“You look nice. At first I thought you were from X but now I think you’re from Y”
DO
• Approach her from side, turn to her
• Strong eye contact
• Playful cheeky vibe
DON’T
• Speak too softly
• Speak too quickly
• Lean in to talk
X is your initial cold read
Y is your revised cold read
EXAMPLE
I just talked to a tall blonde girl at this museum I’m at. I said to her:
“Excuse me. You look nice. At first I thought you were Swedish but now I think you’re German because of your punk rock vibe”
SCRIPT
“Excuse me. You look nice. At first I thought you were X now I think you’re Y bc of Z”
You don’t have to be completely logical. Be creative, observant, whimsical. The words are not as important as the vibe you put out — fun, playful, curious, genuinely interested in her
SCRIPT
“Excuse me. You look nice. At first I thought you were X now I think you’re Y bc of Z”
KEY TIP
You say “excuse me” to get her attention. Don’t continue talking until you have her full attention. Once you have strong direct eye contact, continue with “You look nice…”
Saying “you look nice” is important because it establishes the man-woman vibe but it doesn’t over invest
Saying “you look beautiful” would be over investing — coming on too strong — and would probably make her feel uncomfortable
I learned this from Yad
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• Don’t confuse what you find attractive in men with what men find attractive in women
• For example, just because you find men with masters degrees attractive doesn’t mean men find women with masters degrees attractive
DATING ADVICE FOR WOMEN
• Don’t confuse what you find attractive in men with what men find attractive in women
• For example, just because you find men with tattoos attractive doesn’t mean that men find women with tattoos attractive
DATING ADVICE FOR WOMEN
• Don’t confuse what you find attractive in men with what men find attractive in women
• For example, just because you find men with a sarcastic sense of humor attractive doesn’t mean that men find women with a sarcastic sense of humor attractive
"How long did it take you to realize all these nuggets of wisdom that have helped you understand women so well?"
For me, it all starting coming together after my divorce at 35. That was over ten years ago. Three key things helped me get where I am today:
1-I started learning about sexual polarity, evolutionary psychology, game and frame control. I started reading Deida, Roissy, Mystery, Lovedrop, Yohami and many others...
In the past ten years, I’ve been dating and learning and failing and succeeding in the brutal dating market
All these first-hand experiences have helped me test out the theories I learned and helped me develop theories of my own
Explaining my green line theory in three tweets and 12 screengrabs. Let me know if this helps you understand the concept. If you still have any questions, ask them in the comments. Thanks! 💚