S is revolting against everyone who once “enslaved” her. She reached the edge, acting reckless, stubborn, making mistakes, not considering consequences or planning anything. Her ultimate goal is to take control over her life at any costs. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
defying K authority, beating & torture, she’s braking free from K “chains”, it doesn’t matter if her choices are rights/wrongs now, what matters is: to decide for herself. She never had the chance before & that’s one of obstacles that keeps her away from F. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
She is not able to accept the circumstances of her engagement, the way they objectified her, belittled her and silenced her voice.
Her who always dreamt about freedom, independency and despised the traditions that oppress women. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
Hanging up the phone on Halis was a rebellious move against his tyranny. she showed remorse later, she knows when lines are crossed & that shows S state of mind at the moment, hot tempered, not allowing anyone anymore to dismiss her feelings or bend her will #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
S reaction to “attempt of violence” was #YalıCapkını raising awareness about domestic abuse, sending the right msg to women, young girls & all genders out there, not let their feelings blur their judgment or settle down for what is wrong no matter how helpless they may be #SeyFer
by refusing to walk on her mother footsteps revolting against years of abuse from her father, she is breaking the cycle and releasing herself from wrong values dictated by society. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
Resisting K & H is one thing, but she’s revolting against F too, defying him, her anger towards him ( from the day he chose her, all that happened b/w them, knowing his plans before marriage & raising his hand -the last straw) is consuming her more than ever. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
Truth is all this anger is b/c despite it all & despite F flaws (S perspective) she fell in love with him. She’s angry at herself & at him for loving him in a way she never expected, a love “against her will, against her raison & even against her character.” #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
S is at a boiling point, all her feelings will burst to the surface eventually and she will finally admit and confess her love to Ferit. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
Giving the turn of events, F who is not showing any will to give up on S despite everything, he’ll be put in a position where he has to stand for himself and his choices against his family oppression.
#SeyFer will be screaming their words forcing everyone to listen! #YalıÇapkını
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Key scene of Ep26 imo; giving insight to what’s to come.
The Ep wasn’t about who’s right & who’s wrong but a display of characters inner psyche and behaviours.
وَلَاۤ اُقۡسِمُ بِالنَّفۡسِ اللَّوَّامَةِؕ
(75:2) and nay, I swear by the self-reproaching soul! #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
Quran has mentioned three kinds of human self:
- Ammarah: the self that urges man to evil
- Lawwamah: the self that feels repentant at doing wrong, thinking wrong & willing wrong & reproaches man for this & the same is called conscience in modern terminology #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
- Mumtmainnah: the self that feels full satisfaction at following the right path and abandoning the wrong path.
Equivalent to Freud’s psychoanalytic theory -
Id, Ego and Superego. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
Acting involves imitation, but not only! For any physical emotional expression, shaking hands for example, you basically need to not only be in character, but be yourself in the character’s situation. How do you feel/react in that situation? #YalıÇapkını#bucebusekahraman
Then find the mental posture and muscular technique that makes your hands shake the way you want, for the reason they are supposed to be shaking. The expression of the whole body and hands must be interconnected.
What I saw was a stiff body and a voluntary trembling!
When someone expressing rage or is on the edge of a breakdown the whole world is not enough place for them, their own body is not enough place, it can’t contain their emotions inside any longer, so we witnesses a torn body about to explode in movement in the all space around them
- Seyran defence mechanism;
Her past trauma, trust issues and overwhelming feelings for Ferit triggers her to SUBCONSCIOUSLY push him away to avoid being hurt. #YalıÇapkını
Actions like starting arguments (harsh and provocative words) and avoiding emotional intimacy (refuse to open up) happen unconsciously - and are just an escape. Same as numbing and denying feelings to make them easier to cope with. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
The truth is; Seyran was deeply touched by Ferit love note and that triggered her fears and instinct to protect herself (harsh words & attitude)
She was also very pleased by the gifts and flowers but she denies it in front of Suna and on the phone with Ferit. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
Seyran, who always protected herself with her “strong” facade and hid all her feelings from F, her love as for her pain. Now she is not hiding anymore -as a start, she is showing her pain- #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
heartbroken and in tears, standing there in front of Ferit, expressing how hurt she feels, bringing back all their memories, outlining that yes she was forced to marriage but she always took it seriously, that she pinned hopes on everything he did for her. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
She is actually admitting that she was never indifferent towards him and that’s what makes it hurt even more. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
P didn’t want to live in London with her family, she is always afraid of them knowing when she messes up, always saying “you know how my family are” meaning they are strict and severe. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
F despite the fact that he never loved P and was a womaniser, we can’t deny the fact that P succeeded to make him soft for her to be his official girlfriend but that was it. #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
F due to all the chaos inside of him, his troubles and insecurities, relationships are just not his thing, when it comes to women, he likes to operate with no string attached, to avoid being hurt.++ #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
P had to make so much effort to convince him to be with her,he accepted only on his own terms. He is not fully committed-open relationship from his side-and because of his insecurities and trust issues he had to questions and know EVERYTHING. And P AGREED.++ #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer
It was never out of jealousy, it was always because he is distrustful.
(In P mind it was jealousy and caring, but for example F never reacted or was jealous of the way P dresses up “revealing clothes; in the club, her summer dresses etc”,++ #YalıÇapkını#SeyFer