As #AutismAcceptanceMonth gets going and has already been a mess, i have thrown together a video especially for non-autistic people (and a message for autistics at the end).
The type of thing we see on #AutismAwareness days is nothing like what autistic people need from you.
Awareness days are so well-known for being the sites of proliferation for eugenic and ableist nonsense that autistic people prepare for them like a battle every year.
Including autistic people just trying to live their fucking lives, who are NOT advocates or activists.
That's a complete failure on the part of EVERYONE participating.
So yeah. Just be aware, non-autistic people:
Autistic peoples' liberation will not be stopped, and if you're in the way of that liberation it will become a You problem.
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That I love you all so dearly is not changed by the fact that i think you're foolishly letting the government expose you to a pathogen that's gonna make the rest of your life considerably more difficult and expensive.
But my love and respect for people have become... disjointed.
There are people I used to follow the advice of, or go to for guidance, who I will never respect or trust with anything important again.
I love them still as family members or friends, but I have no respect or trust left for them. It feels so weird to hear someone talking &
Think, "wow for someone i used to think was smart you are just completely wrong about this and probably gonna die early because of it and that makes me SAD"
Happy Monday, anyone telling you that autistic children "need" intense behavioural intervention has no idea what autism is or how autistic brains work and you should ignore their nonsense 💜
[Autism is not a behavioural condition. Autism is a type of way the body and brain experience things; which means when people complain about "behaviours" autistic kids "have" they're focusing on 100% the wrong thing & neglecting whatever is actually important for the child]
When someone says behavioural intervention teaches kids, they mean that any kid can be manipulated to act how you want them to, if you stick them alone 40hrs/week with an adult who has a book of compliance coercion tactics & total power over them and their access to the world.
Hey white autistics:
When you get called out for doing something colonial as hell,
You don't have to pretend what's going on is you're being oppressed for autistic traits.
You can say "Shit, you are right. This idea was rooted in colonialism, I'll read up on better frameworks"
Yes, Autistic people make mistakes. Autistic people also absorb the prejudices and discriminatory frameworks they are raised with. Autistic people can learn and grow away from those cruel and dangerous frameworks. But only if they acknowledge them and commit to doing better.
Even a bad faith argument can be addressed by saying "colonial white supremacy does underlie most of the systems involved in my idea, and I definitely did not mention that enough, which happens often in mostly-white autistic spaces."
I actually despise the very common adage "autism isn't all sunshine and rainbows"
because sunshine burns me on sight + gave two of my grandparents cancer. rainbows are only visible from some angles and in some conditions.
Nothing is whatever yall think sunshine and rainbows are.
My autism is absolutely all rainbows and i'll thank you all to f off about it
And if autistics can stop fucking blanket repeating the lines used against us by bigots and abusive ableists to try to show how balanced you are, I'll thank you for that too
Maybe it is the philosophy degree, more likely it is the autism, but the encompassing range of information I am constantly tryna fit into things -so that people will understand that I'm certain about what they've asked me and there's a ton of good reasons why- is sometimes Loud.
But I cannot have people walking around thinking I haven't bothered considering parts of this stuff.
Bc I actually work in groups and on collaborative projects. And if they think you haven't thought of something they sometimes tank your shit without ever asking you if you did.
Stuck in a hell where the thing I wish my brain wouldnt/didn't have to do is also required to avoid significant loss of volunteer time or work time or grades or whatever else. Never mind the interpersonal strain of such incidents.