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Maru

@marwabenrabeh

Mar 27, 2023 • 11 tweets • 10 min read • Read on X

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#SeyFer healing each other 🤍

- Seyran defence mechanism;
Her past trauma, trust issues and overwhelming feelings for Ferit triggers her to SUBCONSCIOUSLY push him away to avoid being hurt.
#YalıÇapkını

Actions like starting arguments (harsh and provocative words) and avoiding emotional intimacy (refuse to open up) happen unconsciously - and are just an escape. Same as numbing and denying feelings to make them easier to cope with.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

The truth is; Seyran was deeply touched by Ferit love note and that triggered her fears and instinct to protect herself (harsh words & attitude)
She was also very pleased by the gifts and flowers but she denies it in front of Suna and on the phone with Ferit.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

She never intentionally meant to hurt F, just like him his pain affects her deeply. She regretted telling him God is saving me from you, regretted saying I can’t trust him all my life -admitting she exaggerated. Same as she regretted some actions in the past.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

In the mountain house F for the first time confronted S with the truth, her past trauma are the reason of her fear and behaviour.
F is pushing S to break free from her past chains - to heal.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

The same applies to S, who is guiding F and challenging him to become better person, to give up on his self centred behaviour and disproportional freedom.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

Her pointing out that her disgust and shock of what he did -along with his mother- is beyond her insignificant self and it’s actually a matter of morals - she is restoring F values.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

Gulgun nonchalant behaviour the next day is a contrast to F’s who reflected on S words & accepted his mistakes. He chose, to keep G in the dark about his relationship, taking sole responsibility to fix it as grown up, he doesn’t trust in her judgment anymore
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

- she is his mother but she failed him with her wrong guidance and excessive love, almost ruined his life.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

F, later, asked Suna for help. F is not shutting ppl out, he is choosing who to let in. Suna never hesitated to call him out whenever he was wrong, was hard on him several times but she also showed him support, affection & gave him counsel when needed.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

- That’s how a balanced healthy love/care should be.

#SeyFer have different backgrounds, their entourage are different, but they are very similar in their differences and like a puzzle they perfectly match, helping each other grow. ✨
#YalıÇapkını

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Maru

@marwabenrabeh

Jun 27, 2023

Ferit to Seyran;
(unshared thread from first episodes)

-his ways are wrong- let’s keep that in mind, but there is a reasoning behind it and it doesn’t reflect the whole truth.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

S and F both were forced into this marriage, yes! but actually, Ferit was forced into a “random marriage” not to “Seyran”, the moment he chose her, it became his “choice” and not an obligation anymore, he himself was not aware of the impact of his action.
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Taking advantage of the situation & turning it to his favor, because a small win better than a loss, & Ferit like to bet, it was selfish yes- but it doesn’t matter since he’s wining. So one thing for sure, from the start, Seyran in Ferit’s eyes, is a “WIN”.
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@marwabenrabeh

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Ferit;
The black sheep - apple of the korhan’s eye.

(unshared thread describing F character from earlier episodes and background)
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

Feels unseen and not understood. Despite growing up in a rich house with numerous family members, he grew up in need of affection and lonely.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

Screaming for attention since his young age, but no one hear. He rebels against the fake perfect image of the Korhan, his dress code seems to be effortless, he opposes to the fake gentlemen manners -
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Maru

@marwabenrabeh

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This scene my favourite!🔥
Mert acting is phenomenal, Ferit’s attitude and voice, his shaking hand always leaves me speechless, when he told Orhan to wait- it was shaking in anger, exhaustion but not in fear.
The confrontation much awaited!
Halis vs Ferit 🌋
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

No one dare to differ with Halis or do other than what he told, who ever try it’s either an enemy or a successor.

“Her söz senin ağam sözünse, bu da beni ferit korhan sözüm.”
The highlight of the scene.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

No one is allowed to brag about himself or his name in that yali other than Halis Ağa, he made sure everyone is an extension of him and his name, he keeps them small in order for him to be great, he owns them by owning his family’s name.
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@marwabenrabeh

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Seyran revolt era -

S is revolting against everyone who once “enslaved” her. She reached the edge, acting reckless, stubborn, making mistakes, not considering consequences or planning anything. Her ultimate goal is to take control over her life at any costs.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

defying K authority, beating & torture, she’s braking free from K “chains”, it doesn’t matter if her choices are rights/wrongs now, what matters is: to decide for herself. She never had the chance before & that’s one of obstacles that keeps her away from F.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

She is not able to accept the circumstances of her engagement, the way they objectified her, belittled her and silenced her voice.
Her who always dreamt about freedom, independency and despised the traditions that oppress women.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

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Maru

@marwabenrabeh

Apr 2, 2023

Key scene of Ep26 imo; giving insight to what’s to come.
The Ep wasn’t about who’s right & who’s wrong but a display of characters inner psyche and behaviours.

وَلَاۤ اُقۡسِمُ بِالنَّفۡسِ اللَّوَّامَةِؕ
(75:2) and nay, I swear by the self-reproaching soul!
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

Quran has mentioned three kinds of human self:
- Ammarah: the self that urges man to evil
- Lawwamah: the self that feels repentant at doing wrong, thinking wrong & willing wrong & reproaches man for this & the same is called conscience in modern terminology
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

- Mumtmainnah: the self that feels full satisfaction at following the right path and abandoning the wrong path.

Equivalent to Freud’s psychoanalytic theory -
Id, Ego and Superego.
#YalıÇapkını #SeyFer

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Maru

@marwabenrabeh

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Acting involves imitation, but not only! For any physical emotional expression, shaking hands for example, you basically need to not only be in character, but be yourself in the character’s situation. How do you feel/react in that situation?
#YalıÇapkını #bucebusekahraman

Then find the mental posture and muscular technique that makes your hands shake the way you want, for the reason they are supposed to be shaking. The expression of the whole body and hands must be interconnected.
What I saw was a stiff body and a voluntary trembling!

When someone expressing rage or is on the edge of a breakdown the whole world is not enough place for them, their own body is not enough place, it can’t contain their emotions inside any longer, so we witnesses a torn body about to explode in movement in the all space around them