Trans widows know all about disgust, we feel it when our husbands start growing their nails, and shaving their bodies, and wearing secret frilly knickers to work. We try to overcome the disgust at first to keep our families together, but it’s always there.
We’re told we shouldn’t feel disgust, that we’re seeing the real them, who we should love.
Trans widows feel disgust when they’re coerced into sex with husbands dressed in tacky women’s clothes and using strap ons but they’re told not to kink shame and to do it if we love them.
Trans widows feel disgust when they’re coerced into sex with husbands dressed in tacky women’s clothes and using strap ons but they’re told not to kink shame and to do it if we love them.
Repeatedly as the situation escalates we’re told to overcome our disgust and that it’s wrong and cruel and unloving for us to feel this entirely involuntary emotion.
But the cognitive dissonance in trying to ignore your instincts is corrosive to your mental health.
The disgust reflex is telling you that something is wrong for you or dangerous and should not be ignored. It tells you to flee, and eventually you do.
The disgust reflex is telling you that something is wrong for you or dangerous and should not be ignored. It tells you to flee, and eventually you do.
All the gaslighting that the gender movement is doing to society as a whole has been practiced and honed on #transwidows and we see it for what it is straight away.
You’d do well to listen to us rather than sideline us.
You’d do well to listen to us rather than sideline us.
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