You are basically signing up with a woman who cannot bond with you
The more notches a woman has, the worse she treats her husband
She becomes extremely cold overnight
โซ๏ธ Leftover sex energy
Women with high body counts get low libido at an earlier age than most women
That means that women who have been promiscuous are highly likely to have no sexual energy left for the men who settle down with them
The higher the number of sexual partners, the higher the chance of her libido plummetingโmeaning you will have little to no sex with her once you marry her.
B) Leftover emotions
Women with high body counts have zero intimacyโno touching, no real good sex.
It's like loving an empty void that has no energy in it. You lose more than you can gain. Sleeping around has negative effects on all aspects of your life.
2โฃDivorce
It's a fact that as women have sex with more men, it is increasingly unlikely that they will stay committed to a marriage.
In other words, the divorce rate goes way up fast.
The data is very clear.
Women who have more sexual partners tend to get divorced at much higher rates than other women
3โฃMentally unstable
A woman with a lot of sexual partners is different from a virgin woman. Mentally, they are not the same. HBC women become so cynical and just unlovingโno shyness
Itโs so scary how our culture sells us this collective myth of "true love," "virginity is a social construct," "body count doesn't matter," and "happily ever after."
But these feminists and social activists never tell the second-order consequences of marrying a damaged woman;
for example, most women with high body counts exhibit depressive, manic, and suicidal behavior.
Generally, in long-term relationships, sane men donโt care how hot a girl is or how good the sex was; there is nothing that makes living with a mentally unstable woman worthwhile.
Think 2nd order๐ง
How she will raise ur children, especially ur daughters. Don't forget that if you separate, she will go back to dating multiple men and introduce them to your children. REM, most child abuse happens in single mothers' households n among mentally unstable women
4โฃ Unable to pair bond
Women pair bond, which is necessary for childbearing and child-raising. The more bodies, the more difficult it will be for her to bond; count absolutely matters.
It should matter because promiscuity affects women differently than men.
Women lose the ability to pair bond and get traumatized and "mentally lost" the more men they sleep with.
NSFG, Yale, and Harvard did a study on "oxytocin," the cuddle drug, the pair bonding chemical, and found that women burn that out the more guys they are in the sack with
thus being unable to pair bonds.
A woman will leave a piece of herself with every guy she sleeps with. Get the count high enough, and she can no longer bond with a man in ways that matter.
5โฃ Marry for beta security
It's a fact that a woman will lose her biological ability to bond with a man if she has many partners. Leaving the impulse to just look for security, she will only look for upgrades and never be satisfied with life with you
That's why most women behave differently before marriage and after marriage. So, whatโs the reason? If these girls need high maintenance, why did they not show these conditions before the contract of marriage"? Itโs deceiving.
6โฃEx-relationship baggage
There is always past emotional baggage with every past relationship, whether it's good or bad baggage. Women are emotional; the higher the count, the more emotions they've been through.
Either you make them clingy or you're not good enough.
Always comparing you to others.
Also, if she's fucked 40 guys, how come nobody has wanted her long-term? You think you'll be the lucky 1/40 chance she chooses. Nope. Unless she's settling or using you. The red pill truth is alpha and beta bucks.
7โฃ. Past actions predict future behaviors.
If you marry a woman with a high body count, it means she settled for you because she started getting older and was getting less attention from the men she wanted, so she settled for you because you are her retirement insurance.
Also, it makes you feel like you are supporting an old, worn-out lady. looser vibes
It was a business transaction that you agreed to, thatโs all. By the way, you canโt act one way for years and then expect those patterns to just vanish overnight.
That woman has serious issues that you now have to also deal with; in most cases, men end up with cheating, fake DV charges, or paternity fraud.
โซ๏ธ You see a long line of dudes, and every single one of them is getting something for free
when they reach the front of the line. When YOU get to the front, you're told you have to pay for it. Hundreds of guys ahead of you got it for free. You've got to pay.
โซ๏ธ It's the difference between eating a freshly made dish ( Virgin dish) right out of the oven and eating a 3-day-old dish (nonvirgin dish ) that's been sitting in some Tupperware in the fridge for a few days.
One is healthy and fresh, while the other is cold, less appetizing, and could potentially make you sick.
Look, ๐if I find a piece of gum under the seat of the desk, I don't pop it in my mouth, even though I know I can chew it just as well or better than the person who left it there.
Final note: Nobody wants somebody who's had everybody or that everybody has until they are weak, cuck-old, or beta males.
Moreover, if too many people touch the trophies with little to no effort, then my hard journey will have me questioning the prize.
What it means is that when a woman is trying to drag feelings out of you, it isn't becs they empathize or cares; they are frustrated that you aren't giving them access to your weaknesses
They want this information to potentially use against you or use it to justify something
they are doing ( cheating ).
When you open up to a woman early on, you will see a relief and happiness in them because they just got what they wanted.
It might be several years before they use it against you, but they will.