17 THINGS YOU ARE DOING TO MAKE WOMEN RESIST YOU

There are a multitude of things men do to cause women to resist them – too many to list out individually, in fact. Just a small smattering of them looks like this:

[Thread] 1. You’re startling them on the approach

2. Your attempts to tease girls end up being insulting

3. You aren’t flirting much and are trying to jump right into chatting or pulling

4. You jump to big compliance requests too quickly, or don’t escalate gradually

HOW TO TURN REJECTION INTO GIRLS CHASING YOU

Rejection’s just a speed bump, not a roadblock. I walk up to chicks expecting the eye roll or the hand in my face—it’s their default for most guys. But I’m not most guys.

[Thread] Here’s how to flip their dismissal into raw desire, making them chase your cock instead of swatting you away.

1. Own the Rejection
When she rolls her eyes or throws up a hand, don’t flinch. Smirk like you know something she doesn’t. Say, “Cute, but you’ll miss me when I’m gone.”

HOW TO GET WOMEN TO UNDERMINE THEIR OWN OBJECTION

What do you do when a girl gives you a somewhat tough objection that you nevertheless know is not impenetrable? For instance, she tells you something like:

“I think I’m probably too old for you, don’t you think?”

[Thread] “I’m not really dating right now, if that makes sense.”

“My friends asked me to wait here and not go anywhere.”

“I’m seeing a guy non-seriously but I don’t think he’d like me going out with anyone.”

5 WAYS TO HANDLE HER OBJECTION

You tried to take her to bed, only for her to tell you "It's too fast for me." Your solution: 5 options that can smooth things out and get her to stay and comply.

[Thread] You ran the courtship (up until now) to perfection. Sparks flew when you talked to her. She laughed at your jokes (and you were wittier than usual). You remembered to touch, and touched her well. You took the lead and led her home.

HOW TO RESPOND A BAD REACTION FROM WOMEN

If a woman has a bad reaction to an approach you made, there’s often going to be room for improvement in there for you. Maybe you:

1. Need to do a better job pre-opening or pinging girls before going in.

[Thread] 2. Need to improve your delivery: smile more, be more relaxed, seem more real.

3. Need to work on some of your fundamentals or check your opening body language.

THE “SEX WITH HER = I OWN HER” BELIEF

Many guys seem to be guilty of thinking “If I can just get my dick in her, she’s mine!”
Actually, it can work that way a lot of the time. But other times it won’t.

[Thread] Even if she is a girl you can ‘own’ quickly with sex, it typically will take sex on several occasions before she’s absolutely ‘yours’ (and of course, things always CAN end at any point after that if they get too screwed).

HOW TO GET WOMEN TO QUESTION THEIR OWN OBJECTION

When a girl throws a tricky objection your way—like “I’m probably too old for you, don’t you think?”—but you know it’s not a hard stop, here’s how to handle it:

[Thread] 1) Stay calm and don’t agree. Smile, keep eye contact, and show you’re unfazed.

2) Flip it playfully. Say something like, “Too old? Nah, I like a woman with a bit of wisdom to keep me in line.” This keeps it fun and shifts the frame.

HOW TO HOOK GIRLS IN WITH STORYTELLING

Storytelling can be a good tool to keep the conversation going. It’s a classic, old-school trick. A story can be fun and stimulating. However, make sure the story conveys attractive traits about you. For example:

[Thread] -Involve other women – ex-girlfriends, female friends, and so on. This is good for social proofing yourself.

-Display social and female understanding.

-If you want to, you can tell stories about strange guys doing weird stuff to contrast yourself.

WHY SOME GIRLS SLEEP WITH YOU AND THEN GHOST

Sometimes girls go to bed with you... then never text, call, or see you again. As mysterious as this behavior seems, there ARE reasons.

[Thread] "AREN'T WOMEN SUPPOSED TO WANT RELATIONSHIPS?"

The first time a girl shags you then never wants to see you again it can flummox you.

After all:

Aren't women supposed to WANT relationships from the men they sleep with?

Isn't that the female modus operandi?

HOW TO MOVE FROM APPROACH TO TEXTING A GIRL AND TO SETTING A DATE

Remember propose a date before getting her number,

Here's an example text conversation, start to finish, to give you a feel for what this looks like:

[Thread] [an hour after meeting a new girl]

You: Happy to have made your acquaintance, friend ;) - [your name]

[two hours later]

Girl: Great to meet you too! :)

WHEN GIRLS REJECT YOU IN AN UNCERTAIN WAY

When she’s uncertain, this is where your persistence best serves you. This is where you break out the hard push and do not let her go.

She is on the fence, uncertain, and unsure. She needs guidance.

