S: Do you want to spend your life with someone you could never trust? “Trust” is the biggest problem seyfer always face. Not trusting each other, each other’s feelings and words. Reflection on the traumas their families caused them and on the fact they didn’t start as a normal +
couple where they were in a relationship that led to a marriage. They didn’t go trough the gain my trust process. They just sorta had to learn how to run this marriage while not knowing each other and facing their diferencies. +
Ferit standing behind the door listening Seyran and Suna is parallel to other two other situations/stages in their relationship. Ferit learning about Yusuf for the first time. Seyran hearing parts of his and P story and F words: I didn’t want to marry Seyran.+
And here we are again but now when their feelings are on the table. The key word in her sentence is “your life”. Ferit is destroyed by that. The first and only woman he loves with whom he had dreams to get old doesn’t see future for them. +
The teary eyes, the breath he took. The look of realisation is there - She really means till the rest of our lives. She doesn’t believe my love. He is totally destroyed. +
F: Let’s solve this Seyran[..]stay either way your sister doesn’t share anything with me[..]bc in her eyes I’m not trust worthy I’m selfish..F biggest fear is S seeing him in this way bc this is how his family portrays him and he hates it. Hearing these kind of words activate + twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
his trust issues for Seyran’s sincerity. First bc she didn’t share the problem with him when he gave her the chance, second the moment Ferit feels like he is not understood for his actions he becomes cruel and isolates himself. Starting to doubt her feelings for him+
Leading us to another parallel from episode 8 where they were in pretty similar position S: You are vile and the most selfish and wretched man I have ever seen. Same reaction from F- fear, tears..This also prepares the viewers that F will again push buttons +
F: What do you want from me? You ask me to try. I’m trying. I don’t hide my feelings from you. What should I do so you can trust me? Ferit’s problem is not facing his past it’s the fact that Seyran doesn’t trust his love now +
S is trying to avoid confrontation bc like she said to Suna earlier at the end they always fight and hurt themselves a lot. But F doesn’t have patience. He clearly stated his feelings and intentions. He wants love: If you won’t trust me why I’m trying? +
F: Say it bc you are right one can’t live like this forever. He wants her to hear how painful the words sound. Even though his intention is to cause the same pain as contrast to old F where he was more cruel here we see a trembling voice that can barely finish the sentence +
S: I said I can’t find a solution Ferit. On the contrary to what F thinks S also wants love and to move on but now is harder than ever. Bc now it’s not about the forced arranged marriage they put them in, it’s about their love that was born only between the two of them +
The problem sadly circles back to their relationship starting backwards. They didn’t have the time to remove the “others” from their lives, to try and change. That’s why here both are right for themselves. S not to fully trust F bc P is still very much in his life although +
in another form but yet there when he knows that is hurting S. F to be hurt she doesn’t believe his love. Bc he really loved no other and he just wants to hear these words from her too +
F crying, trembling and his deep pauses between words are a call for her to stop. The most he fears - loosing her. F is an await for her to stop him, give him a sign before he says the rest: If you can’t trust me and know how you would spend +
your life with me then don’t do it Seyran. Seyran’s change in expression demonstrates she senses where everything is going..+
F: Let’s get a divorce. Let it all end. Bitmez oyun, bitmez oyun - endless game. The lyrics of the song perfectly describing seyfer’s relationship. F said these words not bc he wants a divorce but bc he wants to test her. The ultimate trust test and choice +
If you really want to be with me there’s only one clear way - you trust me and give me your heart and I do the same. Full devotion not bc of the rest but for us. “Life is a journey with unknown beginning and with a mysterious end. You neither can stop nor go back”. They can’t +
change their beginning but can write the future they want. From all of the flashback scenes only one contained other people- the day they got married, all other were only both of them illustrating that there was before and after in this relationship +
Another interesting detail is the scene containing Suna in it. We started this marriage story with her as she had to be the one marrying F to her being here now when the end of this marriage is being discussed and she is trying to save it. +
The chosen words to be played also have meaning. F: What do you know about happiness? You need pain. S: I’m enjoying it so much seeing you suffering. The from enemies to +
almost lovers era - “F: Do you want to see me experiencing other feelings? S: We would see who exactly is jealous” to all the scenes forwarding to now to lovers era. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
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Ferit might have many sins but he is not a black and white character. He is also a victim and has his trauma. Sultan groomed him whether he was under or over 18. She said I wish you never grew up,
multiple times tried to get in physical touch with him when
clearly he showed signs of being uncomfortable with it, got into his bed while he is sleeping and laid next to him. Tried to racketeer him with in exchange for physical touch.Not the mention the underwear scene…She took advantage of a young lost boy +
that grew in front if her eyes. Someone almost at the age of her daughter. She was seeing every day his pains and secrets and took advantage of a kid in the most disgusting way. Bc we know how the Korhans pay attention to anything..he was left all alone in this +
Seyran being in Suna’s room in the yali can has a simple explanation. Mind you from the first frag we saw the same day she also receives her stuff from the yali, Kazim hitting her again (she was wearing the same outfit). +
As far as I get it Halis comes and takes her back while Suna seems to be left at Kazim’s. She is again at the edge of breaking. S knows Saffet and his family are psychos. And again Seyran said it in the frag “I don’t beed mercy” she is very prideful person +
who’s only wish is to have control over her life and yet again that was taken from her..ofc she won’t be dancing happily around and wanting to be back at seyfer’s room which mind you she last was when she thought F will hit her. She thinks she is going again into another prison +
We start with Seyran at the door. Seyran’s teary dilated pupils when F opens the door. The slightly parted lips..A look mixture of fear and coldness. She is scared what she is gonna see but also right away pierce Ferit. The same way he studies her she studies him +
Seyran enters the room and observes it the same way she did in that cursed night. Not bc of the love making but bc she once again returned to the the position she was there - not knowing what to expect, not knowing Ferit’s intentions, scared. The difference +
F: Who told you I was out of the company?
S: That doesn’t concern the people there
F: Who’s concern is then? Tell me
S: When your brother saw me, he got worried
F: My brother of course..who else..
Look closely at F’s reactions. The fear in his eyes +
Remember Ferit reads people very well, he sensed it was someone from the family. His biggest fear is Seyran starting to see and treat him like his family does. Fear of not seeing him the way he is not the way the others portray him +
While there’s plenty of reasons why Ferit deserves the label “black sheep” no one from the family sees his other colours or why it got to this point. Seyran is the only one and that’s why he lets her close to him, close to his soul..
when in fact it pointed so many important things in seyfer’s relationship. They are fully aware of the stage of their relationship. Small steps, surprises, wanting to make each other happy, to understand each other, to try healing each other +
Seyran knows Ferit likes attention and Ferit knows Seyran really treasures meaningful gestures. Although once again their actions led to a conflict for the first time they decided not to go to extreme anger lengths. While it’s very likely these will still happen +
The way I see it the topic of the yali since the show is called like that will come around but not always only related to Ferit. We saw it with Orhan and that’s due to be developed even further. We will see it with Fuat and somewhere in the future probably also with Halis +
since it was mentioned he also had a mistress in the past. While the topic of P will have to be eventually closed and Sultan’s one to be opened and also closed Ferit will probably have to pay for his behavior for a long time. For him from now on the focus mainly it would be +