Thread by @hollowearthterf

I know a lot of millenial men pushing 40, unmarried, childless, fucked around for two decades partying, having casual sex, now they want to get married and they’re struggling to find someone. Contrary to Right Wing delusions, 40 comes at most men fast and hard

There are A LOT of lonely men in their late thirties/early forties. They’re one of the most bitter, jaded demographics you will see on dating apps, and no 25 year old woman is dying to date them. Most men who are 35+ with no wife are leftover men with serious personality issues

They’re overly picky, their expectations are too high, they don’t know how to compromise, and they have relationship baggage from a decade ago they still haven’t worked through. Some are broke, some of them make good money, it doesn’t really matter though bc the $ isn’t the issue

If you’re a man and you want a wife and kids, please understand that you’re not Leo, you don’t have fame and millions of dollars to offer to a 22 year old after the twink death has set in and your hairline is disappearing. You have a limited window of time to get this done.

There’s a panic that sets in with single men around the age of 37, but no one in the manosphere is going to be honest with you about this. Instead they try to unsuccessfully convince 20 year olds they need to get married yesterday to a man 15 years their senior

Don’t delude yourself, hot 20 year olds don’t want to date a man pushing middle age with a dad bod and a receding hairline, they want to date the cute guy their age in Pike. Your 300k yearly salary doesn’t matter, you’re not a movie star

As a man, if you would like to get married, you should start feeling pressured to do so by your early thirties, in reality you don’t have all the time in the world

Unless you’re really rich, dating gets harder for everyone the older you get past a certain age. Sometime to consider!

And I’m not saying you can’t fuck around in your 20s and get away with it, but don’t expect that lifestyle to continue on forever, don’t wait until you’re 37 to get serious about having a family, it’s not going to be easier when you’re nearly 40 than it is at 30

It’s a simple fact of life that your options dwindle once you pass a certain age, men aren’t exempt from this, it’s math. Most young women don’t want to date a man significantly older than them and the average age difference between couples is only 2-3 years

If you’re not intentional with your time, life is going to pass you by one day. Men aren’t exempt from the basic facts of life!

The manosphere is a bunch of middle aged men telling young men not to bother dating their peers so they don’t have to compete with young men for young women because those young women prefer men their own age, don’t listen to them, you should be dating while you’re still young

Don’t let these dudes convince you you’re a temporarily embarrassed millionaire, you’re just some guy, date while you have the energy and hairline, you’re not going to be Leo when you’re 40