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Finally finished #YalıÇapkını 29; I won’t be surprised if it takes me longer next week. Seyran did the right thing for her. Not a single man in her life - one who calls her daughter, one who calls her granddaughter, one who calls her wife, treated her like a human being. /1
Ferit pushed her buttons w/ P till the end, refusing to put boundaries around the spineless sloth b/c he’s Ferit Korhan & only he gets to decide when it’s the end. Seyran’s pleas, requests fell on deaf ears while he still kept chatting with Sadik. #YalıÇapkını /2
Why did Ferit storm Kazim’s house a second time? How many more times would he repeat this cycle? He misbehaves or his past catches up with him, Seyran leaves, & he forces her to come back b/c they are the Korhans. #YalıÇapkını/3
He is in love w/ her to the extent that he can be but he doesn’t know how to treat her as an equal. He’ll taunt her as Kazim’s daughter when it would suit him. He’d hide behind Halis. When will he truly stand up for Seyran? Ask her about her pain? How she’s doing? #YalıÇapkını/4
He’s been creative & helpful when saving Suna, but he didn’t honor Seyran as he should have for this to reach the potential of their great love. He sat on the knowledge of Ifakat’s meddling. Why? B/c he values the Korhan name over Seyran. #YalıÇapkını/5
In 14, Seyran said you never got to know me. You can’t manipulate me w/ fear b/c I’ve already faced my worst fears. Even now, he keeps threatening abt what she’ll lose. Not once does he come & hold up the promise of what he, Ferit, can give her. #YalıÇapkını/6
Seyran, in her silence, loves Ferit deeply because of the person he is & not the silver spoon he comes with. That person, in his anger could raise his hand on her - a violently abused girl - proves to her he doesn’t see her inner scars. #YalıÇapkını/7
On what strength should she stay? Ferit has no financial independence, he’s a slave to his volatile emotions & his need to appease Dede. She tried to support his psychological needs, held him when he was broken, but he never really understood hers. #YalıÇapkını/8
He lusted after Seyran while he still dallied with P & not divorcing her became an act of defiance b/c authority figures were manipulating him into doing so. When push came to shove, did he take a stand against Halis? Did he stand up & say no, I won’t sign? #YaşıÇapkını/9
Seyran is emotionally numb but she cannot be manipulated by promise of money & comfort. Her only weak point is Suna/Esme & she complies w/ Kazim’s force to spare them pain. Even that will crack as she begins to lose trust in Suna. #YaliCapkini /10
Setting aside the inconsistent script, drown out everything and just focus on a 19 year old abused girl whose only truth is that she wanted to be valued as a human being. #YalıÇapkını/11
If & when Ferit understands this & acts on it, without ego, willing to stand against the oppression, & hold her hand because he wishes to stand next to her, only then can the potential of #SeyFer come to fruition. #YalıÇapkını/12
Seyran isn’t perfect. She’s the antithesis of P, where she will never use the pity card to gain Ferit’s love. To hide her scars, she screams & rants against Ferit’s entitled attitudes. She’ll need to learn how to communicate with him. #YalıÇapkını/13
If the storytelling had been more logical, it would have been easier to empathize with the characters. However, feeling emotionally abused by the production, with unnecessary actors & plots, I feel apathetic like Seyran. #YalıÇspkını/14
I want Seyran to walk out, save herself & never look back. If Ferit truly becomes man enough, he will follow her b/c then he’ll know that she was the only pure thing in his life who had no vested interest in holding his hand. #YalıÇapkını/15

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Apr 22
1Sen says the story was always supposed to go towards SeyFer divorce & Ferit plan to marry P. That assertion was made at ~ 19. Did the fans hold a gun to their heads that they took 10 weeks, 2 mafia interventions & Seyran suddenly become unbending after everything she embraced? 1
Did the fans force the writer to pen a convoluted plot about a Ifakat scheming that Ferit discovers & never discloses to the one who matters? Did the fans force 1Sen to keep inciting the fandom w/ unnecessary posts about P, putting a target on the girl’s back? 2
