WHEN SHE SHIT TESTS YOU – OUTFRAME HER

Outframing is most powerful kind of frame control, it literally creates a larger frame around the frame of a shit test.

There are 3 ways of doing this are:

[Thread] 1. Bad Intentions framing

This is similar to the Push-Pull tactic where we give them a guilty conscience.

With this tactic we are outframing her shit by defining the
underlying meaning of the shit test as being about her bad intentions.

HOW TO SHOW HER WHO’S THE BOSS

Having problems with your girl?

She's acting crazy, annoying, rude, arrogant?

She's being disrespectful?

Learn how to manage with her nonsense! 👇

[Thread] 1) SILENT TREATMENT

Everytime she does something that annoys you - ignore her.

She is crying, begging you to stop?

Good, it means it's working.

Once you start talking again, tell her that you won't be dealing with her nonsense, or you'll keep ignoring her even more.

WOMEN WILL DO ANYTHING FOR VALIDATION

I told a girl I was seeing that I only care about a woman that doesn’t go clubbing.

2 weeks later, she told me she’s going to the club with her friends.

I said “okay, have fun”

She said “that’s all you’re going to say?”

[Thread] Ohh so now you want me to be “controlling”, just so you can get the validation from feeling that I care about you that much?

Women are hilarious.

If you find a way to attach validation to jumping off a cliff.

You’ll see women doing backflips off a cliff to get that validation.

THE FEMALE DESIRE TO BE "DOMINATED"

Modern men often find women frustrating because they don't understand one thing: that women want men who can dominate them.

[Thread] Women are complicated creatures, no?

Or at least, they seem that way.

Often it seems like nothing you do is ever correct (or enough).

You flirt too directly, she complains to her friends you were too direct and it killed all the intrigue.

ALPHA MALE

A lot of people are talking about Alpha male, how they act, dress, look.

But also a lot of people are giving a lot of bad advice which won't turn you into an Alpha male - but an immature BOY.

Be careful which advice you will take.

These are mine.

[Thread] 1] RESPECT

An Alpha male is respected by other people because he doesn't expect to be - he earns it.

He won't let anyone disrespect him.

But also, an Alpha male respects other people.

HOW WOMEN TAME MEN

Early on in a relationship, when a man first beds a woman, the first power shift occurs. The man, formerly chasing sex, has now slept with the girl. Soon she converts to his regular partner; they become lovers.

[Thread] He now has what he wants: a devoted, regular sex partner. Now SHE must chase – to get him to commit to a more serious relationship.

Most men find it difficult to approach a woman, even when she’s by herself.

And will almost never approach a woman who’s with a group.

I was having lunch at a restaurant sometime ago, and saw this gorgeous girl with 4 of her friends.

Here’s how I got her number.

[Thread] I also had the same struggles at one point, when I was much younger.

The idea of walking up to a woman and speaking to her, was absolutely terrifying.

And if she wasn’t by herself, then you couldn’t make me approach her even if you put a gun to my head.

POSITIVE VIBES 101:

Walk into interactions thinking everyone loves you.

Your body language will automatically send off positive energy.

Even if the person didn't originally like you, they may change their mind.

Much better option than thinking everyone hates you.

[Thread] 'Can you please elaborate on what you mean by positive energy?'

Sure.

Understand that your body communicates a lot of energy. Much more than your words.

Let me explain the importance of body language & a few basic power moves.

Keep reading & gain deeper insights

HOW WOMEN CHASE MEN

Girls do NOT chase the same way guys do. Well, not usually. If you haven't realized this yet, you may be missing out on some (very) interested women...

[Thread] WOMEN DON'T CHASE HOW MEN DO

Well, not usually.

Men tend to chase in very blatant, obvious, DIRECT ways:

HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN WITH HIGH AUTHORITY

Many guys open girls direct in an ‘equal’/even supplicating way. Yet when you open from a place of authority, your direct openers get a LOT more potent

There are a few varying angles to use to start a conversation with a girl

[Thread] But today we’re going to talk about direct openers, but we’re going to speak about a certain strain of direct opener: the high authority variant.

