom leather watch straps. He's a watch enthusiast himself and can suggest the right leathers. Everything is hand-sewn by him in NY. Follow him at @davidlanedesign, IG davidlanedesign, and his site:
laundromats are low key goated when hauling a heavy bag and being bored for an hour is the vibe
i say this with love and respect, but i feel like these experiences may be fun and quirky when you're young but they get super old and tiresome once you hit a certain age
it's low on the list of reasons of why they're annoying, but one thing that annoys me about these accts is that they'll post a photo of a guy in a suit with "retvrn" but you know their daily dress is a limp polo and slim fit khakis. please be for real
like "i will bring back galas." sir, do you even own wool pants???
Another weird thing about those accts is they often post early 20th-century illustrators by Leyendecker as a representation of white, educated, hetero lifestyles. But Leyendecker was a gay American who also drew a lot of homoerotic art
Best thing to have happened to menswear in last ~7 years is how men and women take inspiration from each other. Many of the things I find inspiring nowadays are in womenswear. Some ideas on how to incorporate things across gender lines:
1. Unique textures: mohair cardigans, boucle coats, weirdly hairy or nubby textures paired with spongey wools that are prob already in your closet. Wear with textured suede shoes. Needles and Stoffa have some cool stuff like this right now for men
2. Sizing up! I think a lot of guys in the last few years have become open to sizing up bc of what they see in womenswear. An overcoat looks great when it's BIG and LONG. Bomber jackets look good when they're ROUND. Not everything has to be slim fit.
seems like a weird comparison bc most people aren't wearing out their jeans by stretching their legs like van damme. they wear them out bc the fabric wears through (through dirt and abrasion). womenswear may be made with lighter fabrics for drape purposes
i think the real problem nowadays is not how quickly the material wears out but how quickly the style wears out or how quickly your emotional connection to the garment wears out. most ppl aren't wearing their clothes till they fall apart anyway. design wears out faster than seams
here is an interesting story about declining quality.
i once interviewed a former brooks brothers exec who worked at the company from the 1980s until the early aughts. during this period, the company was owned by the British company Marks & Spencer.
really dislike the artificial divides in menswear btw classic and high fashion, traditional and avant-garde, etc. sticking to just one category feels like only listening to jazz or rock. so much better when ppl are interested in diff things and don't pit things as warring camps
For instance, I think if you like Savile Row tailoring, it's hard not to appreciate the incredible pattern drafting that goes into these Rick Owens pieces. The unconventional cuts and unique silhouettes surpass the drafting that happens on the Row.
Similarly, if you're interested in clothing quality, it's hard to think of anything—outside of women's couture, which is really the pinnacle—that beats traditional men's tailoring. The work that goes into shaping the lapel alone beats any sewing in RTW casualwear.