1. You're a loser. You take the path of least resistance. You're lazy. You live in sexual scarcity. Women don't want to fuck you. You're a coward. You give away free validation to girls in the hopes of getting laid. You're boring and predictable. You're a simp
2. You shut down the free validation. You build yourself up. You become a man of courage, achievement, mastery. You do impressive things other men CANNOT do. Women notice you. You start banging pretty girls. You become picky with your affection, your validation, your dick
3. You're a man of power. Your aura radiates. You love women and women love you. Girls love to suck your dick and compete for the opportunity to do so. You freely give validation to women, on your own terms, because you live a life of beautiful sexual abundance
This is obvious to high achieving men like Rivelino who can get high quality pussy, and it’s inconceivable to degenerate PUAs who can only get sluts
If you debate me on this, you’re telling on yourself
The disgusting PUAs with triple digit body counts who try to lord over you by bragging about the QUANTITY of girls they’ve banged, they never want to talk about QUALITY
In fact, they’ll make the nihilistic argument that quality doesn’t exist, that “all pussy is the same”
When a man denies the existence of QUALITY differences in pussy, this is the most obvious tell that he’s used to eating from the dumpster, so he needs to protect his ego
What he should be worried about is protecting his dick from gonorrhea
1-Give men false hope that they can meet “the one” without doing the necessary work of self improvement
2-Encourage laziness and cowardice in men
3-Encourage the inhuman practice of swiping on people
4-Discourage social bravery and boldness in men (cold approach/daygame)
5-Discourage men from having the gumption to do cool shit in real life (sexy hobby)
6-Discourage men and women from doing real world social activities, building up a social network, and making friends with people of the opposite sex
7-Give men a wrong impression of their own value (lower than in reality)
8-Give men a wrong impression of women (arrogant, aloof, damaged)
9-Give women a wrong impression of their own value (inflates their egos)
10-Give women a wrong impression of men (desperate weaklings)
11-Damage male self esteem the longer they’re on the apps
12-Damage women’s feminine magic the longer they’re on the apps (they often get pumped and dumped by men who are out of their league)
13-Encourage men to pump and dump
14-Encourage men to treat women with anger and impatience
15-Encourage women to be total bitches with massive entitlement issues
16-Overall, dating apps create animosity, disillusion, and antagonism between the sexes
Dating apps are hell
The healthiest women don’t get on the dating apps. Or if they do, they get on briefly and then get out quickly in order to protect their own health, when they realize what a clusterfuck they are
So what’s left on the dating apps is damaged women or women who were once healthy but BECAME damaged from staying on the apps too long, longer than a few weeks or months
Dating apps are hell
Any man who relies on dating apps to meet women is going to get a distorted and depressing view of what women are and what they can be
A man who gets on dating apps to meet women is telling them:
“I don’t know how to meet women in real life because I’m a coward and I’m boring, so please take pity on me. I don’t do any cool shit with my life. Can I please get pussy anyway? I’m desperate”
How can a woman respect this kind of man?
Intrinsically, she can’t
Intrinsically, she knows that this isn’t how it’s supposed to work
Intrinsically, women know they want to be with a man of courage
Intrinsically, they know that courage is a key masculine trait that they should look for
Because intrinsically, women know they are WEAK
Deep down, women know they are physically weak and emotionally a chaotic mess, extremely neurotic and unsure of their own value. They KNOW they need a man with the opposite and complementary qualities: steady, strong, brave, decisive, cool under pressure
Even as society tries to brainwash women into choosing men who are “in touch with their feelings”, their pussies guide them towards men who are classically/stereotypically masculine:
Cocky, confident, decisive, “rude”/“disagreeable”, self assured, ambitious, even arrogant and “mean”
Basically, she is looking for the opposite of neurotic, because she is almost entirely neurotic (even if she hides it with a veneer of bitchiness and makeup)
And a man who can't even approach her in real life is a neurotic coward
Women have a self destructive side. Without a good strong man to protect her and give her structure, a woman will probably spiral out of control
Men have a self destructive side. The big difference is that it's up to the man to master this for himself and for the woman he loves
The burden of the man has two parts:
First, he needs to harness and control his own self destructive impulses, achieve mastery over them, and redirect them into healthy productive action and structure for his own well being
Then, he needs to do the same with HER self destructive impulses
1-EARLY BITCHINESS
When you first meet a woman, you need to establish strong boundaries so she respects you. She will throw shit tests at you to see if you're man enough to call her out on her bitchiness. You need to hold frame
Example
I met up with a girl for a first date. We started walking to the bar, but at one point I realized I was walking the wrong way and stopped. Immediately, she pounced
Her: Do you know where we're going? [bitchy attitude]
Me: You don't have to come [calm, assertive]
She did nothing wrong. I'm supposed to be leading her to the bar. If I don't know how to get there, that's annoying and unattractive
She doubled down and increased the pressure to see if I would get frustrated, lose my cool
I stayed calm, pushed back, but without getting angry
10 ways to build a strong masculine identity and attract high quality women
1. Craft your origin story 2. Flaunt your ambitions 3. Create verbal tension 4. Qualify her to establish standards 5. Patience means abundance
10 ways to build a strong masculine identity and attract high quality women, part 2
6. Escalate without flinching 7. Demonstrate emotional control 8. Create more, consume less 9. Courage + skill = authority 10. Confront your sexual core
1. Craft your origin story
If your life was a movie, what would be the trailer? You need to have a clear and compelling backstory and an exciting dramatic future. She should want to take part in the adventure called your life