Thread by @APHROD1ETY

dear advocator @ainhsaifulnizam Ain Husniza, please stop IGNORING me on instagram AND TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND TO STOP HARASSING ME AT UNIVERSITY!

You saw my story but you did not reach out or replied. Your Boyfriend, Shaik Irfan, wont respect my boundary since sem 1.

Jangan nak ignore I dekat Twitter pulak. Your boyfie is a manipulator.
He condescend, insults and degrades me up to a point I CANNOT TOLERATE HIM ANYMORE. This has been going on for 1 sem+. Idc abt him, I TAK NAK CURI PAKWA U JUST TEL HIM TO STOP TALKING TO ME!!! PLS IM BEGGING

He won't listen to me but he will listen to you. Please tell him.
Walk your talk when you say #makeschoolasaferplace
My mental health is deteriorating because of your boyfriend abusive behavior.
I already told him not talk to me about ANYTHING.

IF YOU THINK I DONT HAVE ANY MUCH FOLLOWERS AS YOU DOESNT MEAN I WONT BE VOCAL OR AGGRESSIVE. YOU ARE AN ENABLER.

I even added proof how he condescend me.

You cannot justify harassment as teasing. You boyfriend, @shaik_ir is a bully and a harasser. He will not stop harassing me and come up all in my face. I have already made it clear I do not want him talking to me ANYMORE about ANYTHING.

Im unsure if im his only victim of harassment or bully, OR ada lagi others but WHO CARES? WOULD IT MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE IF IT WAS ONLY ME?? HES NOT SUPPOSED TO DO IT IN THE FIRST PLACE.

I have asked him NUMEROUS OF TIMES. TELL HIM TO STOP.

UR NOT THE ONLY IM TIRED, IM ALSO TIRED OF YOUR BOYFRIEND HARASSING ME AT UNI!!!!!!!

DEGRADING AND CONDESCEND TAK HABIS-HABIS!!!!!! HARASSMENT IS NOT TEASING!!

YOU DO NOT ADVOCATE FOR WOMEN & CHILDREN'S RIGHTS. YOU ENABLE YOUR BOYFRIEND'S ABUSIVE MANIPULATIVE BEHAVIOUR.

Aku penat aku penat AKU PENAT!!! This is not how friends are suppose to treat you. They DO NOT LOOK DOWN ON YOU FOR FUN!!!
It is not FUNNY.
I am already diagnosed Depression, ADHD and BPD and your BOYFRIEND is giving me a tougher time. I told him a lot of times,

STOP!! STOP!!

I literally DM'd you for you to tell your BOYFRIEND to stop TALKING TO ME because i know HE WONT STOP.

He will still come to me and talk to me. I have already made myself clear a lot of times, I do not want to be his FRIEND.

You think his apology is enough? OH IT IS ENOUGH AFTER HIS CONTINUOUS HARASSMENT SINCE SEM 1?? I am your punching BAG? Please seek therapy @shaik_ir

How many times have I told you to LEAVE ME ALONE? You even sanggup bertekak dengan I depan semua orang asalkan you BETUL!!!!!!!!!

The reason why I reach out to you is because YOU ADVOCATE for women BUT NO!!! You proved me WRONG, @ainhsaifulnizam.

MY SAFETY IS NOT GUARANTEED AT UNIVERSITY. HE COULD STILL COME AT ME ANYTIME.
My safety, my sanity.
I AM A STUDENT TOO, LEAVE ME ALONE!!

I came fwd with our faculty Dean, she told me that there is no policy for verbal harassment, only physical.

so I asked, that is unfair bcus if he keeps on degrading me & makes me mental, if I assault him cus I'm not able to tolerate anymore tht wud make me the problematic one?

This is from his Ws story. Kalau boleh setiap kali, MESTI NAK CONDESCEND. Msti nak rendah rendahkan I. I ADA MARUAH TAHU TAK? You do not make uni a safe space for me. You cannot even discuss properly. You need therapy. You enable your boyfriend. @ainhsaifulnizam @shaik_ir

You are the most arrogant, 19-yr old I have ever met. Idc if you have influence in our school.

Just cus u read a bit abt politics and econs doesnt make u a genius.

You are a bully and harasser. Your parents should know about your abusive behaviour at school. @shaik_ir

I am a student and a mother. I would never want my daughter to be harassed the way I got. I am depressed and scared for my privacy at uni. STOP HARASSING ME!!

Ironic is that @ainhsaifulnizam didnt even bother to reply my dm asking for help about HER OWN BOYFRIEND PULAK TU.

Ain, you were also scared for yourself when you were harassed at school b4. What makes me different?
U THINK THIS IS A LIGHT ISSUE?
IVE HAD ENOUGH!! I'm tired juggling my work, school and family. I'm just a single mom trying to study and make ends meet. OUT OF ALL PEOPLE WHY ME?

U WANT ME TO KMS dulu ke????????? BARU U GUYS KISAH??? SATISFIED? @ainhsaifulnizam @shaik_ir
You know very well I have asked you NUMEROUS of times to stay away. I told you two days ago that will be the final final time. I will not tolerate this anymore.

