A girl I was dating told me I was the first guy she ever had unprotected sex with.

I suspected she was lying obviously.

But did I push back on her claim?

No.

Here’s the simple strategy I used to find out the truth.

[Thread] It’s natural for women to try to sell you purity, to make themselves look more suitable in your eyes for a committed relationship.

On an intrinsic level, women understand that men don’t want to commit to women with a questionable sexual past.

HOW TO GET WOMEN SEXUALLY AROUSED

A man gets excited when he objectifies a young beautiful woman

A woman gets excited when she is objectified by a powerful dominant man

[Thread] A man can get very excited just by looking at the photo of a woman because this is him objectifying her

A woman cannot get as excited just by looking at the photo of a man –– she almost always needs "more"

And that more is the act of him objectifying her, dominating her somehow

NO. 1 RULE IN DATING FOR MEN IS: DATE DOWN

However, sometimes you’re dating down but she doesnt think she’s dating up

& how can you tell? Well, I made a list:

1)She demands compliments from you

If she thinks she’s dating up, your presence in her life is a compliment

[Thread] She won’t need you to tell her she’s beautiful everyday in order for her to feel beautiful.

You being with her makes her feel beautiful.

She feels better about herself knowing that she’s with a guy like you.

She seeks your validation, but she doesn’t demand it.

THE 25 UNBREAKABLE RULES FOR RELATIONSHIPS:

1. Date down

2. Always choose the woman who loves you, over the woman you love

3. Never stop improving

4. Never let disrespect go unchecked, no matter how small

5. Your girlfriend is not your friend (few will get this)

[Thread] 6. Never ask for a relationship, she’ll ask if she wants one.

7. Her friends are not your friends.

8. Practice healthy distance, it preserves attraction.

9. Never stop fucking her.

10. Set clear boundaries.

11. Never let the romance die.

12. Never stop dating your girl.

WOMEN WILL DO ANYTHING FOR VALIDATION

I told a girl I was seeing that I only care about a woman that doesn’t go clubbing.

2 weeks later, she told me she’s going to the club with her friends.

I said “okay, have fun”

She said “that’s all you’re going to say?”

[Thread] Ohh so now you want me to be “controlling”, just so you can get the validation from feeling that I care about you that much?

Women are hilarious.

If you find a way to attach validation to jumping off a cliff.

You’ll see women doing backflips off a cliff to get that validation.

HOW TO GET A PHONE NUMBER FROM A GIRL IN TWO MINUTES

Let’s say you are legitimately in a hurry trying to get somewhere, and you see a beautiful woman walking down the street... but you just don't have time to go get in a conversation with her

[Thread] Is she just a vision of beauty you will never get to know?
Not quite. There is something you can do.

That something is the 2-minute number close.

HOW TO GET A PHONE NUMBER THE EASY WAY

There's an easy way to get a girl's phone number, and it is to simply ask her out first.

That goes like this:

[Thread] You: [in conversation with her] ... wow, I can't believe you did that.

Her: I know, right? Well, I didn't have much choice... she was the meanest teacher I ever had!

You: [laughs] You don't say.

WHAT TO DO WHEN GIRLS TRY TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS

Sometimes you’ll approach girls, only to have them flirt with other guys and try to make you jealous. What do you do? Ignore it… or, pull out the BIG guns.

[Thread] Today I want to address a common but frustrating test called the jealousy plot test. This test occurs when the girl you are with talks to other guys in front of you, even when you have a good hook going.

WOMEN ARE LIKE CHILDREN. DISAGREE?

Well…

They cry all the time, just like kids

Want to be provided for, just like kids

Want to be protected, just like kids

Take them to a fun fair and watch how they act… just like kids

They love stuffed animals… just like kids

[Thread] Love sweets and desserts, just like kids.

Crave and need attention, just like kids.

The same way you make a kid love you, is the same way you make a woman love you.

Take them out to eat their favorite meals, and take them to do fun things.

HOW TO MAKE WOMEN ENTER YOUR SEXUAL FRAME SUBTLY

You: Do you know what a real woman is to me? (bait)

Her: No. (She will be curious about this, so immerse her.)

You: A woman who submits! (Since this is a controversial statement, she will react!)…

[Thread] But please let me explain before reacting.

Her: You better! (She is immersed since you hit a nerve but dodged the temper tantrum. She expects you to be yet another chauvinist, and you are about to prove her wrong.)

