“I would like to have steady and stable income, and not struggle to eat the way I’m struggling.”
This was what Esther said to me in January when I engaged her in a conversation.
She sounded so demotivated as she explained how she was feeling stagnant career-wise.
“It feels like I’m not getting the right clients for work.”
I could feel her exhaustion from constantly trying to make thing work, but simply not being able to make any headway.
It started out as a regular conversation but for the next one hour, I found myself…
Offering her a spontaneous clarity session.
“What are your skills? What do you posses? What are you doing to change things?”
These were the questions I led with. She answered honestly and it didn’t take long before we realized that Esther was capable of getting her dream life.
She had hot skills, resources, she just needed clarity. Someone to help her see how to make these skills and resources work for her, and show her the path that she should get started on.
By the end of the session, Esther was gingered and ready to get to work.
She hit the ground running, taking all the strategies we’d discussed and putting them to practise.
Less than two weeks later, she sent me a message. “I got the job!
After that incident, I realized that I wanted to help more people gain clarity.
The phenomenon is something I seek regularly in my life, because I understand how I’d never make any true progress if I didn’t know where I was going or how to get there.
Since then…
I have offered over ten clarity sessions and I’m booked for more to come.
But I thought to myself? Why not make it large scale? Why not reach out to as many as you can at a go?
That was when it occurred to me—A webinar! One on achieving clarity so as to maximize our potentials!
See, clarity is something we will always need, no matter where we presently are in our life, in order to move forward.
So, are you feeling stuck? Confused? Stagnant like Esther felt?
Or are you simply looking for better, and you’re not quite certain how to go about that?
Then you need to be at the webinar.
We will be discussing the art of Clarifying our Vision, so that we may now Amplify our Vision.
If you don’t want to begin effecting real change in your life in order to get wholesome results, don’t sign up.
But if you do, grab your tickets via the link my bio😉
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How are things with your partner whenever you guys finish addressing/resolving conflicts?
Tense? Awkward? Uncomfortable.
If so, I totally get you, and this is why I want to introduce you to “After-Conflict Care”.
Just as the name implies, after-conflict care (Read as ACC from hereon), is simply acts of love that you and your partner perform towards each other after conflict, in order to reassure yourselves that “just because we just fought doesn’t mean I care about you any less.”
So what are the ways you can engage in ACC, especially after an intense conflict-resolution episode?
They’ll ask me and I’ll say I knew I loved you when…
I told you all my secrets, the deepest parts of me that I hadn’t had the courage to fully show anyone else before.
And you didn’t lie. You didn’t tell me sweet naughts like “They don’t matter, it’s ok.”
Instead, you let me know that they were heavy, but you loved me regardless.
I knew I loved you when I woke up one day, weeks, months down the line and I realized that not once, not even by a slip of tongue had you ever made me feel less for the past I had to endure in the hands of others who were too greedy to see my worth,
My sister wasn’t jumping fences in Bauchi, didn’t watch her fellow corp members be butchered to pieces, and barely lived to tell the story for you to be lying like this.
One of the hardest things a person can go through is that period when you can actually feel your friendship with someone falling apart and there appears to be nothing you can do to stop it.
The knowledge sinks into your bones, things are just no longer the same.
Conversations have become so dry, they’ve gotten to the point of awkward and comfortable.
There are many words you want to say but you don’t even know to breathe them to life.
You say you love them and they say it back but you can hear the hollow in those echoes.
It’s especially worse when it’s not like anything happened to drive you apart, no one did anyone wrong.
It’s just… the friendship has reaching its expiry date. Life has happened and you two have grown too apart to find an intersection that would serve as common ground…
If you’re in a healing journey and you still find yourself having really bad days that have you questioning your progress, read this🫶🏼
First of all, those bad days are called relapses. A relapse is basically a set back from an otherwise, well-progressing course.
Now the thing about relapses is that they can hit so bad and make us feel like we never truly made any progress and never will.
Consequently, these feelings can be such downers, discouraging us from having any real desire to put in any more effort towards our healing.
Thus, becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That’s why you should know this, relapses are only normal in the healing journey. The road to full recovery is quite bumpy and filled with many potholes (read as triggers).
These triggers can be anything from stress, to reminders…