Thread by @HopSunnyBunny

In my line of work, I have seen this play out OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER!! He either takes the kids and hands them to his nannies & kicks you out OR has you share custody with his nannies & let’s you go be homeless, then goes to court to declare you incapable and unfit…

https://twitter.com/bonkers_bee/status/1632689876511473664

The scenarios of “the lifestyle to which you have become accustomed” mostly happens when there’s no clear prenup in place OR if you’ve gotten a pre-nup but made sure you adjusted it with your own lawyers to protect BOTH of you….

Let’s unpack how you end up homeless… when you meet a wealthy guy, you think you’ve won a jackpot 🎰 & you throw yourself into it so hard that you’re letting his chef take a break on weekends so YOU could cook for him and PROVE to him that you’re not there for his MONEY🤣🤭

He spends a great deal of his courtship showing you just how BETTER your life could be if you were to stick beside him & you slowly (nope… INSTANTLY) fall in love with him.
Most women you’ll ask “what exactly does he do for a living” 🚩🚩& they’d say something vague like …

…real estate, tech, finance, oh my favorite one.. he’s an entrepreneur 🤣🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
They DO NOT DIG DEEP into the subject of money/business 🚩🚩🚩with their partner, because now they’ve decided to lose their brains by imagining Gucci bags, mansions and baecations to Dubai 😭🤣

Then he proposes to you in a helicopter over the Amalfi coast and by now you don’t care, you’re on the high of collecting as much content for Instagram so the haters can see you’ve arrived.

Meanwhile his Assistant is simply slapping you on the picture on Amex companion tickets

& if he has a jet, you’re really just joining him like his assistant would… He is not even feeling a (financial)pinch in your existence in his space but YOU are doing gymnastics 🤸🏾‍♀️ in excitement & losing your head.

He then tells you just how DIFFERENT you are ….🚩

…unlike the others, you seem to not be preoccupied with his wealth. 🤣🚩Some sob story of him having been lonely because the others are always here for “stuff” 🚩& then you get played so you never question or ask for much.. (grooming & priming)🚩

He then rewards you with an…

…international trip where a stylist who dresses celebrities, somehow materializes in your hotel suite with Kelly’s in different colors and 5 racks of Bottega, Chloe, YSL, a private jeweler from Cartier you quickly abandon your Michael Kors & Fossil for the good life! 🚩

ANYONE who dares ask what the financial implications🚩 for you are should the marriage not work, is IMMEDIATELY a WITCH 🚩& should not even be allowed 2the private family dinner you’re hosting for everyone to meet him. (He doesn’t do much of your family events, he’s an enigma)🚩

A cousin points out how she was left homeless after dating a rich dude & you say “well mine is DIFFERENT & LOVES me very much”… head in the cloud, you pack up you little apartment 🚩and move into HIS home…
Just so you don’t fuss, if he likes you enough, …

…he has his private agent from his company, 🚩 line up a few condos (which will be a great investment for the company should he get rid of you one day)in Dubai and makes you pick one that you like! YOU DO NOT DARE ask how this is being financed, you pick one…

…& immediately start throwing cute parties to introduce your Kelly bags to your friends and post major reels on IG! #BALLIN
Apartment registered under his business… 🚩 🚩🚩
You go with the flow, you don’t want to be “difficult” by asking “intrusive” financial questions🚩🚩

You don’t want to seem like a golddiger…🚩🚩

After all the purchasing of expensive assets (that he claims are for you) BEFORE he even marries you, he then has a romantic dinner for you in that nice condo with a view that he bought for YOU.. His butler…

… has been instructed to make your favorite drinks but dose them up just a bit more & the chef makes this one steak from Japan & your favorite watermelons flown in that morning from Italy…so you become agreeable.
Then at the end of the dinner, he introduced the PRE-NUP..

He is telling you about protecting his business partners and how ALL their wives sign one just so there are no financial implications for their business in a RARE case that something happens between you two!
You look at the Rolex gleaming on your arm…

… the favorite artist is still crooning gently in the background.. you hop out of your chair go go kneel next to him practically begging him to give it to you now so you can sign it. You LOVE him, he’s worked hard and you’re NOT LIKE THE OTHER WOMEN, you appreciate…

…just how hard he works…. The prenup materializes right here right now but he says, if you want to look it over tomorrow, you can do that (an instruction by his lawyer so you never say you were drunk & coerced)..

You grab a pen immediately and sign the most important rights of your life away WITHOUT EVEN READING the 50 page contract & you immediately hop on his lap and give him “I love you so much & I’m not here for your money” sex & you go back to posting #SoBlessed on IG…