USING UNCERTAINTY TO MAKE GIRLS CHASE YOU MORE

Women won’t chase if they feel certain they can get you – or that they can’t. Instead, you’ll use uncertainty to make girls chase you… PLUS 1 more thing.

[Thread] Do women chase men because they feel uncertain?

They most certainly do.

In fact, uncertainty is one of the central features of chasing behavior.

THE DARK SEXUAL NATURE OF BEING A WOMAN

Women hide their true "dark" sexual nature from

1. Weak men
2. Needy men
3. Boring men

So if anything I tell you about female sexuality sounds inconsistent with your experiences with women, now you know why

[Thread] Women are VERY good at hiding their true dark sexual nature –– this is another one of their core skills

CORE "NEGATIVE" FEMALE SKILLS

1- Playing the victim to manipulate men
2- Detecting sexual neediness in men
3- Hiding their true dark sexual nature from weak men

HOW TO TEST IF A GIRL IS ATTRACTED TO YOU

There’s really one test that almost every single time tells you a woman’s attracted to you. Maybe you’ve heard this before, maybe you haven’t. But the key is MOVEMENT

[Thread] Women simply will not move into isolation with a guy that they’re not attracted to. And that applies to daygame, night game, clubs, social circle.

DEVELOP YOUR SOCIAL CONFIDENCE WITH WOMEN

You can be confident with what you say, your energy and body language:

• solid eye contact, don't look away
• stand confident, don't fidget
• strong voice, don't speak softly, no "uptalk"

Many things....

[Thread] Social confidence with girls –– and not just confidence but also being socially calibrated, being funny/playful, knowing how to build tension, how to flirt, how to listen, how to get her to open up, how to ask for her number –– displaying these social skills is very attractive

She hasn’t replied because your game is not strong. You think asking her questions about herself shows interest in her

And it does

But what it also does it put the burden of the conversation on her

[Thread]





She can also see it as boring, because you’re not telling her anything new or interesting

Just like you asked her

YOU: Where are you live?

HOW TO PASS HER SHIT TESTS

Start using a woman's "tests" as a LEARNING Tool

Most guys get fazed by SOME tests.

Figuring out what tests faze YOU is how you know where you still need work.

[Thread] TESTS THAT FAZE YOU

You're talking to a girl, and suddenly she tells you, "I don't know why men can't be serious. Why are guys so afraid to commit?"

What do you do?

Do you freeze up?

Start to qualify yourself ("I'm not afraid of commitment!")?

HOW TO FLIRT WITHOUT SMALL TALK

Don’t get stuck in boring go-nowhere conversations with girls. Ditch the small talk, and flirt with ‘zero small talk’ instead.
This is for any guy who runs into this issue:

[Thread] You're in a situation, you start to talk to a girl, make small talk about the setting/situation, then get trapped in a platonic conversation where you talk about boring situational things that neither you nor the girl care about. She loses interest and slips away.

HOW TO TELL IF A GIRL IS HORNY

One of the things that it seems like a lot of guys have difficulty realizing is when women actually want them.
Chances are, you've heard some of the conventional ways on figuring out if a girl is horny. Some of them are:

[Thread] 1. Check her heart rate

2. Check her breathing rate -- the faster she's breathing, the more excited

3. Check her pupil dilation

4. Check her vaginal dilation or how lubricated she is... down there

10 MINDSETS OF HIGHLY SKILLED SEDUCERS

Skilled seducers don’t just do things different from most men. They even THINK different. Think like a skilled seducer, and success with women comes easier.

[Thread] #1: Field Test Everything

How do you know if it’ll work or not… until you test it?
In seduction parlance, a ‘keyboard jockey’ is someone who speculates or advises on situations he does not have direct experience with.

GIRLS TALK BECAUSE THEY LIKE TO TALK

Unless you're an incredibly loquacious fellow, my guess is you don't spend a great deal of time in drawn out text message conversations with your male friends.

[Thread] Nor do you likely spend a great deal of time in lengthy conversations with a girl who's already your girlfriend.
Most men only get into these long conversations with girls.

And those men assume that the girl knows what the deal is.

GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ARE EASY

One of the reason most inexperienced guys struggle so much when they get a girl’s number and she ignores them is because they view phone numbers as a BIG DEAL!

The problem is that to women, phone numbers are NOT a big deal!

[Thread] An inexperienced guy gets a girl's phone number, and it feels like a colossal achievement, and now he can rest. He's effectively got a girlfriend now, for all intents and purposes.

Except she doesn't see it that way.