Did the fans force a Seyran who went from saying “I’ll teach you everything you need to know” to this unyielding woman unwilling to see Ferit’s sense of commitment? 3
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Jan 21
OBJECTIVITY ~ when emotions run high, human beings lose sight of this. #SeyFer displays this in copious amounts & so do the tired fans who are spent from watching the seemingly same rigamarole for 18 weeks. Here’s my analysis 🧵 for Ep 18 #YalıÇapkını/1 Image
We are still reeling from Ferit’s psychotic skit w/ P in 17, when it got piled on w/ his altercation w/ Serter, screaming spree w/ P over phone, & another explosive argument w/ Seyran, during which he even sends Ifakat packing #YalıÇapkını/2
Separated by time & less emotional investment in the characters, here’s my interpretation. Ferit had been in a toxic relationship for 3 yrs. Neither grew from e/o & both exploited the other’s weaknesses to hold onto what they needed. #YalıÇapkını/3
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Jan 18
Alternate POV: "I'm ashamed for you" was not said to Seyran. #SeyFer is going through a power struggle to see how much each can assert boundaries on the other. He'll create a scene at the restaurant but maybe he gets closer to accepting his feelings for her #YalıÇapkını/1 Image
On a wide spectrum of how 'abuse' is defined, Ferit tries to make himself look better against Kazim's more crude/visible form of abuse. He doesn't self-reflect enough to accept the psychological abuse he inflicts on Seyran #yalıçapkını/2 Image
Just because he doesn't hit doesn't mean that his decrees hurt her any less. Seyran's reflexive response to the perceived oppression from Ferit is to lash out harshly. She also doesn't appreciate how much Ferit accepts this self-expression compared to Kazim. #yalıçapkını/3
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Jan 15
BOUNDARIES ~ With the discovery of Orhan & Ifakat, Ferit turns to the worst of his attitudes. Trust in life broken, he goes overboard w/ his need to control. Simultaneously, Seyran becomes firmer w/ her boundaries. My 🧵 on Ep17 #YalıÇapkını/1
Though he came to Defne’s w/ wrong intentions, he responds to Seyran’s steadfastness. Through his caustic & eventually broken behavior, he lets her hold him, calm him down. He doesn’t shove her away. #YalıÇapkını/2
In this poignant scene where Seyran comes & holds him, Ferit says, “I’m sorry.” I interpret that as an apology for his/family’s weakness; that she has to witness this kind of betrayal, & also see the great Ferit Korhan be so broken. #YalıÇapkını/3
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Jan 10
In r’ships hurtful words/actions are said/taken. Sometimes w/ intention, or as a habit, or blinded by anger or whatever. One can forgive but one doesn’t forget. Why is it worthy for Seyran to keep fighting for this r’ship? What does love really mean to her? #YalıÇapkını/1
In earlier episodes, she made it clear if there’s no trust, there’s no love. She moved on from Yusuf solely on this principle. She still doesn’t trust Ferit w/ her heart but she loves him. Why? B/c he played savior? Made her feel special at times? Habit? #YalıÇapkını/2
He’s humiliated her so many times - I can understand why it’s difficult for her to leave the marriage - but why is her feelings shown as being love? Does she really think he’ll change? Is she another P in the making who’ll become complacent for ‘love’? #YalıÇapkını/3
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Jan 9
There are 🧵 on Ferit’s psychological disorder, most likely Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). I’m not a trained psychologist; I don’t find his charlacterization or plots to be consistent enough to provide a clinical perspective on his character #YalıÇapkını /1
Taking surface elements from NPD & transposing them onto Ferit or how he affects people around him is a rather irresponsible approach to highlighting the problem, IMO. Either do it with full integrity with clinical consultants on staff or write a good drama #YalıÇapkını/2
My analyses will stay away from trying to provide clinical perspectives. I focus on the actors’ interpretations of their roles & a plot coherence that’s defensible. #YalıÇapkını/3
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