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Feb 5 8 tweets 2 min read
How understanding humans by focusing on their “psyche” or “mind” can be problematic 🧵👇🏼
1/ takes a stance of separation

To reflect or be reflective is to step (partially) outside of experience, to observe apart

This distance from affective experience can be useful, but it is not all of “what makes us human”
2/ places meaning in concepts

As opposed to felt experience, of course not in all ways. But as we know avoidances are relentless and deceptive, so many can “fall asleep” in a kind of “dissociative field” of conceptual meaning to avoid the chaos of experiential uncertainty
3/ defensively identifies w concept

b/c the ideas of meaning, that generate the comfort and predictability, take priority (aka “work better”) … the person identifies themselves through their preferred concepts

b/c they are divorced from their “primary experience” of meaning
… said another way

the meaning experience comes from “watching the video” over and over of “the concept”

this generates the desired experience

so that video watching is merged with, and defined as “the experience”
4/ how to move into experience

differentiate sensation, mobilizing kinetic action in your body as an ongoing (joyful) attention

Notice how & when “thinking” happens, and what happens to that attention to your embodied experience

useful imo: enjoying this, even when “difficult”
5/ cultivating “dynamic” meaning

Instead of pushing the button that dispenses a “conceptual meaning” treat

Habits of thought or behavior that we “use” b/c they work, but also can limit

Consider instead how the ongoing movement of experience itself is alive & meaningful

♻️
6/ ideas and experiences are pals

for me, real “aliveness” comes in groups, with similar but different others, sharing affect and information, ideas and feelings

kinetic and alive, with enough structure for helpful forms; not in any way “rigid” to preconception

#emergent

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"Happiness is a state of mind … But fun is something you can do. It doesn't require education, money or power. All it requires is intentionality. If happiness is a mirage, fun is your backyard oasis."

Author advises 🧵👇🏼
🥳 Stop worrying about how happy you are

“Happiness is really an evaluation …
In contrast, fun is relatively easy to achieve yet many adults are conditioned to believe that it isn't important, and experience very little of it.”

🥳 Find your 'fun magnets'

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