Thread by @Getinwithgame

YOU ARE THE JUDGE

She’s not used to being judged. She’s used to guys, without judgement, just being grateful for whatever they can get. And instead, it looks like you’re judging her, you’re sort of sizing her up and down

Not that you’re done with her but more like ‘you’re qualifying her, you’re checking you out. You’re seeing what she got. She better be up to your standards.’

Now why is this important?

Because when she closes her eyes and fantasizes about Prince Charming, when she fantasizes about that high value guy — Trust me she’s picturing a picky guy.

She’s not picturing the guy who is like, “Sure baby, whatever you want. Where do you want to go eat? What movie do you want to go watch?”

That’s not her fantasy. Her fantasy is the guy who is picky, who has a lot of different options, a lot of different women — but he chooses her because there’s something special about her.

The important point is, remember, negging/push-pulling her indicate value. It’s important to understand that if you’re discriminating. If you’re picky, it indicates higher value. That’s attractive

You should be picky. Just by acting picky about women and saying/implying “I’m not too impressed by that, she’s gotta work for it to impress me”— by having that sort of high value, abundance attitude, it shows that you must be a high value guy. It conveys value.

So she see a guy acting like that and she thinks, “Oh, a high value guy! He’s not one of these desperate guys that I’m used to.”

Much in the same way, if you don’t act picky, if you don’t act a little judgmental, then what you’re telling her is that you’re a low value guy who is desperate, who will take whatever he can get. So you actually have to act a little judgmental

And act like you have standards because otherwise the women are going to be less attracted to you. It’s part of attraction.

So push-pull sort of set up this playful frame between her and you, where she can tell you’re sizing her up. You’re interested but you haven’t decided yet. You’re judging her. You’re keeping her swinging between validation and de-validation.

So a lot of times you will frame her as maybe she’s a little creepy or she’s a little perverted or she’s being a little weird or she’s being a little too clingy or a little needy, or whatever — just because, again, you’re setting the frame that you’re the prize.

You’re the one with standards, you want to make sure she’s up to your standards— and that makes her feel good, because that means if you chose her, it’s not just because you’re desperate, it’s not just because you’re glad to fuck anything you can

But rather because you do have options and she has high value and she can feel high value because “this guy is picky and he chose me.”

So it’s good all round. Have standards. You’re the judge

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