[Thread] But not just any guidance. She needs funguidance! Energetic guidance!
When people are in a confused, uncertain state, they fall into a state of “I don’t know what to do; I just don’t want to make a mistake.”

HOW TO HANDLE WOMEN REJECTING YOU

You did it; you took the plunge and asked her to do something... to come with you, go out with you, tell you something, show you something... to invest.
And now, she’s said no.

[Thread] Well what exactly do you do? What do you do when she says no?

This is a pressing question for men. If guys didn’t worry about answering the “what if she says no?” question, men everywhere would walk up to the women they wanted and address them with reckless abandon.

HOW TO COMMAND WOMEN

If you're like most men, you've been trained since birth on how to be a gentleman. You know that, of course, a gentleman does nice things like hold a door for a lady and compliment a lady on her choice of attire;

[Thread] and you know that a gentleman always pays for a date and takes his lady somewhere respectable.

And you also know that, aside from a few, "After you, miss," and, "Ladies first,"s, you never tell a woman to do anything.

HOW TO GET WOMEN TO SAY “YES” EVERY TIME

You’ll probably want to test drive the car before you agree to sign a lease for it, right?

Similarly, every woman you meet needs to have you build up to greater amounts of compliance with her.

[Thread] That means, you start with asking for little things first:

1. “Let me see your hand” --> inspect her bracelet

2. “The name’s Grant” --> hold out your hand for her to take it

3. “Here, move over a smidge so we don’t get run over”

HOW TO RESPOND TO GIRLS WHO APPROACH YOU

Let me give you a couple of dialogue examples of different male approaches in response to being approached by a girl. We’ll call our two protagonists GUY A and GUY B.

Here’s GUY A:

[Thread] HER: Wow, you're SEXY!

HIM: Hey, thanks! You're not so bad yourself! I'm Joe, what's your name?

HER: Sofia!

HIM: Sofia, it's a pleasure to meet you. Do you live around here?

HOW TO KILL INSECURITY AND KEEP HER HOOKED

1. Chasing Her Approval (Leaning In)

- What It Looks Like: Over-complimenting her (“You’re so perfect”), constantly asking if she’s okay, or begging for another date (“Can we do this again?”).

[Thread] - Why It Kills Attraction: As we’ve said, leaning in shows you’re seeking her validation, not owning your frame (she punishes weakness). She wants a man who’s “better” than her, not a puppy chasing her tail.

COMMUNICATE TO GIRLS THAT YOU’RE UNRELIABLE

What’s the number one thing both friends and boyfriend candidates try to communicate to women?
“I’m reliable… you can count on me. I’m dependable.”
As a lover, you want to be the OPPOSITE of this.

[Thread] You don’t want to do anything that actually throws her to the wolves. Don’t embarrass her. Don’t leave her in any kind of awkward or risky situation.
Instead, you want to communicate unreliability in funny or playful ways.

REQUEST/DEMAND LOTS OF COMPLIANCE FROM WOMEN

“Hey, come over here.”

“Let me see that.”

“Tell me about that.”

“Show it to me; I wanna see.”

“Turn around real quick? I need a look at this.”

“Sit down here. Wait, scoot over; make some room.”

“Let’s go over there.”

[Thread] “Come here, sit in my lap. […] All right, get off my lap, you’re making me hard.”
“Let’s take a walk.”

“Let’s see what’s over here.”

“Come on upstairs.”

“Take your shoes off at the door, please.”

“Sit down; make yourself comfortable.”

CONTINUALLY INJECT SEX IN YOUR CONVERSATION

Everything gets twisted around in a way that sex, sexual body parts, nudity, nakedness, etc., gets injected into the conversation.

For instance:

[Thread] • She might mention that she gained 5 lbs. and is trying to lose it, so you say, “You know the real dilemma for women is that when you get fatter, your boobs get bigger too. But then when you slim down, they get smaller.

MAKE YOUR INTEREST CLEAR (OR IMPLIED)

Most men have the impression of women as being eminently emotional, and while that is somewhat true, women are also eminently something else, too: they're eminently practical.

[Thread] The first thing a woman asks herself whenever she ends up in a conversation is, "WHY am I talking to this man?"

And if she can't come up with a good reason, she excuses herself fast.

HOW TO TEST IF A GIRL IS ATTRACTED TO YOU THIS WEEKEND

There’s really one test that almost every single time tells you a woman’s attracted to you. Maybe you’ve heard this before, maybe you haven’t. But the key is MOVEMENT

[Thread] Women simply will not move into isolation with a guy that they’re not attracted to. And that applies to daygame, night game, clubs, social circle.