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Agba John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 14

When a woman's secrets are exposed, she becomes violent.

This DM will explain it yet again.

But I'll advise you.

And please, you don't have to agree with me, because I know you're in love.

Your fiancée refused to create boundaries for you, and she was flirtatious with three

different men.

She's also 23 & feels she's still a hot cake & perhaps, too young to get married.

This is what I keep saying that some ladies don't listen until they self destruct.

If your fiancée can be as deep as telling three different men that she is in her period, & other

private discussions she has with you, what do you think she can do with those men, if they were in the same country?

You do realize that there is a high possibility that she may have had sexy video calls with them correct?

One thing you must always know is this.

So far she

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Agba John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 14

If you think women don't know that the consequences of being caught cheating is not the same for men & women, then you're not as honest to yourself, as you should be.

Women are very daring.

They'll dare you in so many areas, just to test how weak or strong you are.

They know

what they're doing & will push you to the extent that you'll fall off the cliff & still refuse to be accountable for it.

A woman that opens her legs for another man, knows what the consequences are, if she gets caught.

The moment she gets caught, she knows it's game over.

But she will still find a way to see if you can forgive her, so that the next time she cheats again, she will blame you for it.

You're the one who fell for her trick.

She outsmarted you.

And it doesn't matter how old she is, even young female teens know this.

It's inherent

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Agba John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 14

Young lady, please read carefully as I write to you.

I don't know for how long you've been following me, but I won't be surprised if you're amongst those who don't believe in what I teach here.

In your bid to claim that you love your boyfriend, you have overstepped the line.

Indeed, men are more loyal to the sacrifices of women, than their own feelings.

But you really have crossed the red line & you got caught.

Big mistake.

When I talk about sacrifices, paying his rent for him should never have been part of it.

Yes he cried and appreciated it but

did you notice that he low key resented you for that?

You made him feel incapable, which was why he went ahead to rent a 3 bedroom flat, later.

When he did, what did he say to you?

"it's my money that I worked hard for"

Sort of like trying to tell you that he can take care of

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Agba John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 13

When I was earning about 75k, my wife was earning about the same amount.

I proposed to her, she accepted but asked that we defer the wedding, until I was able to find a better job that would be sustainable.

This was even after many years of dating.

She didn't say "I have my

own money, I'll take up part of the wedding bills".

I was even living in one room self con with friends.

She was already 25+ then too.

And it wasn't as if suitors were not coming as well.

But she stood her grounds knowing that I would be her husband, & love, is fleeting.

Things changed for the better, and we got married.

When I say women don't love men.

Some of you, will think it's meant to discredit women.

No, it's not.

If my wife had agreed to marry me at the time, the tendency for me to be complacent was there.

The probability that she

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Agba John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 11

Young man, please read carefully as I advise you.

Your DM annoys me & at the same time, makes me sad.

Let me tell you something.

If my parents or my wife's parents had known that I was cohabiting with their daughter in school, they would have come to my place, to drag their

daughter out.

Why?

1) we were students
2) we were too young
3) they could feed their daughter & take care of everything she needed
4) they would have seen me as an irresponsible young boy

But we cohabited anyways & they knew me early enough.

The only thing they didn't know,

was that we were cohabiting.

And the only time they came to visit their daughter in school, was during her matriculation.

Then, she was still staying in the campus hostel.

As children, our parents know we are inquisitive & daring.

But what a responsible & disciplined parent

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Agba John Doe

@jon_d_doe

May 10

This married woman's DM has to be one of the most confusing DM I've ever read.

I read through and couldn't pin point exactly what her husband did wrong to her.

From your write up, you're the selfish one and not your husband.

You're the nagging one and not your husband.

You and your husband have a plan to relocate, & he's saving almost 80% of his earnings towards that.

His side hustle is stagnating because of debts.

You are not working because you're a mother.

He seldom sends money to your parents but sends to his.

You have millions saved

up in the bank by yourself and according to you, it's towards the relocation plans.

What exactly do you want?

Let me tell you, everything you're saying is your problem is all about your feelings.

You want to be happy at the expense of everything else.

Just because things are

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