What a man should know when he experiences heart breaks.
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If a man lives long enough and has enough experience with women, he will have at least one heartbreak. This thread will go into depth on what a man should realize about carrying this emotional pain. Read on.
A heart can only break when someone lets us down. This comes from emotional attachment and dependency. The more a man relies on someone, the more he will become dependent on them.
What a man needs to realize is that emotions mean what ever the hell we want them to mean. They can either by meaningless or most meaningful. Love means whatever we want it to mean.
A man only relies on a woman for emotional comfort when he is weak. He has surrendered his power to her and when she forsakes him, she leaves with his power. This was his fault for giving it away in weakness.
A man should never rely on his woman emotionally. He needs to be her rock and rocks are cold. This means a man must stay above emotion and stay detached. And he needs to realize that females are more the same than different.
There is no such thing as a “one and only” There is no such thing as an irreplaceable female. There is countless women in this world and if a woman does not want to be with a man, she gives him opportunity for others.
Why does a man cry? Because he is weak. What are tears but weakness leaking out? Stop be emotional like a woman or a lost child looking for momma. Be framed. Be cold. Be detached. Stay hard. A man has himself and that is more than enough.
Men will hear in our time that “ego is the enemy” by weak writers and men will often her women talk about “fragile male egos” — Is ego the enemy? Should a man destroy his ego or use it to his advantage? Read on.
The world is seeking to destroy us all. And before it destroys us, it wants to exploit us completely. Everything is a power struggle and only a triumph of will can help a man to overcome the cruelty of existence.
A lot of guys will fail with women because they got nerves. These guys would rather be imprisoned by their fears than be free in a world of possibility. This thread will help a man to understand what it means to be confident. Read on.
Let us begin with what we know about fear. Men fear what they do not know. A man fears being made a fool, a man fears rejection and a man fears death. These are fears that keep a man playing it safe in a dangerous world.
What women mean why they say "big of you" and "real man"
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Men will often hear women say the words "A real man would..." or "A big man would..." or "That is big of you" -- What do these phrases mean? Should a man trust a woman who says these words? This thread will explain. Read on.
Women will say "It is big of you" or "A big man would" as a way to gaslight a man into accepting an emasculating event without complaint. The man is "Big" only because he is not making a big deal of being made small. Women only say the word "big" in humiliating a man.
Masculine frame is a daily discipline. A man is not simply framed, he is carrying frame. This means he must think about and strengthen his frame daily. It is a never ending battle until the end. We are either getting weaker or we are getting stronger. Frame is this way.
1. Speak less. The reason why talking less is good for frame is that it lowers a man's need for external validation. The less a man speaks, the more he begins to validate his own emotional state. This means he will increase his internal fortitude.
A lot of this current generation have been raised on video game playing. We live in a digital world and have been trained to deal with it from infancy. Is video game playing masculine? Why do women hate it when men play games? Read on.
Are video games masculine? A video game is a form of enertainment and there is nothing wrong with enertainment in moderation. When a man is masculine, he will have high ambition which creates stress. This means he will need ways to disconnect and let go of that stress.
This world is a cold and desperate existence. All living things are in a constant struggle for power until death. Only by death does the struggle end. We are either being exploited or used. All human behavior is motivated by self gain. People gaslight themselves in ignorance.
We are shamed and guilted into submission or forced violently into obedience. This is how all things are controlled. Men live pathetic lives of desperation that end in tragedy. We who are standing will indeed fall. Death is the greatest truth.