Thank you everyone for RTing. Im trying to survive working-studying both full time & taking care of my daughter alone,

know-know 19yr old BRAT read abt a bit of politics and econs thinks he's all great thinks he can BULLY me. Baru dapat presidency dekat club dah macam-macam.

can u imagine my feelings when my uni cakap i tak boleh ditolong without proof? cmne i nak terfikir utk rakam when i dont realise the situation im in?? im a VICTIM

YOUR BOYFRIEND IS AWARE OF HIS OWN ABUSIVE BEHAVIOUR. HE is the problematic one. I GET ZERO PROFIT IN REACHING OUT

THE PEPRETATOR CHOOSES HIS VICTIM.

i dont have close friends at school, i hardly tell people about my problems. he knows that.

i really didnt know who to reach out, i felt like it was me vs the world

I dont want this to stop at ME, i DONT WANT HIM TO DO THIS TO OTHER PPL TOO!

this was during our group assignment on social policy. aku tanya benda simple pun kau nak juga pandang rendah ke? takde manners ke? EVEN IN CLASS ASSIGNMENTS? IN CLUB WORKS???

TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL INNUENDOS

masa ni pun aku tanya mana satu grabber yg nice for my public speaking assignment. this was on 21 January 2023. i had been tolerating his H behavior. often i brushed off but im tired.

dia pernah cakap dekat i when i once bring up a possibility of telling people of his sexual/harassment towards me and he replied
"You really think people going to believe you?"
i didnt thought people would believe me back then because you were clinging onto me. rly controlled me

tell me @shaik_ir what do i get from telling people about you? do i get money? FAME? I JUST WANT PEACE. I WANT THE UNI TO GIVE A RESTRAINING ORDER. I JUST WANT PEACE!!!!!!!! I DONT WANT YOU TO TALK TO ME. im not even attracted to your looks. what do i get? TELL ME.

what do i want to gain from this? I want @myunirazak, sxd & src unirazak to do something about this. i want his parents to know about his behavior. i want my safety guaranteed for me at uni. i have friends at uni but they dont condescend me like this. they talk to me like friends

is my mental wellbeing is less important than his influence at uni? i know im not as popular but im a student too. i also pay for my courses.

is verbal abuse is deemed less impactful than physical assault? getting tortured mentally is fine as long as i dont punch someone ke?

https://twitter.com/hgygie/status/1636227065921028096?s=20

in fact dia yang dtg dkt aku awal-awal dulu. dia yang nak melekat dengan aku. aku kahwin muda takde berkait dengan hal harassment dia. i also learn from my past.

lagi satu, aku nak menggatal dgn shaik? ko tak nampak muka dia ke? agak-agak la pun @hgygie

https://twitter.com/joonietele/status/1636235044883955714?s=20

girly pop u right, dia sanggup nak bertekak dengan aku depan khalayak ramai asalkan dia rasa dia menang. dia sorg je betul. byk je saksi dkt quiet room tu.

https://twitter.com/AveDomiina/status/1636235322404007936?s=20

sry u might misunderstand,
im not talking abt ain, im talking abt shaik.

& if u see one of my ss, she seen my story.

she knows her bf is harassing me. she could have replied something, even one sentence but no she didnt. aku bukannya gila nak cari psl

some of yalls comments .... (idm ds acc btw im inclusive)
side eye...bombastic side eye

https://twitter.com/sunwoodxkkk/status/1636276201244467200?s=20

the reason why i reached out to ain is because she is her girlfriend, orang yg paling rapat dengan dia. of course i needed her during the time i was having mental breakdown, IT IS HER OWN BOYFRIEND KOT. she had seen my story but she did not replied.

from some replies, some people indicated that ain's exams was important than my mental wellbeing at uni since sem 1.

im sure with everyone's help, i am able to continue on what i can do. niat i tak nak dia cakap dengan i dkt uni tu but there is no policy for verbal harassment.

her exams and my wellbeing are both equally important. im sorry @ainhsaifulnizam if i seem like im pressuring you and im sorry for tagging you. i did not know you are having exams.

after some people advising me, @shaik_ir we'll see each other's parents. ironic that im a parent myself but you continuously harass me. i hope you will learn from this. jangan senang nak condescend orang. i dah cakap banyak kali dont talk to me kan? kan dah kena.

thank you everyone for siding with me.

thank you everyone for siding with ain

thank you for standing up for my safety and privacy at my uni.

thank you for explaining to other people.

let's be better for each other.

pls stop when ppl ask u to stop. pls.

and to clear all the misunderstanding, i am not in love with her boyfriend. i simply want him to respect my space because he likes to get into my face proving that hes right all the time.

i have my own perception of good-looking, and shaik is not those people i like. ☺️ IM SRS-

jangan gaduh dengan masing-masing, kita chill la

ain nak exam. shes shocked, im tired.

nak ranked ajak. aku men dota ngan ml. dota aku pos 3-4-5. ml aku roam & mid. exp kkdg.

kalau mmorpg co-op aku men terraria and Tree of Saviors. best doh no cap aku boleh grind non-stop. dm

ok sorry aku bukan glory. aku herald & warrior.

srs again, i have apologised to ain as i am not aware that she has exams, shaik irfan also did not told me that when he decided to shove that hes right in my face yesterday dekat quiet room.

i have decided to talk to his parents before lodging a police report. waiting for uni.tq

Someone came up to me. This is Shaik Irfan's DS account. If you cari this person and you kacau dia, siap you.

@schwartz_bl

Disgusting.

https://twitter.com/puteriarchy/status/1636299438623985665?t=5yWlHFRJrOzHrKb91F7nbQ&s=19

https://twitter.com/VasilyZaitsevM/status/1636309374150000640?t=pdsCho4WOxHSA2qw-A3Wlg&s=19