Kerala Story does the most disservice to women. Treats women reductively as just repositories of community identity. Also portrays them as helpless, having no agency. Both form Hindutva's idea of women. Only meant to imbibe and further religion, in constant need of protection!
It's in this vein that Jauhar and other brutality against women in history gets valourised on screen, as acts which dehumanise a woman leaving only her religious identity intact. Women as a rule must be very circumspect of community identities!
Patriarchy will continue to treat women as subservient to other identities and auxiliaries to institutions that constantly marginalise women, such as religion. Always remember what Pandita Ramabai said in 1907, religion cannot be your salvation! #NeverForget
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TW: Abuse/Self Harm. Submitted my PhD thesis. Minor bumps on the way like getting out of a physically and mentally abusive relationship (my only one!), battling PTSD, many self sabotaging beliefs and scary thoughts about self harm. This one's for my only beacon of light.
Abuse creates a world of deep loneliness. Your abuser is quite alright with everyone else he meets, creating a really disturbing "why me?" in your mind which is a lot more difficult to overcome than the abuse itself. Worse if it's laced with breadcrumbing "love"
The world created by abuse has plenty of answers for this why me, coz you're weak, coz youre still here, coz you're the problem. The key is to know there does exist another world sans your abuser, where you do meet people who do not abuse you