What a photo. In S.Korea, a growing number of venues like cafes, casual bistros, or even public libraries ban children under the "no kids" banner, supposedly not to inconvenience other patrons. One MP criticized the "exclusionary" practice in a presser, with her toddler in tow.
FYI, South Korea has recorded the lowest birthrates in the world for years, and the increasing prevalence of the public/private spaces enforcing the "no-kids" rule sparked a viral (and bitter) joke, "South Koreans love no-kids zones so much that the whole country has become one."
"In order to boost our birthrate that is the world's lowest, we should first change our society that rejects children," @yong_hyein said. "Children are our fellow citizens who learn about the world for the first time, so they can be slow, clumsy, or inexperienced in everything."
"But all of us are, or were once children...The society we want is not one that is only made for people who are quick, skillful, and experienced - but one where it's okay to be slow, clumsy, or inexperienced," Yong said (apologies for the photo dump, but the child is so cute!😅)
Since the thread is blowing up, here's a bit of shameless self-promotion: Flowers of Fire, which chronicles S.Korea's feminist movement, also explains about no-kids zones, why so many women in S.Korea shun marriage/childbirth, and many more. If interested: penguinrandomhouse.com/books/718956/f…
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Some exciting news: "Flowers of Fire," my book about South Korea's #metoo movement, will be officially released on March 7, 2023- a day before the International Women's Day! After more than 4 years of reporting & writing, it's such a thrill to know this book will be finally out.
Apart from #metoo, the book also chronicles the wave of feminist movement that has swept S.Korea since the late 2010s & brought in many social/cultural changes- e.g. the fights against digital sex crimes, abortion ban, strict beauty standards, or the pressure to marry/give birth.
For those who've mostly seen South Korea through its pop culture, I hope this book could help them understand a bit more about the everyday lives of S.Korean women & their hopes & struggles for equality in a country known to have the biggest gender inequity in the advanced world.
While everyone in S.Korea is doom-scrolling on this pivotal election night, I think of the ordinary women/men I met in the court of reporting for my book & whose daily lives may be deeply affected by the outcome of the election, esp. in terms of gender equality (a long thread)
1) They include widely-stigmatized unwed moms who receive support from the gender equality ministry, which will become history once the rightwing candidate, Yoon, wins the election (unwed moms in S.Korea are shamed & discriminated against so relentlessly that over 90% of them...
...lose give up their jobs around childbirth, being pushed into poverty, or to give up their babies, often under the pressure from families; at least 120,000 such babies were subsequently sent away for overseas adoption, a decades-long practice that still persists today).
History in the making. More than 20,000 South Korean women angrily urged the gov't to crack down on the widespread 'molka' (spy cam) crimes that secretly film women at public toilet/public transport/office/school- in the biggest-ever protest held by women in the nation. #혜화시위
The so-called molka crimes are so rampant in South Korea that news about men- from school teachers to pastors - caught secretly filming women make headlines on a daily basis. Here's a story I did in 2016 about this sickening trend with no sign of stopping goo.gl/4gyRyV
What's worse, sharing the molka footage & so-called revenge porn videos with other men on the Internet has become sthg of a "fun pastime" amg these high-tech peeping Toms. Here's a story I did in 2017 about S.Korean women's battle against online sex crimes goo.gl/ZS8aV6
So much tears & hugs at this marathon two-day speaking event in Seoul for women to share their experiences & thoughts over sex abuse. I saw women talk about abuses by bosses/church elders/a husband & insults by police when they came forward, in the span of just an hour. #metoo
The speaking event- inspired by a quote by poet Muriel Rukeyser “What would happen if one woman told the truth about her life? The world would split open.” - runs for 2,018 minutes non-stop from Thursday morning to 7 pm on Friday in Seoul. #2018분동안의_이어말하기
This filibuster-style event is now going into hour number 15 as nearly 100 women- some wearing masks due to fears of shaming- have come forward to share their stories. Wonder if they can make it through the freezing night but kudos to all the brave women who made this possible.