WHY MEN CHASE WOMEN FOR SEX AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND

Men and women get validated in two different ways:

1. Men get validated from having sex– they feel attractive from it, they feel like kings. They brag about it, they believe they win social points from…

[Thread] …having tons of sex (even though other men will secretly hate them for it, but that’s a different story). Sex signifies social power for men.

WHAT DOES SHE WANT? THE 8 THINGS YOU MUST ASK HER

Here are 8 key questions I ask women every time before I'd go into sharing things about myself that would make her view me as impressive & valuable. That way, I paint myself as valuable in ways that she actually values

[Thread] 1. “Is that what you want to do forever?”

The reason you ask this - about her career, or her planned career, if she's in school - is to find out how ambitious she is.

SEX: KEY TO HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

I'm not sure how I got this wrong when I was new to relationships. I guess I was still tentative, and afraid women would be upset or offended if I jumped them minutes into (or even immediately upon) them walking through the door.

[Thread] I've since found that this is an easy way to make your relationships a lot stronger and healthier, and send the right message from the get-go: I am a powerful, sexual man, and we are in a passionate sexual relationship.

WHY FLIRTING WITH GIRLS BUILDS STRONGER RELATIONSHIPS

How can you keep your relationship hot, your girl on her toes, and motivate her to stay focused on it? There's a simple fix for this.

[Thread] Most men think about their relationships all wrong.
They approach a girlfriend (or a wife!) the same as a lump of gold they can bury in the backyard and take out when they like.
Once they've got her, she's THEIRS. And NO ONE can tell them otherwise.

HOW TO GO TO HER PLACE SMOOTHLY, EVEN IF YOU JUST MET

Let's say going back to your place isn't a viable option. Whether that's because your place is too far away, or you've got roommates, or you're young and "your place" really means "your parents' place"

[Thread] It's all the same - you don't want to, or even can't, bring her back to yours.

How do you go to her place instead?

Before You Ask to Go to Her Place...

TOP 10 MISTAKES YOU MAKE WITH WOMEN

After coaching loads of men in the past 3 years, I've identified ten common dating mistakes that are holding back a lot of guys:

[Thread] 1-Idealizing her
When a man sees a pretty girl, he will often be so impressed by her beauty that he forgets that she has her own flaws and insecurities –– and her own wild sexual fantasies.

YOUR SEDUCTION STARTER KIT

1) Challenge, tease, disqualify, and flirt with her.

She doesn't want to be worshipped.

[Thread] 2) Banter, jokes, games, and banter some more.

Women have the wiring of a child.

She just wants to have fun.

HOW TO MAKE HER INTERESTED

In contrast to attraction, interest happens immediately.

She’ll get interested before you speaks with her, it happens the moment she sees you.

Hence, non verbal cues = interest.

While attraction = verbal cues

[Thread] The way you dress, carry yourself, your body language, your energy, your smell, your looks, your physiqce, your social circle, are you the center of attention?, do you have social proof?

All these factors goes into consideration, but the most important is your body language

HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS YOU DON’T KNOW

Talking to a girl you don't know is NOT easy, but we can break it down into 5 concrete steps

I’ll describe the steps & then give examples

[Thread] 1-Break the ice in an honest way, say that you saw her, she caught your eye, tell her something you noticed about her

HOW TO UNLEASH YOUR INNER ‘BAD BOY’ (The Proper Way)

Being Too Nice = Too Feminine = No Sexual Attraction

The A-Z Guide

[Thread] 1. Listen, sexual attraction requires one masculine essence and one feminine essence.

The problem with nice guys is that they don’t create tension.

Without tension, anxiety, and suspense there cannot be sexual desire between the two of you.

Q: “So, how do I create tension?”

EVERYTHING WOMEN SAY HAS A HIDDEN MEANING

Women are indirect

Men are direct

Think about it: Men gain power through logic & physical strength

Women gain power through communication

As a result, women use subcommunication to avoid conflict so its easier to manipulate

[Thread] For example: If a woman says: “I have a boyfriend.” she is rejecting you, but in a more polite way to avoid conflict, to remain inner harmony.

9/10 times the boyfriend doesn't exist. She’s sub-communicating that you telegraphed too much interest too soon.