Men like to be needed, women like to be wanted.
The idea of a man needing a woman is actively repulsive to her.
This is why the idea "men and women need each other" is nonsense.
Women need men, men want women - in the same way parents want children, but children need parents.
The idea of a man needing a woman is actively repulsive to her.
This is why the idea "men and women need each other" is nonsense.
Women need men, men want women - in the same way parents want children, but children need parents.
That statement's always bothered me, because it implies a false equivalence where there is none.
No man's desperate to commit to a woman, though he may like the idea of family, but single women are oft desperate to be taken care of, though in their pride they may deny it.
No man's desperate to commit to a woman, though he may like the idea of family, but single women are oft desperate to be taken care of, though in their pride they may deny it.
Sometimes teenagers resent the parents they depend on due to negative experiences, and claim they don't need them and can do everything themselves, but this is frustration speaking and not indicative of true psychological need.
The same is true of woman in relation to man.
The same is true of woman in relation to man.
What I will say is that being responsible for someone who needs you more than you need them is good for building character. This is why, for example, women often become better people once they become mothers.
Sometimes a pathological desire looks like a need, for example the inexperienced man is often desperate for a woman because he feels like he missed out. He doesn't need a woman to survive, he needs one to overcome his neurosis - should he get one, she will still burden him more.
The parallel of this in woman lies with the desire for a baby. A woman does not need a baby to survive, and if she has one it will surely burden her more than she will it for at least a few decades, but the pathological desire presents as a need. They are similar, but distinct.
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